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Archimedes

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  1. I would not say danger, but what kind of new friends she get in your country, be it Thai or locals, will affect her views and in turn your relationship. This goes both ways, so in some instances it can be positive and in some cases negative.

    The chance for an negative effect is much higher than a positive one though.

  2. So one way or the other it should not be too long till she is back home but one thing she is worried about is how she can get a divorce if he does not want to play ball which will probably be the case as they were married in thailand and i think that both parties have to agree.

    To do it quick and easy both have to agree.

    But there are a lot of provisions which allows just 1 part to instigate and get a divorce too, so just have her contact a lawyer about the process when she gets back to Thailand.

  3. They way i see it is that this will act as an insurance policy should something happen in the future, and will not put my own savings at risk. I am happy to pay the payments to start with and then once she is working i will help with them. By doing it this way it seems everybody wins. But i have no experience with Thai finance and would apprentice any help from you guys.

    If the first thing in your mind is to get security for yourself rather than trust in your wife to be, then its maybe time to re-thing the whole "get married" idea.

    First its not a very large amount asked as sin-sod, secondly if you can not trust your wife to be then why get married at all?

  4. 20k-30k sounds a bit stiff when compared to your expected salary, i would say you should atleast try to keep it under 30%. You should also have a look at something like mrroomfinder.com , there you can find appartments/condos in lower price ranges too...search for instance in the Sathorn aria with a price range from 10 to 15.000 thb and you can find many ok alternatives.

  5. Contact TOT and inquire about SME/Business/Premier Plan services.

    The standard plans from all providers are only good for domestic use.

    If you require any kind of international "speed" you neeed to be on a premier or sme/business service plan, its a bit more expensive but much more reliable and closer to the "package" speed which you have ordered.

  6. Many of the Thai girls who have lived abroad have countless stories of men (often older men and/or unattractive men) simply assuming they are easy and/or for "hire" who only try to initiate a conversion to such effects, so they naturally just try to ignore such persons. Also its not viewed as very "positive" when a "such" a man tries to talk to them in Thai, that usually just confirmed their option of him as a typical "sex-tourist" type.

    On the other hand if a young (same age bracket), relative hansom and sober man tries to strike up a conversation, be it in English or Thai, they will usually be much more inclined to respond in a polite and even sometimes in a interested manner.

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