Jump to content

ozdavid

Member
  • Posts

    7
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Posts posted by ozdavid

  1. Hi all ,

    I hope someone can help me , I am here in Australia and I live with my Thai spouse and we are getting to the point where marriage is on the cards but I have recently come across a letter written in Thai that

    is recent and is written by my spouse to her darling husband . As you can imagine I feel like a fool that this women has used me to get a visa in Australia and I would like to end the relationship if in fact she is married to someone in Thailand. Now my question is , how do I go about confirming if my Thai spouse is married still , is there some sort of Registra search engine that I can use on the internet to find out ? or would I have to go to the Thai embassy here in Australia and request such information (for a large fee no doubt).

    Hope someone can help me out on this so that I can kick her out and move on with my life.

    David .

    Thanks to everyone for all the great information .

    I am in a de-facto relationship with this women and we are now going through the final process of her becoming a Permnent Resident here in Australia , so I still have about a month away before a decision is granted in her favour , therefore I would like to phone up the immigration department and tell them that I don't wish to go ahead with getting her the residency but I really want to be sure first.

    I see from some of the responses that having Miss on a passport or ID card may not mean that she is not married and that she could have just done the monk thing, but overall I would like to do a search with the correct department to see if she has a marriage noted down with the Registra . I would ideally like to find a website that will allow me to do a search online to get this information .

    As for the whole experience it has not been easy with a thai women but overall it is alot better then being with a western women , I think the best way to be is just have fun with thai women and no commitment .

    David

    Hi All ,

    I have finally got the letter translated by a thai agency here in Australia , the gist of the letter was that she

    had a non legal husband just to satisfy her family wanting her to be married and the letter was in the context of her saying to this man to stop harassing her family when they where in the local town , she also made it clear that it has been over for 4 years and that he should move on. I am so glad that I did not jump the gun and get her kicked out of the country , I feel so much better now that she is not using me for a visa , but when she keeps secrets like this it does not help my parinoia .Thanks for all the great advice from everyone , even the ones that said get her out of my life , I can understand where you are coming from when you say kick her to the curb but it is alot harder to do with out full proof and that fact that you love the women .

    Just to clear up the misunderstanding about western women vs thai , what I am meaning is that a western women thinks you owe her everything and will give little or nothing in return whilst a thai women will at least give you something in return even if her motives are bad (like getting a visa from you) , now I am in no way saying it is o.k to screw a guy over and use him to get a visa/cash etc , a less of two evils I guess. I would like to trust women but I have had a few bad experiences and I now feel that it is inevitable that men and women will want extra fun outside there relationships as the longer you are together things get dull .It's human nature at the end of the day and it is society that is trying to force the the concepts of one-to-one relationships , alas saying that it still hurts if you think or know that your partner is with someone else.

    Thanks again to everyone .

    David

  2. Hi all ,

    I hope someone can help me , I am here in Australia and I live with my Thai spouse and we are getting to the point where marriage is on the cards but I have recently come across a letter written in Thai that

    is recent and is written by my spouse to her darling husband . As you can imagine I feel like a fool that this women has used me to get a visa in Australia and I would like to end the relationship if in fact she is married to someone in Thailand. Now my question is , how do I go about confirming if my Thai spouse is married still , is there some sort of Registra search engine that I can use on the internet to find out ? or would I have to go to the Thai embassy here in Australia and request such information (for a large fee no doubt).

    Hope someone can help me out on this so that I can kick her out and move on with my life.

    David .

    Thanks to everyone for all the great information .

    I am in a de-facto relationship with this women and we are now going through the final process of her becoming a Permnent Resident here in Australia , so I still have about a month away before a decision is granted in her favour , therefore I would like to phone up the immigration department and tell them that I don't wish to go ahead with getting her the residency but I really want to be sure first.

    I see from some of the responses that having Miss on a passport or ID card may not mean that she is not married and that she could have just done the monk thing, but overall I would like to do a search with the correct department to see if she has a marriage noted down with the Registra . I would ideally like to find a website that will allow me to do a search online to get this information .

    As for the whole experience it has not been easy with a thai women but overall it is alot better then being with a western women , I think the best way to be is just have fun with thai women and no commitment .

    David

    I posted what I thought was a reasonable reply to what looked like a dilemma for you but then noted your final comment which I find a little repugnant - so therefore have deleted my earlier comments.

    HI Artisi ,

    can you please clarify what you found so repugnant about my last comment, I don't mean to offend anyone it is just my opinion due to experiences with western women and thai women .

    David

  3. Is there a ministry department or though online methods you can check a particular Thai girl is married ?

    YES!

    Fell free to PM for further investigation(S)...

    Please can you tell me more about the ministry department or other method to find out if a thai women is married.

    Thanks

    David

    P.S Please share (information is power)

  4. Hi all ,

    I hope someone can help me , I am here in Australia and I live with my Thai spouse and we are getting to the point where marriage is on the cards but I have recently come across a letter written in Thai that

    is recent and is written by my spouse to her darling husband . As you can imagine I feel like a fool that this women has used me to get a visa in Australia and I would like to end the relationship if in fact she is married to someone in Thailand. Now my question is , how do I go about confirming if my Thai spouse is married still , is there some sort of Registra search engine that I can use on the internet to find out ? or would I have to go to the Thai embassy here in Australia and request such information (for a large fee no doubt).

    Hope someone can help me out on this so that I can kick her out and move on with my life.

    David .

    Thanks to everyone for all the great information .

    I am in a de-facto relationship with this women and we are now going through the final process of her becoming a Permnent Resident here in Australia , so I still have about a month away before a decision is granted in her favour , therefore I would like to phone up the immigration department and tell them that I don't wish to go ahead with getting her the residency but I really want to be sure first.

    I see from some of the responses that having Miss on a passport or ID card may not mean that she is not married and that she could have just done the monk thing, but overall I would like to do a search with the correct department to see if she has a marriage noted down with the Registra . I would ideally like to find a website that will allow me to do a search online to get this information .

    As for the whole experience it has not been easy with a thai women but overall it is alot better then being with a western women , I think the best way to be is just have fun with thai women and no commitment .

    David

  5. Hi all ,

    I hope someone can help me , I am here in Australia and I live with my Thai spouse and we are getting to the point where marriage is on the cards but I have recently come across a letter written in Thai that

    is recent and is written by my spouse to her darling husband . As you can imagine I feel like a fool that this women has used me to get a visa in Australia and I would like to end the relationship if in fact she is married to someone in Thailand. Now my question is , how do I go about confirming if my Thai spouse is married still , is there some sort of Registra search engine that I can use on the internet to find out ? or would I have to go to the Thai embassy here in Australia and request such information (for a large fee no doubt).

    Hope someone can help me out on this so that I can kick her out and move on with my life.

    David .

×
×
  • Create New...