TheyCallmeScooter

My wifes contention is they could work if they wanted to , just too lazy , she isnt real keen on the payme salary part either , I remind her when shw wants money for shopping

My girlfriend says the same thing. Thai unemployment rates are under 1%, they could always open a noodle stand, or work in a 7/11, there's one on every street. Familymart if they're not professional enough for 7/11.

In poorer countries like Vietnam there are much fewer prostitutes.

It's something in the 'mai pen rai' attitude and ability to compartmentalize things. Oh I'll just sleep with guy 'a little' then go temple to make merit and it'll all be fine.

That and lazy manipulative parents demanding money flow upwards to 'take care' of them, the more the better no questions asked where it's coming from.

Manipulative parents are the engine room of Thailand's sex industry. They play Confidence Tricks on their daughters that are so cruel...it's all about the shame.

There are so many examples of "blaming the victim" in this thread, it's hard to address them individually. The "well women should raise better boys if they want to lower violence against women" claim puts the onus for correction on the oppressed class. You're placing the onus for correction on the victims.

Toddlers aren't victims? I don't even want to live in a world with people like you. I'm leaving, your insanity is intolerable.

And you greatly overstate the power women have over children who identify themselves as boys. TL;DR: the theory that mothers can create good sons in the absence of social changes is bullshit.

So you're admitting every woman who claims she needs to remain at home to raise children Right is a complete fraud enslaving a man and beating violence into her children for no reason.

Thai boys are raised to think they are the centre of the Universe - by their families which include their mothers. They are cosseted from an early age to believe they can do no wrong. Families bankrupt themselves to put them into the monkhood for a few months before moving back into society where they begin the process of impregnating a number of women before moving on leaving the woman/child without support.

Your misogynistic and sexist view is that women are impregnated? They are mindless objects to you.

This world is horrifying.

define abuse?

Your post?

Asking a valid question is abuse?

You made the man's argument for him.

I think it is more a case of jealousy, insecurity, and inferiority. Let's face it, women have the marvelous product.

Men biologically desire to please women. There is negligible sensory reward for men in sex, but victims of traumatic abuse are easily confused by sensory v imagined stimuli. Take, for example, the offence some people imagine they feel. They imagine someone external to their imagination is in control of their mind, and is hurting them with their actions or words. "Stop", they'll scream in a violent rage. "Stop hurting me. Put some clothes on."

But it's not the mean words or naked truth that hurts. It's the trauma the victims of early childhood abuse have suffered that makes them hurt themselves in their imaginations. No one can control their mind but them. They just don't realise it after having control taken from them when they were helpless and vulnerable.

Now that I've shown you how almost everyone is emotionally insane, you should be able to understand the confused blur between sensory and imagined feelings. I assure you, sex has almost no sensory reward for men. This is a physiological fact you can verify. Men who love sex don't actually love sex, they love the idea of sex. They need the validation, the approval of women. This is actually natural, but it's been abused. There's no other biological reward for men. It's only a problem for men who aren't validated by prostitutes-in-denial. For men like this, we have no reason to be alive.

Men have an insatiable desire to get some of that product.

I heard they'll even wear cosmetics to get product they cannot gain via legitimate means. Hell, they might even abuse children to make them confused -- and exploitable -- for life.

Men realize they can be manipulated by that product and the weaker, mentally challenged, cretins among us react by using brute force--the only real superiority they may have over women.

Those evil toddlers, beating up their mothers, lying to their mothers, exploiting the real superiority males have over women. I'm sorry you had to learn about women's violent superiority in such traumatic terms, that you've embarrassingly suppressed all memory of event.

Now, before someone jumps on me saying, "I'm not like that . . ." or "Everything isn't based on sex . . .," let me say I am speaking in general terms; as are all descriptions of behavioral norms or cultural dimensions.

Who creates and controls behavioral norms and cultural dimensions? Who had first access to your impressionable mind? In this world, the most inferior imagine they're superior, as their abusers nod and tell them they're right. You're the man. Women are helpless.

Keep oppressing them with your wallet. Keep exploiting them by fighting and dying to gain their withheld favour. You're a Real Man, fake women say.

But what do men say? I'm talking about real men, not the married slaves of women. No one is more inferior than them.

there are almost 100 abuse cases reported daily, with most of the attackers a partner or family member.

Clearly the answer is to get rid of the Dark Ages private family home / codependent wedlock / capture-bonding abuse of children with violence and shame.

Aun (not her real name) has been victimised by her "hot tempered" husband for decades. The physical and mental abuse has left her yearning for a separation but the thought of her two kids being without a dad means she continues to endure the abuse.

Another way of looking at the above situation would be:

Aun has been bullying her emotionally battered husband for decades, suffocating the life out of him with her illegitimate imposition and noncontribution. At times, the physical retaliation in response to her physical and emotional provocation in refusing to leave or give her victim any peace, has left her wondering if maybe she shouldn't have just studied and developed her mind to gain her independence rather than wasting her youth on cosmetic extortion to ensure as many men as possible might be forced to treat her Right. But she didn't so she has no choice but to continue to expose her children to danger on account of her real existence as a dysfunctional parasite who cannot even take care of herself, using her children as pretexts to justify her lecherous need to latch onto a man forced to sustain her illegitimate existence.

It's time for the lies to end. Men are pathetic for letting this parasitic conduct get so out of hand.

You can be fined max 10.000 baht for not completed the T.M 30 form to immigrations.

Must the TM30 be completed and submitted to Immigration when the guest checks in? Is it something that can be done the next day, etc?

most relationships between western males and south East asian Woman revolve around the woman being paid

human nature is charm the male into caring then giving.

I beg you to forgive the mutilation of your post but I have edited it to reflect reality. It's far more serious than mere money. Men willing to give are taken for all they are willing to give.

You should see the other guys. Human nature is the same, no matter what.

War profiteers laughed all the way to Hell.

Just take money out of the equation, and i am sure "reality" will hit hard

If men took money out of the equation, reality would hit like Utopia.

I read a book once that hasn't been written yet with the central premise that:

If men stopped paying women to undress, women would have no motive to dress.

If men stopped paying women to 'favour' them, women would have no motive to withhold their universal favour (if a woman can love sleeping with Donald Trump, every man is a han sum guy).

If men stopped rewarding women for abusing / deceiving / exploiting them, women would have no motive to abuse / deceive / exploit men.

If men stopped marrying women who cannot take care of themselves, women would be able to take care of their children.

Etcetera.

The reality is women will always reflect men's capacity to compromise themselves. Men pay women to extort them.

I have no sympathy with somebody who is engaging in a physical fight with a woman. Scumbags.

I'm not a violent person and I've never been in a physical altercation in my life, but whenever someone says this, it strikes me as strange.

What kind of father won't be able to protect his children? A useless father like I would have been, considering the times I've failed to protect children from women engaging in physical fights with them.

What kind of a man would hit a child but not a woman? That's not something I'd brag about.

Money compensation to relatives of the victim is vastly more logical than the US system. Money talks and humans are objectified, that's just reality. In the US, 80% of prisoners have never harmed anyone. If you think that's justice, and believe there will be a form of judgement day in the afterlife, you're more confused than a ladyboy in love with a violent homophobe.

This guy knew what he was doing. He deserves a long spell inside.

Clearly.

The guy tried to maul a flight attendant in front of the passengers and cabin crew. I don't think he had a clue what planet he was on. That's a psychotic episode, but it's alarming that you believe his conduct was rational.

Oh dear my friend. Enjoy your stay in Thai prison. You have earned it.

The article further states that NO CHARGES WERE FILED ! Incredible, this <deleted> should get at least 6 months of hard labour for such an act !!

Why? To deter him from Being Insane again?

The way you "crime and punishment" types go on, it's as if you believe the Insane stood to gain from Crimes of Passion. I don't think there's any profit to be had. The Crazy are just plain old crazy, there's no need to get all emotional about it. As if they were cheating you out of fun...

Yes. "Him" as in fat cranky falang??

This world has no respect for children. They are biological royalty and people strike them. It's sacrilege.

How to avoid looking at the hollow end of a revolver. Don't do this.

Have eaten at the Irish Clock many times. This guy has got balls !!

Hard to tell, looks like the Thai guy was brandishing some zip gun?

As long as the guy was going to hit the Thai robber, he should have

finished the job by knocking him out. As the video went on, I kept

waiting for the farang to be shot off of his bike by the Thai guy...

Thai robber? It's a kid trying to sell him flowers, no?

Don't be antisocial and no one will have a reason to harm you.

How would you protect yourself against an attack like this?

Police say the German man was sitting with two Thai friends near a park...when three Thai teenagers suddenly attacked him with a garden hoe.

The attack also left one of the German's friends with a broken arm, police say.

We are not getting the whole story here. The motive tendered is false.

But if someone imagined a reason to kill or try to kill me, I would just let them but I would ask them to tell me why.

I have reasoned with drunks and fools my entire life. Of course, you need the capacity to reason.

What reason would someone have to harm you, are you planning to walk around with something they've been conditioned to desire? Are you planning on disrespecting the liberty, personal integrity (or image, which narcissists prize more than life or limb) of those who cross your path? Are you malicious or rude, do you have shady intentions or a black heart? Are you looking to take advantage of others? Do you have a bruised ego or the psychosis that makes lunatics self-harm in their imaginations when offended?

Don't be antisocial and no one will have a reason to harm you. You sound a bit like a Puritan woman concerned for her precious virtue.

it's the spoiled brats who cry for hours on end for no reason that drive people nuts.

Children cry because they're unhappy and in pain. They have a reason. They're not crying for fun. Good grief, they're not dependent women.

I think most of the suffering involved comes down to bad parents who just don't care. I have been on flights where I thought brawls would break out between (justifiably) angry passengers and hapless parents.

If I flew with a baby, I would do something like this.

Thai males are taught from an early age that they are superior to the deferring females. There are rules for this.

If only they had mothers being PAID to raise them Right.

It is also typical for the females to mistreat and sometimes beat their darker skinned, employees, maids and servants.

And nearly 100% of toddlers. When they're impressionable.

Treating women fairly, in many countries, not just Thailand, is seen as weakness on the part of the male.

I hope this woman recovers from her injuries and finds a more suitable man to be her companion.

Why would she start liking 'weak' men? She respects violence, as you just correctly pointed out albeit for incorrect reasons.

The man has probably witnessed this type treatment of women at his home for years , thus he may feel he is just carrying on a family tridition.

The man has probably experienced this type of treatment by women at home for many years.

You think toddlers violently discipline their mothers? That would be something but bullies are cowards. They love the bullies who beat them into submission and find an easier target to bully.

You can't protect men from their destiny, but why bother? Preserve them for a better predator, one with merit? 55 They were born for this.

Men are prey, women are predators; the latter breeds the former. Men are bred to suffer, blinded by illusions, left dazed and confused, made to search for [betrayal] on a planet with precious little else to offer.

By "men", "them" and "they", of course I mean "me". But it's no doubt true for all.

Man can be taken by charms .....Read the poets ..."" Paradise lost"" by Milton .

It has nothing to do with intelligence or being a goose.

It's important new men going there just say No !!!

It's more often than not a scam ....a manipulation ..

Men can't accept the truth about women, there are existential implications. How can men be made to realise their lifelong perception of reality has been nothing but fiction? You can't protect men from their destiny, but why bother? Preserve them for a better predator, one with merit? 55 They were born for this.

Men are prey, women are predators; the latter breeds the former. Men are bred to suffer, blinded by illusions, left dazed and confused, made to search for [betrayal] on a planet with precious little else to offer. It's biopolitics, divide and conquer. Force and fraud saturated the globe long ago.

TLDR: Life is a scam. Manipulation begins in utero. There's no reward for men with merit. Bleed fast or bleed slow. Why is slow better?

Girls know I'm spineless and weak. It's true but not for the reasons they imagine. They don't respect my refusal to play their twisted game. Many men play. Some are in prison for that mistake, some for the mistake of not playing. Every Catch-22 is intended in a world of hijack that begins at birth (an easy mistake to make). They go to obsessive lengths to make the mistake of leaving increasingly difficult.

That is one dangerously clever girl.

Clever? I'd have seen her coming a mile off!

There's a reason they say love blinds. As you're so clever, you can probably guess the reason.

If you're claiming to be incapable of love, that would be impressive. If you're claiming to be too clever to love women with ignoble intent, if I were you I'd ask myself how wanting someone to be blind can ever be noble? I would also ask myself why the desired blindness is needed. Romantic love is not a Natural emotion. All love in Nature is selfish, even the mammal mother's love for her defenceless young (who are part of her Self until they're unattached / independent).

If you're capable of love, you're not clever enough to see malice coming a mile off. The last girl who blinded me refused all my attempts to pay -- she was loaded --- while surreptitiously eroding my sense of Self-worth in contrived isolation to make me imagine I needed her. I'd be lying if I claimed she couldn't have bankrupted me by leaving me once I needed her. In the end, I discovered the only reason she didn't need my money that she had multiple men trying to throw their worthless bank balances at her in desperate misery, having been made to imagine they needed her, only to be abruptly cut off without explanation. I was no different from them.

This is a world of malicious illusions. There is much difference between what is real and what appears to be. Every girl is dangerously clever. Men are bred for exploitation.

There only reason those lowlives are here is because women in their own country (including the prostitutes) wouldnt touch them with a bargepole...

even prostitutes turn up their noses at men who've worked their entire lives, always paid their taxes, always obeyed the law, fought for their country, protected children, respected women

Some people have said to me 'I hope you grow old'... And so do I... So I can watch my family grow up and I can hand something down to them and spend time with them... Not so I can die 1000's of miles away from them with some new wife who I have signed over my life savings to and be forever thought of by my flesh and blood as a desperate old pervert...

Are the opinions of those who want you to suffer to please them worth considering?

If his children aren't supportive of his desire to be happy after a life of wage slavery, he should detach himself from their wretched need for misery and curse their mother for filling their minds with lies that tell children they're entitled to the suffering of others.

If you suffer to please those who are pleased by your suffering, you become part of the Problem.