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11 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:
A lot of folks who do tough it out in Thailand, generally don't have a lot of family connections. In fact in my experience quite a few seem totally estranged from their family back home.
I consider myself one of those folks- Which has made it very easy to stay here for so long. Outside of close friends, I can't say I've felt a longing to be close to my family again. They only contact me when someone has died. In my experience my family only ever got together on 2 occasions: funerals and Christmas. The latter being on the wane since my grand parents died. This has always been a point of interest and even concern from many Thais who can't comprehend a life without a loving family. But it is what it is.
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40 minutes ago, euroflash said:I moved back to Northern Europe three years ago after 11 years in Thailand. I am still trying to figure out whether to stay here or move back to Thailand.
I moved back mainly to try to find a real job, but now I work online, so that is not really a factor anymore.
I tried to make a list of pros and cons of Thailand and my home country and the result was 6-6! So it really is a difficult decision in my case.
While I do appreciate the more civil life here, I still hate the grey weather and high cost of living. I also miss the more simple life in Thailand. People in my country seem to complain about such small issues that pale in comparison with the real problems of this world.
But I certainly don't miss the visa hassle and dirty streets. At least here I can stay forever.
The jury is still out in my case...
It's definitely a reality check reading your post. It's not all a bed of roses returning home. I think one of the biggest appeals of life for me over the years here is being left alone & not to mention being out of the loop of all the dramas and bullshit that comes from my family back in Aus. While it gets boring being the obligatory farang here which used to make me roll my eyes, I now give it back by calling them some random piece of fruit, which then invites a bit of banter with the locals. But I do have my bad days where I don't want to hear it, but this is where headphones come in handy ?
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3 minutes ago, Odysseus123 said:
Well done Markusss-have a great time when you get back.
It's hard to say 'bout the kingdom really but I know what you mean.
Have a coldie on me!
I will Ody! Thanks for your good wishes & your valuable input mate ?
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17 minutes ago, Lacessit said:
I've been living here for 9 years. A couple of the people I know have died here. My problem with going back to Australia is everything is so expensive, particularly housing and water/power. Against that, my medical costs are almost free there, and the doctors don't think they are gods.
I can live well here in Thailand. In Australia, my diet would probably be toast and bowl noodles.
I agree about the cost of living. But when I way up the freedom of movement i will gain back again without having to look over my shoulder or check thaivisa for the latest visa rules again, I just feel the Aus is a much better place for me. The right of passage I have is something I've never really considered or really appreciated. But it is my home, and I intend to make the best of it.
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48 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:Well these threads seem to be coming thick and fast recently.
Without wanting to repeat myself too much, since I've participated in several similar discussions.
10 years and I was done for all the usual reasons, the shine had finally totally worn off.
So, been back in the US just over a year, with a vacation in Thailand for a couple of months over the winter.
Moving back home felt like a weight had been lifted from my shoulders. Life was just so easy again, no more having to deny plain facts that stared me in the face.
When people were friendly, they meant it, there wasn't garbage everywhere, no mangey dogs prowling the streets, when people drove they 'generally' obeyed the rules, cops were cops, and in general everything just worked! Oh yeah, and the power stays on, even after 2 claps of thunder!
The other plus of moving back was, when we returned for a vacation, it felt like a vacation, I could enjoy all those thing that first attracted me to the country, without having all the BS build up over time totally making me miserable.I'm not surprised that these threads of leaving are coming up as often as you said. I'm pressed to find anyone who raves about this place as many of us did back in the day. I'm never one to be a stickler or a complainer but I can't go on making excuses for this place anymore. I'm not saying that Thailand needs to fun all the time. I just don't remember it ever being this serious which I've found to become a completely boring & uninspiring experience. Due to this it's just not worth all the hoops one has to jump through to stay legal and out of the establishment's reach. But I'm not leaving as a hater. I still value working class Thais & their hospitality which I will always miss and have fond memories of.
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50 minutes ago, Odysseus123 said:I have really enjoyed reading your posts.
Yes after seven years full time I returned to Australia (14 years travelling back and forth) for medical reasons and the fact that the climate took an horrendous toll...
The reverse culture shock was a bit daunting but the Aussie health care system has been wonderful...
I dunno..different strokes for different folks but one of my more humorous tendencies has been not to trust any zebra crossing.-with or without lights.I am still amazed that traffic actually stops.Magic.
On the other hand ,a decent meat pie from Baker's Delight has been an intergalactic sensation.
Just take it easy when you are settling back in..
Ody.
Baker's Delight certainly sounds good mate! I am looking forward to all the creature comforts of life in Australia. But I know the novelty will wear off fast. But I'm in my early 40s now. Not the young man I was when I first left and arrived here without a care in the world other than doing what I wanted. The best time for me here was between 2005 & 2008 I think. I had a great bunch of mates & had loads of great times especially with gfs here. While the political dramas were certainly well into play back then, it was still fun and Thais in general were good value and always up for a good laugh. But I seldom have those moments here these days. Life here seems to be consumed by how much the military grip has tightened & and not to mention the hypocrisy of this place which has reached a point where I can no longer follow the news here anymore. But I'm leaving on my own terms & I intend to get a T-shirt printed that reads "I lived in Thailand for 13 years & survived" ?
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5 minutes ago, mstevens said:I left Thailand 3 years ago after living there for a similar length of time as you. My feelings were much the same as yours - there was a time when I loved my life in Thailand but those feelings changed over time, eroded and I found myself enjoying myself more when I visited friends and family back home. Like you, it took a few years to actually make the decision and leave Thailand, sell up everything and move my life and my wife back home. I don't have any regrets. That's not to say that I don't miss Thailand because I do miss some things, but with a Thai Mrs we still visit Thailand regularly - about once every 8 months or so.
Each of Thailand and our homeland have their respective advantages and disadvantages. Just be honest with yourself about what you want from life and which country offers you what you're looking for.
FWIW, the things I don't like about being back home are the high cost of living, the political correctness and the village mentality. Many people cannot comprehend the lives we had in Thailand....and most are not even that interested. But the negatives are relatively minor and are more than outweighed by all the positives.
Threads like this come up from time to time and I have read more than a few people say that the culture shock of returning home is greater than the culture shock of moving to Thailand in the first place. I never experienced any culture shock at home, or "reverse culture shock" as some call it. At this stage in my life I prefer to live in the West, and know I can still visit Thailand any time. More and more, I feel Thailand is best enjoyed as a tourist, and not as a resident.
Great points made here. It's good to read such a positive report. I need all the encouragement I can get at this point. While I don't have a wife or children here, Thailand will always be a part of who I am. The ironic thing is Thailand is the place where I matured and developed real survival skills in terms of taking better care of myself & growing as a person. It's important to remember why I left Australia in the first place. For me it was a sense of adventure, a lust for life, and a need for more than what Australian suburban life could ever provide. I also left drug addiction behind and through language acquisition I found my life and outlook in general to be so much more positive, inspiring & rewarding, to which I continue to this day. I'm not going back the same person I was so I feel ready & determined to use better life choices than the ones I made previously when I lived in Australia. I intend to keep my love for Thailand going through vlogging. I really don't want to lose my language ability which I worked so hard at and was a huge part of me being able to leave my drug dependency behind for good.
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2 minutes ago, poanoi said:i left after 13 years and moved to camboia,
thinking it was going to be less painful
than any more visa runs to laos,
but i got that part wrong, i have not had so much
unbearable pain in the rest of the world combined
as i had in cambodia, so when my 3 years in exile
was finally up and i was 50, i moved back to thailand.
But: it became cemented injuries, i can no longer live a life,
i have too much pain every second, i wish for death
What was so bad about life in Cambodia for you? I know that no place is paradise, but Thailand used to be fun, relaxed and easy going. These selling points of Thailand have changed a great deal. I've always believed that Thailand was over-policed but sine the entry of the military here it is out of control. Just too much police and military presence in Thai society to be conducive to a happy, easy going lifestyle here. That's my opinion anyway & happens to be the same opinion of many Thais I speak with about this too. But i'm not going to debate anyone about this here. If anyone finds themselves to be very happy here in Thailand as it is today then I'm happy for them too.
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After years of procrastination and all the excuses I've decided that it's time to go back home to Australia. I've had a good life here. I've made lots of good friends, had so many great times, witnessed many changes here in Thailand over the last 13 years, some good, most bad, but I'm not happy here anymore, and haven't been for some time. I seem to be the last man standing at this point due to almost all of my old friends having left Thailand themselves. Has anyone here on this forum lived in Thailand for such an extended period of time and left? How was your experience? Was it hard to readjust to the so called modern life of the west with its mundane 9-5 routine? Did you feel like the odd one out there just as you did here in Thailand? Did you end up moving back to Thailand?
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5 minutes ago, elviajero said:
Yes it would.
Regardless of what your new employer may have told you it is illegal to work until you have received the work permit and the correct visa/permit to stay.
Right.
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3 minutes ago, ubonjoe said:
Yes if you have a address for Nakhon Pathom province to put on the TM7 application form.
Yes, I do have an address for Nakhon Pathom but it's my gf's house, so not in my name if they ask for proof. The only thing I have at present with my name on it along with a Nakhon Pathom address (employer's address) is my employment contract for my new job. Would that possibly suffice as proof of residence in Nakhon Pathom? I'm actually starting this job tomorrow so I still haven't received all the documents from my employer to apply for the non-B and work-permit. I assume this may be a problem if I do use my employment contract as proof.
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Does the Nakhon Pathom Immigration office provide 30 day visa exempt extensions for Australian nationals? My current visa exempt expires on the 6th July. Hoping I don't have to go to Chaengwattana to do it.
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9 minutes ago, ubonjoe said:
Not likely.
The only problem you might have is that you did not formally cancel your extension at a immigration office before leaving the country. A few offices have made problems for people that did not do that. Keep the termination letter to avoid problems in the future.
Okay. Thank you!
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5 minutes ago, ubonjoe said:
No need to show the termination letter. You extension will not be canceled.
Leaving the country and re-entering the country without a re-entry permit makes you extension void.
Okay. Is it possible for immigration to notice an overstay if i were to apply for another job in the future?
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I recently received a termination letter from my previous school after filing a complaint with the central labor court for unfair dismissal. The matter was settled outside of court. Along with severance pay the school finally gave me the termination letter and agreed to date my dismissal as of May 31. I plan to fly out tomorrow which will technically put my in 1 day overstay. Will I need to show immigration my termination letter at the airport in order to cancel my 90 day extension?
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4,000 baht a month to brainwash children. Great times for Kalar-Land
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2 minutes ago, ubonjoe said:
Your 90 day report is not due until July 14th since that is 90 days from the date you entered the country.
The 90 day count ends on the day you leave the country and starts again when you enter the country.
Not sure if that was the reason you could not get past page one. If you had managed to do the report it would not of been approved by your local office since your report was not due.
This is a load off my mind.
Thanks Joe
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Could the reason why my online report isn't working be because the 90 day count started again from the day I returned to Thailand? The date on the 90 day report slip in my passport is 21 May. I flew out of Thailand and back in with a re-entry permit on 16 April.
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7 minutes ago, ubonjoe said:
Are you only completing the required fields that have a * beside them?
Using the drop down menu for you nationality?
Dates entered as day/month/year?
All of the the TM6 number (FE12345)?
Yes to all of the above.
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Since getting my new passport, along with all the stamp transfers I recently flew back into Thailand with a new entry stamp & a new arrival card number, but still I can not get past the first page. My report date is May 21, so too late for postage. I've done everything people here have suggested and nothing works. Mac, PC, IE, Chrome, Safari under user agent IE 11, and still it gives me that popup message to please contact an immigration office. This message pops up the very second I press submit without processing any information.
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Hey T.V community. Just to give everyone an update. The school needed me to sign some documents to cancel my work permit. I explained that I was fired and I did not resign, which the school admitted. I asked to see the termination letter stating the reason I was fired with cause. They had no such letter, so I refused to sign their documents. The school claims that they can cancel my work permit themselves without my signature anyway. I explained that this was untrue as they need power of attorney to do so, in which they denied. They also stated that my work permit will expire at the end of the month so it doesn't matter. For the record I was spoken to in an abrasive manner and told that the school can do as it pleases.
I've done as the central labor court recommended. The next step is to go to the MOE and request a copy of the school registration, then go back to the central labor court and take it from there.
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3 minutes ago, pearciderman said:
I did take note of the word "process", that does not imply a job offer or considering a job, it means that you actually are changing jobs.
And the process stated did not reach an outcome of changing jobs. Thanks
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40 minutes ago, pearciderman said:
The date on this post would suggest that you have not worked there for as long as you state.
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I'm in the process of changing jobs. Passport (Australian) is almost full with 1 and a half pages left. Will this be enough for immigration to work with before I apply for a new work-permit? I plan to get a new passport while waiting for the new work-permit. I'm currently on an extension of stay from my current job.
Thanks
Take note of 'I'm in the process of changing jobs'. This time last year I had another job offer that paid much more which I seriously considered. The offer fell through due to location & travel difficulties so I decided to stay with my current position at that time.
I worked two full years there as stated in the original post.
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On 4/4/2018 at 3:11 PM, HLover said:
Do they pass out moron or dunce pointed hats for those brilliant enough to "go down on a bar girl"?
Sugar coat it, but the safe bet is she was taking shots where the sun doesn't shine and got the big HIV.
'Taking shots'?? Oh my ;D
Leaving Thailand after 13 Years..
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Good for you. While I'm really happy to leave, I'm still happy that I've lived here for so long. It's been a great time in my life & I feel fortunate that I made the decision to move here when I did. But all things must pass & I'm ready to leave. It's a positive thing for me, not a sad time at all. I can always come back for holidays as others here prefer to do, or even move back here again. For now enjoying Thailand from a distance is fine with me. Never say never ?