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Siamjim

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  1. excuse me but you sound selfish, lets switch place here for a moment, let's say we are still in LOS and one of your parent in farang land is very ill near death or so, and you love this parent very dearly, even though you have sisters and brothers and family there wouldn't you want to be by mom or dad side at the last days of life? and would you want to travel with children is this crisis? will a temporary burden of money stop all?... my man shame on you.

    THIS is my story...my wife's mother is dying and has a few days left now but last week, even with her siblings and family there my wife leaped to be with her mother and took our kids(3) with her too because she didn't want the children to bother me, yes its a BIG burden on our savings but i understand. Its not going to be the first or last time we go broke. however the kids will only add more stress... so i asked her to send the children back to me so she can handle her grief in solace

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  2. hot water... seriously, my brother told me and thought it was one of his pranks...but i tried it and it does work and have result to this ever since. i do eat extreme hot food, the pepper portion is nearly the same as the meat i use. by the time i'm done i can twist my headband out.. what u want to do is use as hot of water/coffee u can, hold it in your mouth , it will zing like hell at first but keep holding it till the burning goes (5 sec) then repeat till ya good to go... usually 2 rounds

  3. my family have been using a small 4kg propane burner for the last 5 yrs for the winter cold... we run it 14 hrs a day and cost of running it, is 130baht for 5 days use., of course you will need some ventilation. anyways we put a big pot of water on, after it boils have it turn down to a good simmer or adjust it to your liking.. don't forget to put a lid on the pot.

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  4. i didnt send him back as a child.. he was 19, he would of left on his own, why prolong his unhappiness? i had the resource to help, so i did, was i a bad person for doing it? i cant leave, i have children here too. we're both are dual citizen, part of his reason to leave also was thai boot camp, agreed. i dont know how they would treat a farang at boot camp, do you?, and wasn't going to find out either with my son.

  5. beside the cost, how about the kids... i moved here 20 yrs ago, with my boy at the age 5yrs... the first yr or two here seem to go well then the picking on the farang kid from other students and city kids came into play. i was hoping it would ease after a while ...but it didn't, it torment him to where he was a loner and never really have close friends. we even changed schoolS and moved to other provinceS, still problems

    when he was old enough, he asked if he could go back and as reluctant as i was feeling inside and sad to let him go, i knew he wasn't happy here and haven't been for 13yrs. he's is now back to his birth place and has a family now, he hasn't spoken to me since. i do love him and missed him, the unhappiness i put him thru still haunts me.

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