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It sounds like you're a teacher but maybe not a parent? Im both actually. I have to either 1. stay married and accept the situation and let her do whatever she wants with my child or 2. divorce and move out and let her do whatever she wants.

Ive been married near 10 yrs. We have a child under 10 who's in one of the competitive Maths programs at a govt' primary school. I cannot believe how much homework and tests that my child has to endure. Its causing a lot of tension because I dont like seeing my kid getting woken up by my pushy wife at 530am and going to bed a 940pm tonight. So many hours of homework and questions to do from basically 5pm to 930pm tonight. Both of them are stressed by this stage of the night and I feel sorry for my child actually. I dont know if I can cope with years of this BS to come. If we divorce I worry about leaving my child alone with my wife who doesnt seem to care about the fact that a child that age needs 9 to 10 hours sleep. Im the one cooking healthy meals and if I go away my child lives off grab deliveries. My wife will not listen to me at all about these matters. I feel lonely in this marriage. My wife only cares about my childs success at school. The only thing that would save our marriage and sanity, in general, is if my child moves out of the program into a normal class. But cant see the wife allowing this. In summary, my wife is so caught up in her ambition for my child to succeed and be n.o 1 that she fails to see that its stressing everyone out and will probably be detrimental to our marriage that she doesnt seem to care about. If we finish we have to sell assets etc. Its would all be quite difficult. I would not know what to do with myself. Wondering if I should leave Thailand. I feel they both dont value my presence in this family anyway.