Jaybonnaza

Wife asked if I would be ok if she had her ears tucked in slightly (I call her Chang noi )

She never think before but now she can't help notice - shame she not take jokes about boob job same way

Any way we don't know where to start

Phuket or Bangkok?

What doctors ECt

Thanks

Get on the plane and Go then (nice words) don't bleep on about it ...

Come here as a British person , jump through all our hoops and do not use your Thai id...

Simple . You are a British citizen on holiday... And they have no way to know you are here unless you let them know

Anyway probably too busy ordering soldiers to look after gardens for money as I read on here the other day...

Last thing you want is to end up in south Thailand!!!

Jbrain - uncle had diabetic problem and it cost more but he had insurance - that was five years ago.

Thailand does not I am told .

In regards to the 30 baht one floors that cover all problems or are we better paying more ? And getting a private one? We thought it would cost is about 1.5k baht a month for the month and perhaps 50 -80k a year for the old boy .

We are prepared to pay this so if you know any decent private providers please do let us know as the last thing we want is a large bill down the line if something happens when we could just have insured in the first place.

Both parents are in their mid 50s healthy ect

Bump?

I can't understand why you did not set up a company? Confused as hell then you own a percent so does she - either way the child gets?

But sorts half of the problems surely

Ha ha me last night on Rawai beach !!! Reversed in to a protruding metal pole my bad

Ok been discussing with the wife as we now have the responsibility to look after the mother when we have the last lot of land transferred over at the end of the month.

Health insurance.

We are to look after the mother so we need insurance - who is the best company

The sister in law is to look after the father, however as she regularly borrows money of us (pays back also) I feel that we would be best to unsure him but the problem is he has diabetes so in Thailand my wife thinks he will not be covered.

Dow anybody know of any companies ? Further more European companies that will cover him ?

Ultimately I want to pay up front for the year or up to 10 years if possible...

Also life insurance? - any recommendations?

Surin : twin Palms catch

Phuket town : brasserie, Michaels,

Chalong : Chalong bear garden

Patong : Soi cowboy

Karon : Otools

Kata : boat house , re ka ta, ska bar, Sabai corner,Reggae bar,

Rawai : stoned crab , orange house, tropical sands guesthouse,

Most of my haunts all good bars

"...but she never realised that foreigners would pay for the company of gfs ECt..."

BS

you beat me to it. She's either the most ignorant woman in Thailand or she's playing him.

Lol see you have a go at me yet you have just tarnished me how you say I'm tarnishing others.

No I doubt it very much

Have been given 102.7 rai as apart of our marriage into company name as well, from the parents (tree rubber)

Also dowry was giving back immediately

So if she is playing me clever clogs she is playing a different game to say the avg whore right ?

Yes they do unless myrimar

so you're telling us you got a rich high-so thai chinese wife, thanks for sharing

i bet you met her in a chinese take-away,what was her no.

No actually, In Bangkok met at PBS , i take it your one of the guys paying yours?

First there is a gap between thai-chinese and bar girls education. I haven't (yet) seen any thai chinese girls working in a bar or in a gogo and would be a shame for them and the family. I won't even mention the fact to get some money back to the village because their spread their legs.

Expect some heavy fire back in the answers here since most of people here have their bar or gogo or freelance girl experience.

The long term relationship I saw around me with bar girls can be count on the fingers of 1 hand so far. There are some success stories but at what price... Price of monthly "rent" of affection services lead to a dead end in general. And it would in most countries.

It was funny to start to see the comment in the people who replied who consider Thai women either as working girls or Hiso. Hiso is a low class Jetset. All chinese are not rich but have different values and moral.

I totally agree with the fact that Thai-Chinese women are more interesting, more educated, more traditional, more attractive and more business oriented.

Glad to hear an happy couple story!

At long last words that made sense, i personally could not believe the comments above. any way nice to see someone sees what i was trying to discuss...

Oh here we go... Im better than you na na

No this is not what I said I stated facts - why can you not see what's beneath your noses ???

There was a post on here not two days ago about a lad being screwed 3rd time round , it's not a few people its a large majority ,

Why do people keep falling into the trap is the question

I can think of a few people who will chime in and totally agree with you.

I am not one of those.

We heard it all before and i am sure will again now.

Here is something for you to think about, show me your friends and i will tell you your future.

I'm unsure what you mean about friends and future, mainly acquaintances here in Phuket as prefer Bangkok for friends in common so to speak.

Blimey .

No I did not state I was a higher being!

No I did not state I was better off!

No I did not slate every bar or bar girl off

I stated facts .

As in bs my mrs not know , no she never saw that side of Thailand admittedly from a sheltered life and going straight in to a job in Bangkok PBS , she knew it existed but not so open,

But the post was not about me it was about why do foreign men continue to follow the trend , day after day - I've lost everything , she took it all, or I love her mean while she is screwing bob next door posts

Wake up smell the coffee , not a dig at any one but surely this must be open in public . And people then don't give their hearts with their wallets like they do in 2 weeks - <deleted> me I met a chap yesterday at central who is engaged after a week! Love of his life bla bla - mug was what I thought, agree or disagree it would be frowned upon at home, certainly not done so why out here ?

Yes I'm sure we have all been here and had fun with the bar girl.

However I would never consider marrying one for the simple reason is there is something wrong with 'most' in the head.

They either gold diggers, cheats, and so on ,".

Just two weeks back I flew back to Phuket to help a mate where I could as his mrs stabbed him.

The thing that always puzzles me is why do men come back time and tims again and get the girl out of the bar thinking they can make her "normal", no I'm not saying its impossible and of you admit to your self you would probably not take her home to the family and tell them where you found her.

Why do men contribute a monthly salary? Confuses me if she is your gf then why pay her?, or if not paying her why allow her to sit around doing nothing and having everything paid for.

My wife strongly agrees on this . Openly admits its shameful and uses her Chinese passport when we can, travelling abroad as she now sees Thailand's bad image and at first it upset her now she is ashamed in some ways having a conversation and then the person states oh yeah bar girls, and so on rather than things like beautiful country bla bla which she likes to hear and thought of Thailand previously.

Admittedly never setting foot in the bar scene till we moved to Phuket from bkk she struggled to make new friends as people struggled on conversations or intelligence matching I can only submise, being asked by friends gfs how much she got a month completely shocked her as well.

Admittedly my bank is her bank and vice verser, but she never realised that foreigners would pay for the company of gfs ECt , she does laugh at what she calls foolish farang, which when you think about it she is right, there and many foreigners having their pants pulled down all the time.

But word must get out that foreigners get mugged by the tgf and this would in my eyes make me steer clear unless for fun, yet you see so many people full in to this trap, my own business partner has 1 million invested in motorbikes in his mrs name only having met her 6 months year ago ..

Thoughts,

No offence to anyone and for others who relationships have worked out well done

Question I've been thinking about a lot when I meet people .

I moved to Thailand as I was lucky and bored of the corporate life back in the UK, always on the move nationally and internationally, ending my marriage in the process (for the best admittedly).

But I meet so many people out here , some who have done well and fancy the easy life, others making ends meet living of the bones of their <deleted>, others running from things (some family, some commitments, some authorities).

I can't understand why people would move the other side of the world without a pot and chance it as it will only end in tears.

Others have done really well out here admittedly.

What's your view and story as to why Thailand rather than home,

Mum and dad have a 12 sweater solid table in the uk made out if this . Only cost 7.5k GDP in costs and bribes - looked absolutely stunning

Recently did a trip

4.5 hours to trang

3 hours to border

Stayed over the border and drove to penang in 5/6 hours

You think that's bad have a look at the Phuket for sale page on Facebook!

The only real authorised dealer I've come across is island technology in Phuket - Nathyn Morley is the chap to speak to there

I expect it to go up gradually over the next year ?

English - native

Thai - to a certain degree (middle class)

Spanish - native

Italian - to a certain degree

Ha ha this is a hilarious read! Is it even possible!! What a numpty!