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You caused them to lose face หักหน้า, if you have thai wife you should know better what to say and what not in Thailand. But hope you get it all sorted out.

In many European countries if you acted like that at a bar, you would get beaten up immediately, not after 2 weeks.

I don't think that they test tramadol in Thailand as it's OTC. But if you use codeine, it may show as morphine in tests, as codeine is metabolished to morphine in the body.

It really is that simple. It's almost like someone falling for one of those Nigerian scams. You'd have to be both greedy and stupid. In this case, greed doesn't necessarily have to be for money, but for wanting something that you may not be entitled to.

Oh sure, a bar girl is something that only a few of us are entitled to.

Well, people can' choose whom they are attracted to. I personally almost never find caucasian woman attractive, but just can take my eyes off from dark skinned short legged isaan girls. My 2 male friends told me that my thai ex-girlfriend wasn't even beautiful, but they said it only when we broke up already, before that they just told me "yes she looks ok" or didn't say anything at all, but I (still) find her to be very attractive. So it really is matter of taste. And its very good that all people have different taste about who they find attractive, if they didn't we would be in big trouble (actually by bow we would all look the same 555). Also I dont find korean or japanese girls attractive.

Now here is an interesting little tale for you viewers ( well not that interesting.....)

I live in Naklua ( Pattaya ) and perhaps a slightly seedy part of town (although rather nice may i add.. ) and here it's home to hundreds of single Thai ladies who seem to " zoom about on there motorbikes in hot pants " and generally looking " hot to trot "

One particular lady in my soi who i have known for the last 6 months who works in a bar seems to like me ( are you getting a bit twitchy viewers..? ) she has various farang that send her money every month and is bar fined most nights ( i would imagine ) so what ever she does behind closed doors she has a status labelled " a professional " But for the last 6 months she has tried to " lure me up into her room for a bit of " hows your father " .... she has invited me out for meals and only yesterday yet again she called out from her balcony looking like " Rapunzel " ( an attractive bird with long blonde hair ) each time she makes a move i always " turn down her kind offers of romance " she is absolutely " agitated to the hilt " by being constantly rejected ( although most politely may i add viewers... ) You see here is a lady who obviously makes a good living from performing " the tales from the kamasutra " in her room or a hotel room on location in Pattaya with various farang but once again it just proves that " Ladies want what they can't have " ...

The story continues viewers.......

Farang Jaidee ( kind respect where due ladies )

It all goes down to the playing the game. Any man who is self-confident and plays it cool (not easy to get) have no limits on what girls he can get.

Traits Thai women don't like:

• loves ice hockey or other winter Olympic sports

According to my Thai friends, the reason I am still single is that I am "jai dee" too much !

Whenever somebody says you are too good hearted, it really means that yo are insecure and kind of doormat. There is big difference being kind and being submissive person who tries to please other people. Also about the "bad guys", the readon why many woman like them is because they are very self-confident. And again There is very big difference between being self-confident and beeig cocky. In the end the main feature women seeks from man is self-confidence, if you have that you can get almost any woman, looks (or money) doesn't matter that much if you have confidence. Because its in women biology that they seek man who is good leader of the family, even western feminist women unknowingly seek man who can make decisions, know what he wants in life and is assertive.

Many books claim that it's very unpolite to give anything with left hand or to eat with it, but I've sen many times when Thai's use left hand for these actions, but usually only seen it in Bangkok, where the conservative culture values have been changing little by little. Even seen on some Thai talk show where the host used left hand for eating.

You guys are still being soppy then eh? So macho.

I don't get this thread. I've been with a few normal Thai girls and I've done a fair few middle-aged Thai women. But I'm not really into Thais. I prefer English girls. Whatever rocks your boat, I suppose.

I walk about quite a bit and I just never see foreigners with decent looking Thai girls.

If all these blokes are so happy with their little Thai girls, why don't they show a photo.

Its matter of taste you know? It's not about if some bloke down the pub likes you're woman or not, or maybe for you it is.

Haven't you ever been in Love?

In Thai culture it's not appropriate to show affection in public, at least for older people. In Bangkok there are youngster who will act like a westerners, but that doesn't meant that outside of Bangkok its ok to act like that. What I've been understood at least older thai couples will show affection between each other only on private. I haven't seen thais hug their children much, at least in public.

Times change.

I heard in Thailand that even prostitution is illegal and yet it happens. Just imagine. The scandal.

I don't see it as a good thing that (mainly young) Thais imitate western lifestyle more and more.

OP You are the definition of a beta male, you have to man up, stop dating bargirls let alone consider marriage with them.

This girl is clearly only in it for the money

Did you read my last message? If she was just after my money why would she still communicate with me? Her 40 years old friend have very old husband (70 years old), who have bought her restaurant, big house and gives her bign sums of money every month, I told her that I can't give her all this that I'm normal working class hero (same as her), that If you want life like that you should search it from somwhere else.

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To the OP, you say you have Aspergers? Stay miles away from devious thai girls for starters and find some one who really wants to get to know you and in turn get an understanding of your lack of conventional social skills. And then just take it from there.

Yes I have, so I find any human relationship hard, especially with woman, I find asian women to be more easy to communicate (not just "working-girls", but normal girls). I have specific woman preference, I don't like western woman (of their their looks and their mentality). Some people are not into african or asian woman, I'm not into caucasian woman, even that I am caucasian. Chinese women are also beutiful and have good mentality, but don't care about japanese women. One time when I was in book shop, one of the sellers came to me and asked if I was single and that her co-worker liked me. This seemws genuine and I looked the girl who wanted to meet me, she was very cute and I noticed real interest toward me from her. But because I was already with my current girlfriend I refused it, because Iäm vewry loyal to anybody who I like. And there have been many other occasions, where normal decent asian girls/women have been interested on me. This one chineses girl who is living in my homeland was really into me and she is very good person (she is christian) and cute as well, about 1 year ago I didn't show her any interest because of my lyalty to my girlfriend. Since then I've been thinking if I made biggest mistake in my life, because I really sensed that she had genuine interest to me, and I liked her personality and looks as well. Im still thinking that maybe I should contact her but maybe its too late and maybe my current girlfriend is actually genuine.

Maybe it's the only 3 words of English she ever learnt then repetes it every time you catch her eye, ignoring & not understanding anything you've said for the last 2 years, waiting for her "brother" who dropped her in your lap to come back & pick her up.

Not really, as I speak only thai with her, she even doesn't speak english more than 4 words.

I'm now considering all over again our relationship, that maybe I am just overanalyzing and overthinking this, you know I'm not good figuring out people. I stopped sending her money already, and she haven't made issue from it, so its ok for her. And there isn't any house or property that she could steal from me, even EU citizenship isn't one that interests her, as she prefer to stay in Thailand (but told me that with me she can live anywhere we need to). I'm not rich as I'm normal worker. So if she just was after my money she would left me already.

You can still buy tramadol 50mg IR thai generic, but it seems pharmacies dont have 100mg tramal retard (ER) anymore.

Even in Europe this would cause loss of face and would affect youre relationship the one you are causing it. Lets say you start in new workplace and some senior worker would teach you, but you see that he teaches you wrong way. So if you told him that thats not true, then he would loose face, especially if there are other people around. But to keep good relationship, you either dont say anything or you hint him by saying that before you've been doing it alternative way. For many werstern people (maybe all people) its very important to be right, and only few can admit if they have been wrong, but why should you even point out someone mistakes, if these mistakes arent causing any problems? Or if you must, then you can always point these out by politely hinting, like in my example.

Not sure if this is the concept of the Face, but just my two cents.

It not all that hard to understand at all, you have money and will boost her statues in Thailand, this means mega face lift in Thailand for the girl through her family and friends.

Just today I met a friend of a friend / friend with her new western husband, I couldn't look him in the face as I know she has a Thai man and with his money is supporting his lifestyle. She lives a double life, with hiding suitcases of clothes in friends houses for when her western husband is away.

Count yourself lucky.

I mean, this kind of person doesn't have mercy or kindness, which are greately emphasised in buddhism. I could never deceive and use other people whome I've knows for many years (or even a person whome I just met), lie and deceive everyday and when there there is nothing left to get just dumb him/her like a old useless rag. I know some of them think that if they go make a merit at a temple all their bad karma will be gone. Its same like using physical (or even sexual) violence toward somebody. Its strange that in Thailand where people have been thaught buddhism in school have this kind of merciless action very common. Using other people to enhance face/ego or get money.

I dont send her money anymore, and stopped communicating with her since yesterday, for her I was only walking atm, she never had anykind of feelings toward me. It's kind of hard to understand how someone can lie to another person in so deep level for many years? Only way its possible is if one doesnt have empathy at all. I can understand if someone who have big need for money (need food or to help family, or even being drug addict) lies once to get money from a people who she dosent yet know, so there isnt much emotional connection. But when she have made me believe that she loves me and we have family together ", for the past 2 years we have communicated with each other almost every day, she knows me deeply, but she still is able to lie me every day and use me without a problem, not feeling sorry for me even a bit. (Because if she did she woudln continue doing this)

But timet to get over her. There are more eorse case, like after 10 years marriage and completing the house, the thai woman have stealed the house and dumbbed her mand and sometimes even her children.

Yes Im now reconsidering about getting married, she feels infifferend up to the point that it. Or is the "up to you" answer common in thai culture? Seem ive been too stupid to end this relationship in the beginning. Its been emotionally taxing, but Ive started to feel disconnected from her already, I guess she only cared about my money.

Now you're getting it!

I've been gettin it for a long time already, but have not accepted it but rather have put it as a cultural difference or that Im asberger who dosent understand people (this is actual case), just waiting for clear message, but you can't expect that from face saving culture.

So ive been together with my thai girlfriend over 2 years already and one thing that is annoying and confusing is that almost everything I ask is up to me, but certainy isnt. I ask if she wants to go to movies, up to me, if I usk if she wants to go eat some pizza again up to me. But when we arrive to the pizza restaurant she seems annoyed, like she didnt want to go there at all, but how should I know if she never tell if she wants to do something or not. Now we are planning to get married and move to my home country, when I ask if shes sure about all of these big changes, because I am and dont want to make her to do something that she doesnt want, its all up to me again, it buts me wonder if she is very indifferend and "up to you" usually means "no" or "i dont care", just a way to refuse something without causing anyone to lose face? Getting maried or not getting married is up to me. I understand that some woman cant make decisions, so they want man to make them for her, but is ithe case here? Sex is also up to me. If I adk if she enjoys some spesific sex, she tells me that if I enjoy then she also enjoys it, if I ask if she wants some sex then its up to me.

Well usually service in athailand is very good, but on of the most rude ccustomer services Ive ever exprienced happened in Thailand. Like literally throwing money back at me when I puted fo food, but also ive got best customer service also from Thailand. I can understand why some dont like farangs at all, so they act very rudely. But its only a minority.

In my understanding bodhicitta term isn't used much in pali canon or by thervada, its more of mahayajana buddhism term.

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Ok, I bought it before checking out the station list. There are lot of music stations, but I like listen talk stations, I used to listen Youth station, as there was interesting topics and they didnt use too difficult thai, but I couldnt find it from the list, but It seems its possible to add custom stations throught favorite. Otherwise been satsified with the product just too few stations for Thai.

Any suggestion for station? With lot of talking but not about politics or sport.

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Thanks for recommendations, seems to be good app so far. but before I buy the Pro version Id like to know what format it will save the recodings, is mp3 possible?

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So I'm looking for radio app which includes all possible thai radio stations that can be listened outside of Thailand. Doesen't matter if it's paid app as long it doesn't cost over 2€.

At the moment I'm using this one https://itunes.apple.com/en/app/radio-thailand-free/id512083715?mt=8 , it's simple and clear, so no unnecessary information or features, has large list of stations, but sometimes I encounter problems with connecting to stations, no matter which I choose, so maybe there are more reliable ones?

Thanks.

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