LemonSqueeza

A 14-year old out and running until 2AM...?

Sorry to say, but the daughter is not the problem here...seriously.

did you read the post? the issue was sorted, so there is no problem

or you can sit across the street having a beer until 5 to 1 and just walk past the imaginary queue that the people waiting against the wall in the sun have formed.

we used to use visine so no one knew we were stoned

then we witched to clear eyes.

If you're an honest guy, please let the gentlemen know what their wives are doing when abroad.Guess you'd be more than happy, when somebody would "open your eyes."

It's pretty much common here. I'd guess 80% of Thai women are doing the same shit.And you won't loose face telling it through let's say your wife.-

80 percent. 80 out of 100 thai women with foreigners have a thai husband.

that is quite a claim. how would you justify that number because personally i think you pulled it from an orifice.

^^how do you come up with this nonsense?^^

To be honest.

If someone did that to my daughter, I wouldn't stop punching him until his heart stopped beating.

That is NOT the only way to cure the problem. You took that decision because she simply was not your real child, so thought little of her safety. If some guy did that to your estranged blood child, I doubt you would think it was justified.

Bangkok of all places... Did it never cross your mind at the time that it was dangerous?

What you did was not the right thing to do and you just got lucky. Many 14 year olds would fight back harder at you if you did that.

ah, the sound of shrill indignation. did you read the part where she was never locked out for more than 20 minutes? No i suspect you did not.

dangerous indeed.

i have a 7 yr old daughter who loves me to death, as do i her. If asked am i her friend, she will reply no, you are my father.

she is not scared of me, she is scared of me when im angry.

perhaps a little fear of consequence and parental respect is not a bad thing.

I would like to think my 17 year old step-daughter sees me as a friend, as well as providing her with the fatherly love her biological father seems unable to give her.

Certainly, she is able to speak to me when similar conversations seem to end in an argument with her and my wife.

Probably just comes down to different definitions of friend and father. Perhaps a 7 year old thinks of a friend as a playmate. Whatever it is, you share my good fortune of having a loving father-daughter relationship

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id say in some ways it is one and the same thing, especially as they age, after all 17 is coming fast upon adulthood and I would hope to see the relationship develop as a dialogue between adults in my case as well but at 7 and for the next few years, someone has to be in charge and that cant happen as friends and equals.

To me a father is far more than a friend and i would not want to lessen the relationship with friend status.

i really do suspect many that think the OP has committed some horrible wrong have no children and forget their own rebellious youth.

i think it was well played.

I used to sneak out the basement door when all were asleep and if my mother discovered it she would simply lock the door and go back to bed forcing me to knock on the front door or wait till the household woke.

If you prefer hobbies like:

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or

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over her:giggle:

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No wonder your friends are worried about you !!

all that and you couldn't come up with a decent picture?

really?

people who say "panties" make my skin crawl.

any one see a problem with the definition?

Work is defined broadly to include any work ....

kind of an infinite loop by my reckoning.

Without wishing to enter into an argument I dont think what you did was that wise, it may have resulted in the desired response in this particular incident but that was more luck than judgement in my opinion.

I wonder how you would have felt had she fallen off the awning in the dark and received severe head injuries or worse?

Or been attacked and raped as a result of not being able to go home?, sorry but that would have been my first consideration, her SAFETY!, personally I would have just grounded her until she could follow the rules.

As for Xmas tree, Thais love anything sparkly, twinkly and flashing Lights etc, but nice gesture as you say.

sigh

big c or one of those similar crap marts located all over the coutry

true is what im using and it has been essentially faultless for a number of years now. tonight especially is the worst i have seen it.

but if he had you pulled over and was ticketing you, how was he supposed to stop others?

what did he do after you left, ill bet he pulled over the next person he could catch.

i love it when whitey screams discrimination.

i have also found it unwise to count mine before they are hatched

hmm, it can be fine one minute then unusable the next. strange and annoying.

I have been having serious issues connecting internationally over last 2 days, especially voip through singapore.

is anyone else having problems?

All speedtests i do show brilliant throughput, almost as fast as to local servers, but once i hit singapore on tracert, it all goes to hell/

it really is a very thin sample of all available.

The Off Shore, Many of the British lads swear its the best in Bangkok, I myself tried it last week and thought it was rubbish!!! to each their own but I guess it's worth a go if you are hankering for something that tastes like home!!.. I prefer Bradman's Bar opposite The Off Shore, nice menu and no grumpy old codgers lurking about....

many drunk folks have sworn similar. but they are the same lot who swear by the local snapper.

He wont be back, I do believe he held returning posters in the lowest regard.

He could not possibly lower himself to that level.