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ZAKY

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  1. Thanks for putting water to my mill ! I was saying since the begining that the falangs want to show off that they CAN !!! They are the biggest culprit of having created this plus for appetite for money from the thai girls at a point i can tell you that it was like a competition among falangs of getting the most beautiful girls, some tends to show that he is more thai than others; they forget that living in thailand, speaking thai, eating thai food etc... Will never make them a thai...So where is the pride? Even if you are on a marriage visa: tomorrow you get divorce- ! You will have to leave thailand

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  2. Taking a thai girl to live outside thailand is the biggest mistake you can do in your life, thai people are not good migrators; i mean that they will always miss their home country and wish to go back, to impose on them can spoil your relationship for ever, therefore if you are in love with a thai and decides to live with her the best choice to avoid any future problem is to live in thailand.

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  3. There is also that most falangs like to show-off with thai girls dressing in sexy short or micro skirt. For me they look miserable, they think that you envy them ! when i see this particularly thing in the skytrain, i say to myself " poor guy ! Do you know how much this is going to cost you? " There are many serious thai girls working in offices and living alone in bangkok and other provinces like chiang mai, these girls are nice and not relying on your purse of course they like a gift from time to time depending on the occassion to keep the good relation is to invest in something like for e.g: buying a condo and share the loan and repay by renting it. You can be on very good terms with the family by living far from them and pay the visit on certains occassions, they will be happy of your relation with their child is in good hands.

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  4. You are right, most falangs want to show-off and not want to lose face in front of the family, but what they do not consider is that once you start this dependance for money it is difficult to stop it. They are also doing harm to other falangs as well.

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  5. To abide to this supposed tradition, it depends where the girl is from, to my knowledge this is not followed by the bangkokians. Normally we cohabitate and share the expenses, i beleive that most falangs looks for a traditional wedding - like they still do in the countryside - thinking to be closer to the thai way of living

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  6. Why everybody is talking of sinsod when this has only been invented and has never been in the thai tradition! Some even say that you must pay to the mother for the milk she fed the girl when she a baby so what happen to the boys in the family then? Can somebody show where this is written? If you think well; this tradition could have been imported by the khmers, chinese, indians, cambogians, laotians forming part of thai population, so how is it that this is not followed there? On the contrary in the ancient times in India for e.g; its the girl family to pay to the boy for marrying her.

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  7. Whatever you can say, those who know can tell; thai girls live is different to other girls love where money comes first, i know many cases where a thai girl lives with a foreigner who takes care of her and may be also her family but behind the girl is having affair with a thai, some men even volontarily accept this kind of situation at least he knows with whom she is doing it. The more money you give her, the more she will show you that she is attracted by you but it is only superficial because the day after she will forget what you did for her. She will control your expenses, you may think that she wants you to save money!!! No she is just scared about nothing or little left for her. Always imagine what will happen at the time you have no more money. You will not be surprised of the number of suicides going on in this country most of the victims are people being well-off before. My advice is that If you can afford buying love then do it, there are thousand ways to do it and what you can for your money, she will not may be give you, you even have the choice of doing it when you feel like and not when you want and she refuses. You have the choice of changing girls when ever you want where as when you are with one this could be a problem. You may want to go out for dinner or any with a nice girl, there are classy young girls working as escorts you can hire for the day or as long as you want. It will cost you less energy, trouble and money to get commited with a single girl whom you beleive belong to you only,.

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  8. Its just for fun, i got myself caught in this with my thai wife, because in Thailand everything seems so pleasant and you are tempted to participate in the fun; not in the cause really. You want to say to yourself; after that; that you were there. When you see whole families, lot of nice girls singing, and teenagers smiling shopping with the hawkers buying flags, whistles, tshirts you cannot beleive !!! Its beyong imagination. How can you help yourself by not doing like them? Even sometimes you are under the treat of bombs or bullets! By doing so it never mean that you intend to change the face of Thailand. Its the Thai people to decide what they want

    " A Land of smile" have shown to us foregners how to participate in your life, may be often we are not in the right side. So teach us how we should do. We will never dictate or change your opinion. But If you still need the foreigner's opinion...

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  9. You are lucky enough for the THB 15k /m some have lost million and got deported on top and many have committed suicide, when you say : your girl friend, do you beleive that you are the only one? its so easy to get a type of escort for the when you are in need. It will cost you much less without in your mind any commitment towards her. One trick they also like to play is to break and see your reaction, then if they find that you cannot live without her. They will turn you mad.

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