LOWH

I will also tell all Thai women I know what men would talk about after having sex with them.

My gf happily discusses, with all her school friends, what we do and how often we do it.

I get reports back on their guys performances, shape, size, preferences too.

And they share cheating details, and they look so innocent.

Sorry, as far as I can see you are odd girl out.

Anyway back to the OP,

Never used a condom, ever, well, maybe 3 or 4 times in my entire life.

Never liked them, would prefer not to have sex, than have sex with a condom.

Whenever I say that to a girl, she always says, no need.

But we both get HIV tested before anyone moves in.

Oh, there's one thing I forgot.

Your GF and her friends discussed sex with FRIENDS and discussed individual situations, not on public webbroad I hope?

So, if you guys only talk individual situations without mentions Thai women as a whole, I'll be ok and will let the topic go. As many here like to mention Thai women as a one big stereo type. So, I just can't let it happen without defending innocent ones.

Get the picture?

Now, tell me who odd again? The defender or the guys who talk sex with a lot of strangers in public place?

I will also tell all Thai women I know what men would talk about after having sex with them.

My gf happily discusses, with all her school friends, what we do and how often we do it.

I get reports back on their guys performances, shape, size, preferences too.

And they share cheating details, and they look so innocent.

Sorry, as far as I can see you are odd girl out.

Anyway back to the OP,

Never used a condom, ever, well, maybe 3 or 4 times in my entire life.

Never liked them, would prefer not to have sex, than have sex with a condom.

Whenever I say that to a girl, she always says, no need.

But we both get HIV tested before anyone moves in.

I'm sure that I and my friends come from different class of your GF. Is she a struggling widow who you have to sent her money every months? Or you really have sex with a school girl? It's illegal, you know?

During my more than 3 years of single life in Thailand, NEVER was asking to wear condoms by ANY of those "decent" woman I dated for one night stand or months.. I did use condoms just because I NEVER trusted what women said about its past sexual life.

Women likes to save "face" in any culture.....In Thailand.... that's mandatory....

I am not young and/or handsome or rich.....If a Thai woman have sex with me on the first or second date probably do it with every farang its met.

Young = Naive. Young people can felt in love with, and trust any kind of women. I am old enough to not believe in passional love at first sight, and also I learned here that Thai women have sex, just to show apreciation and interest to men that just met.

It is also part of the Thai culture farangs needs to understand. Unfortunately, it is a dangerous custom on the AIDS world.

Here's, try a voice of real Thai woman.

I'm very interested of what kind of place you met those Thai women who would sleep with men they meet first time? Because all my life as a Thai woman, I never know one as such.

I'm also interested of what you learn about Thai women. I will keep that in mind and let all my friends who would date a farang know.

I will also tell all Thai women I know what men would talk about after having sex with them.

Maybe, what farang need to learn about Thai women is getting themselves away from bar girls? Including those desperate widows who do everything for money to support their kids/family.

Just an idea.

Dress properly and groom yourself properly AT ALL TIMES and you will never be seen as "past it."

Thai women of all ages and classes and for widely varying reasons have a weakness for the, um, "sharp-dressed man"

Do that . . . . DRESS WELL at all times.

Laundered shirts

Tailored pants

Fashionable watch

Good belt

Hi-end shoes, socks, eyeglass frames, sunglasses

Good haircut

SHAVE every day with good products

Take care of your teeth.

Floss, brush, maintain.

Carry a toothbrush, comb and some deodorant in your neat fashionable computer bag.

If you sweat, carry a small white towel.

Keep your shoes shined.

Get a regular hair trimming

Respect yourself and dress like you do

Above all don't believe for one minute that your "inner Hi-So" shines through that pair of cargo shorts, singlet and Tevas you wear because you find it comfortable to dress like a child in this hot weather.

Dress like you respect those around you.

Try it. Next time you step into an elevator full of office gals you just might get a few checking you out.

I'm a Thai woman. And if any guys dress like you suggested; me and a lot of girls would think they are GAY !!!

Real guys can look good afford less, unless those unattractive ones. :-)

Hi LOWH

This is a thread about older guys . . . . . . . Properly dressed older guys.

Guys who are at ease with women of all ages and happen to be old enough to be your uncle.

That "old guy" with whom your best friend or even your daughter is spending entirely too much time.

The guy she went to Japan with ? France ? New York ?

The "interesting" guy she met at that Samui spa ?

Gay ? Really ;-?

Sadly, what you actually mean is that he paid very little attention to you.

In fact beyond your role as a chaperone he showed little interest.

Yeah, he's gay.

Gay as a plaid rabbit :-))

"Sometimes, 'fuggedabowdit' just means fuggedabowdit. . . . "

I soooo can't relate to what you said. I'm so far to have any children, let alone daughter. Maybe I'm too young or even too realistic to understand your old man GQ fashion advices. ;-)

Best dress guys I've even known, 90% are gays. Sorry to state the fact.

Again, I soooo can't relate of whom you speak of? Who you mean paid no attention/interest? Are you a psychic, to be able to 'see' things happened in people's lives?

Bitter old B... What is it the words they use in English?

Firstly: You need to learn the difference between fact and opinion. The mere fact that an opinion is *your* opinion does not make it a fact.

Secondly: Your sooooo youthful burbling is simply irrelevant to the subject at hand.

Thirdly: This is not a thread about you or the gravitas that you feel that your self-proclaimed credentials as a young Thai woman might bring to the topic.

It's about the perceptions and prejudices that local people appear to bring to the subject of age and aging.

The most credible evidence that you ARE in fact who you say you are is that in addition to assuming that your opinion is of interest is your failure to comprehend the spirit of this thread.

But hey, at least you appear to be practicing a) your English or your notion of how a Thai girl speaks English.

Don't you have anything else to do ?

None of those raggedy-ass boys showing any interest ?

Firstly:

I believe that it's a PUBLIC web broad. Anyone can have opinion relating to the thread. Is TV YOUR personal property??? Did I state something out of the topic???

Secondly:

according to your rude, is the life so hard to you? That you can't live with anyone who see different from you? If I didn't say I'm a Thai woman, would you be this rude? Are you racist or sexist OR BOTH?

Thirdly:

I know nice Psychologists to make your life a better place. ;-)

P.s. My personal love life is personal periods. I would rather not to discuss with an bitter old B.

Dress properly and groom yourself properly AT ALL TIMES and you will never be seen as "past it."

Thai women of all ages and classes and for widely varying reasons have a weakness for the, um, "sharp-dressed man"

Do that . . . . DRESS WELL at all times.

Laundered shirts

Tailored pants

Fashionable watch

Good belt

Hi-end shoes, socks, eyeglass frames, sunglasses

Good haircut

SHAVE every day with good products

Take care of your teeth.

Floss, brush, maintain.

Carry a toothbrush, comb and some deodorant in your neat fashionable computer bag.

If you sweat, carry a small white towel.

Keep your shoes shined.

Get a regular hair trimming

Respect yourself and dress like you do

Above all don't believe for one minute that your "inner Hi-So" shines through that pair of cargo shorts, singlet and Tevas you wear because you find it comfortable to dress like a child in this hot weather.

Dress like you respect those around you.

Try it. Next time you step into an elevator full of office gals you just might get a few checking you out.

I'm a Thai woman. And if any guys dress like you suggested; me and a lot of girls would think they are GAY !!!

Real guys can look good afford less, unless those unattractive ones. :-)

Hi LOWH

This is a thread about older guys . . . . . . . Properly dressed older guys.

Guys who are at ease with women of all ages and happen to be old enough to be your uncle.

That "old guy" with whom your best friend or even your daughter is spending entirely too much time.

The guy she went to Japan with ? France ? New York ?

The "interesting" guy she met at that Samui spa ?

Gay ? Really ;-?

Sadly, what you actually mean is that he paid very little attention to you.

In fact beyond your role as a chaperone he showed little interest.

Yeah, he's gay.

Gay as a plaid rabbit :-))

"Sometimes, 'fuggedabowdit' just means fuggedabowdit. . . . "

I soooo can't relate to what you said. I'm so far to have any children, let alone daughter. Maybe I'm too young or even too realistic to understand your old man GQ fashion advices. ;-)

Best dress guys I've even known, 90% are gays. Sorry to state the fact.

Again, I soooo can't relate of whom you speak of? Who you mean paid no attention/interest? Are you a psychic, to be able to 'see' things happened in people's lives?

Bitter old B... What is it the words they use in English?

It's like women's lib never happened.

IMO if they want to be treated equally with men, then they can pay their own way.

I believe that I was discussing Flintstone theory here. And suddenly, a clueless guy came and talked Oprah Winfrey. And insisted that... You have to pay !!! (Imagine a two year old boy crying out for his mummy to buy him some candy)

Nice to talk, Mr.

I actually thought you were agreeing with the 'have to pay group' to be honest.

Who pay? :-)

I have my own opinion. And I'm a Switzerland. I'm on no one side.

In my opinion; women should be independent, not staving on her own. While men should try best for their women. Women should have at least her own saving. Still, it's not her obligation to provide for family.

Perhaps the Swiss are a bit too isolated to know, but that wouldn't fly in most ( ?all ) western countries now.

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Have you ever heard of 'metaphor' before in your life? A Switzerland is my metaphor wording because in reality, I can't actually be a country.

FYI, I'm a native Thai. And my bf, a European man, will buy me a Mercedes when I move there. So, if he would ask in return that it's obligation that I need to be a breadwinner in the family. Maybe I reconsider his offer. ;-)

Ahhh, so you are there to mooch off him after all lol.

Exactly !!!!

I plan to save all money I make for OUR future together. Now, it's mooching time !!! Hooray !!!

It's like women's lib never happened.

IMO if they want to be treated equally with men, then they can pay their own way.

I believe that I was discussing Flintstone theory here. And suddenly, a clueless guy came and talked Oprah Winfrey. And insisted that... You have to pay !!! (Imagine a two year old boy crying out for his mummy to buy him some candy)

Nice to talk, Mr.

I actually thought you were agreeing with the 'have to pay group' to be honest.

Who pay? :-)

I have my own opinion. And I'm a Switzerland. I'm on no one side.

In my opinion; women should be independent, not staving on her own. While men should try best for their women. Women should have at least her own saving. Still, it's not her obligation to provide for family.

Perhaps the Swiss are a bit too isolated to know, but that wouldn't fly in most ( ?all ) western countries now.

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Have you ever heard of 'metaphor' before in your life? A Switzerland is my metaphor wording because in reality, I can't actually be a country.

FYI, I'm a native Thai. And my bf, a European man, will buy me a Mercedes when I move there. So, if he would ask in return that it's obligation that I need to be a breadwinner in the family. Maybe I reconsider his offer. ;-)

Since Stone Age, men provide, hunt for food and protect their women. Now things have changed. Men say, I only want woman who doesn't live with me for money. Guess what? Even if we're not in Stone Age any more, but human nature never changed.

As women only choose men who would provide best for her, who have most resources (richest) she could find. (Both conscious, and unconscious)

It's a world oldest human nature, female instinctive to survive. Ones who call women gold diggers should be ashamed of themselves.

It's like women's lib never happened.

IMO if they want to be treated equally with men, then they can pay their own way.

I believe that I was discussing Flintstone theory here. And suddenly, a clueless guy came and talked Oprah Winfrey. And insisted that... You have to pay !!! (Imagine a two year old boy crying out for his mummy to buy him some candy)

Nice to talk, Mr.

I actually thought you were agreeing with the 'have to pay group' to be honest.

Who pay? :-)

I have my own opinion. And I'm a Switzerland. I'm on no one side.

In my opinion; women should be independent, not staving on her own. While men should try best for their women. Women should have at least her own saving. Still, it's not her obligation to provide for family.

Since Stone Age, men provide, hunt for food and protect their women. Now things have changed. Men say, I only want woman who doesn't live with me for money. Guess what? Even if we're not in Stone Age any more, but human nature never changed.

As women only choose men who would provide best for her, who have most resources (richest) she could find. (Both conscious, and unconscious)

It's a world oldest human nature, female instinctive to survive. Ones who call women gold diggers should be ashamed of themselves.

It's like women's lib never happened.

IMO if they want to be treated equally with men, then they can pay their own way.

I believe that I was discussing Flintstone theory here. And suddenly, a clueless guy came and talked Oprah Winfrey. And insisted that... You have to pay !!! (Imagine a two year old boy crying out for his mummy to buy him some candy)

Nice to talk, Mr.

Since Stone Age, men provide, hunt for food and protect their women. Now things have changed. Men say, I only want woman who doesn't live with me for money. Guess what? Even if we're not in Stone Age any more, but human nature never changed.

As women only choose men who would provide best for her, who have most resources (richest) she could find. (Both conscious, and unconscious)

It's a world oldest human nature, female instinctive to survive. Ones who call women gold diggers should be ashamed of themselves.

Or you could choose a girl that actually has a work ethic to work and contribute to the family rather than be a mooch, just saying....

Unfortunately, I'm a woman. I only believe in power of Mother Nature. As long as you go long with her, you live happy.

P.s. I have my own money if you wonder.

Good for you having your own money, it's the way it should be rather than relying on others. It the guys that are willing to put up with the mooches I feel sorry for.

Still, I wouldn't choose a guy who would kick me out of his house any time he feels like it. Or who wouldn't cherish me with gifts and pleasure things. That's my point of discuss here more than dependency issue.

Since Stone Age, men provide, hunt for food and protect their women. Now things have changed. Men say, I only want woman who doesn't live with me for money. Guess what? Even if we're not in Stone Age any more, but human nature never changed.

As women only choose men who would provide best for her, who have most resources (richest) she could find. (Both conscious, and unconscious)

It's a world oldest human nature, female instinctive to survive. Ones who call women gold diggers should be ashamed of themselves.

Or you could choose a girl that actually has a work ethic to work and contribute to the family rather than be a mooch, just saying....

Unfortunately, I'm a woman. I only believe in power of Mother Nature. As long as you go long with her, you live happy.

P.s. I have my own money if you wonder.

Since Stone Age, men provide, hunt for food and protect their women. Now things have changed. Men say, I only want woman who doesn't live with me for money. Guess what? Even if we're not in Stone Age any more, but human nature never changed.

As women only choose men who would provide best for her, who have most resources (richest) she could find. (Both conscious, and unconscious)

It's a world oldest human nature, female instinctive to survive. Ones who call women gold diggers should be ashamed of themselves.

I'm a native Thai. I've never eat on the floor in my life. But I don't live in Issan, and my family live in big city. (Not Bangkok) So, maybe it's habit for some people. Still, I don't have any friends eating on the floor.

Thank you gentle men. Again this site is very useful and insightful of what's in the head of you guys. Now, me; a Thai girl would know what to do or how to deal when situations like this come up.

Keep on discussing !!!

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Hello OP, I'm a Thai woman. Having talking to farang men myself, and dating one of them for 10 months now. But we're not living together.

I added only one of them in my FB, the one who could be ONLY FRIEND, and will be nothing more... that one will go straight to my FB.

Another two that ended up being just friends now, I don't add their FB. Because in their FB, there're many other Thai/Philippine women. So, I told them the reason that I didn't add, it's because I don't want to be one in their collection of Asian women.

For the guy I've been dating, he's too busy to have FB which is very good for me. Even if he asked me to marry, I still don't tell any one. Until the marry is real. ;-)

I have nothing to hide from them. I just prefer to keep my privacy only to friends. And yes, if things won't work, we will still talking. Just outside the FB and only in private chat.

But for your gf, there might be her own reasons she won't add you. Maybe she isn't a straight forward kind of girl like me, maybe she prefer to talk smooth with you. That's why you won't get real reasons yet.

good luck

I can easily tell while reading all your opinions, that which ones of you married / have RED gf / wives from Issan or the north. These people will only breathe on their term of 'democracy'... that only election is an answer.

In RED democracy, all you would hear is... military coup is bad, army is bad etc... They would call all these coup things illegal, unauthorised military... But still, once the authorised judgement from the authorised court came out, none of them accepted it.

And not only don't accept; they came to the judges, knocking the door and threaten to harm them and their families for judging their side of politicians' corruption crimes.

Have your RED gf/wives told you these???

Since you guys are not native Thai, let me tell you what happen every time your democracy pet so-call 'elections' took place. There would be someone knocking my door, and every doors in the town/ village/ cities ... and offer how much money the household would get if we elect xxx ? Like an auction for the votes.

Now, Thailand is facing the greatest corruption in our history based on democracy system.

But all you guys saying is... Go get election !!!

I don't think so...

In the town 20km. from my home, Hat Yai, the price of land in the central city is asking for 200,000 THB/sqm. The price is higher than property in Silom and many central area in BKK.

Last year, a friend of my family, the local millionaire of Songkhla, has sold his land in Hat Yai to Central group company and they now turned the land to Central Festival Hat Yai. Our friend got 100 m.THB for that land. And if you visit the shopping mall, I think it's much smaller than other Central Festivals.

Just give you something to think about.

As much as I agree with the move for immigration reform, is it wise now to do this when the tourist industry is crippled from the months of political instability in Bangkok? Hundreds of thousands of people from all over the world are canceling their holidays, do they really want to run off the people who are left in this country spending money?

Let hear the voice of a native, won't you?

First thing first, please feel free to leave, to cancel holidays, to whatever you would do for your own good.

Personally, I don't care about tourist industry, I don't care about tourists at all. And not just me, but a large amount of Thai people don't care about you people stay or leave.

Not many people, who are native Thai in so-call tourist industry get money.

If you look closely, you'll find out that those workers in the industry are NOT Thai. And they have never paid tax.

So, feel free to leave anytime. Nothing will effect our income.

Im sure you are not an economist and probably the way you think cames from a low instruction path.

In 2013 there were more than 26 million tourist letting at least 75 million thai people live and keep working in tourist visa business.

Let me tell you that 75 million people needs range and are connected to all the people in thailand.

If suddenly you will loose 26 milion turistss (really not possible) you will be surprised of how fast a civil war will spread up to thai borders.

Thank you for math lesson. But are you really watching closely? Or you just google the numbers to upgrade your intelligence?

Let hear the voice of a native, won't you?

First thing first, please feel free to leave, to cancel holidays, to whatever you would do for your own good.

Personally, I don't care about tourist industry, I don't care about tourists at all. And not just me, but a large amount of Thai people don't care about you people stay or leave.

Not many people, who are native Thai in so-call tourist industry get money.

If you look closely, you'll find out that those workers in the industry are NOT Thai. And they have never paid tax.

So, feel free to leave anytime. Nothing will effect our income.

Thank you for exposing your personal view, the one of a clearly nationalistic ignorant bigot. Fortunately not all Thais think like you, and facts are clearly not like you say.

I will not say that you're highly xenophobic, because I'm afraid you would take that as a compliment.

Be the way, foreign tourism (and many more industries) workers that pay no taxes that you mentioned are actually the ones that are exploited on a daily basis by your co-citizens to increase their profit to the expense of people with basically no rights.

Good to see you are not worried about "your income" being affected, as that probably the true bottom line in your life.

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Believe me, a lot of Thai think like me, phobic or not... They just don't speak english.

Thai people never speak their minds. Remember that. But I'm here and voicing their voices.

As much as I agree with the move for immigration reform, is it wise now to do this when the tourist industry is crippled from the months of political instability in Bangkok? Hundreds of thousands of people from all over the world are canceling their holidays, do they really want to run off the people who are left in this country spending money?

Let hear the voice of a native, won't you?

First thing first, please feel free to leave, to cancel holidays, to whatever you would do for your own good.

Personally, I don't care about tourist industry, I don't care about tourists at all. And not just me, but a large amount of Thai people don't care about you people stay or leave.

Not many people, who are native Thai in so-call tourist industry get money.

If you look closely, you'll find out that those workers in the industry are NOT Thai. And they have never paid tax.

So, feel free to leave anytime. Nothing will effect our income.

Hello,

Well, I'm a native Thai-Chinese. I was wondering around to find some informations of Thai/western and I ended up here. It's interesting to hear and read about what you, western people, think of my country and Thai people. I've learned interesting words you guys used so far, like hi-so Chinese, used goods (for Thai widows.)...

And it's even more interesting because.... after all your complains and problems with this Land of Smile, yet you all struggling to get here/ to have a life here.

Let's say I'm here to learn about you. And I'll keep watching you people in the dark. Call me a shadow. I'm a voice and ears for Thai ladies.

Have a nice day.