Once the get out of you what they want. Or see there is no financial benefit in the future(Money, free trips, gold or what ever) they move on to the next bigger and better sucker. There is some dumb U tube blogger who just got dumped. She didn't see any new car or house from this cheap guy . And moved on. He was always looking for cheap hotels and sleeping in his van. And he is milking I'm a victim on his blog . Very pathetic in my opinion.