JoeBloe
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In fact, that is now the clear implication. In fact it's stated, though in different terms. So it's no sex for me anymore, and despite her excellent skills in the kitchen, living with someone I WANT to have sex with, and sleeping alone is not going to last long. Woman who use sex as a weapon, don't keep their men very long, and mine is on a countdown without an abort button.
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I didn't write that, did I? From memory, I wrote that her job was to be a mother and faithful partner. I don't need a nurse now, and with a bit of luck, never. We haven't amassed anything. In fact I haven't either. I can't think of a single thing of value that I have "amassed" in Thailand since I met her (aside from the jalopy which isn't in my name anyway). That's an issue in my case as well. She was a young widow when I met her, so it's a real enough concern.
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Who will be the first to blink? Obviously things are somewhat toxic at the moment and if she believed 10% of what comes out of her mouth during her tirades, she'd have left herself long ago - or knifed me. But she's still here and I'm still contributing to global warming ???? Clinically unstable she may be, but a fool she isn't
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Working is unlikely to happen for several reasons, so a new patron it will be. The boy will soon be of legal age, he's not an issue. I own >1 condos in Thailand, we live in one of them. In these bizarre Covid19 times, unloading them quickly and/or without significant loss is unlikely so me disappearing completely out of Thailand is somewhat difficult. I fully expect a police complaint and a long sad story and worse, as she threatens with that and more whenever she is in a rage. Her rages make Thai TV drama look like a well behaved kindergarten. If these rages weren't so regular I wouldn't be planning to leave :(
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"When I were a lad, we lived in shoebox in middle of road" But seriously, I grew up a few hundred yards from the pit head and while I have never had the misfortune of getting pogged on bread and dripping, it was a thing only a generation before me. I'll get it sorted. In the meantime I'll try and enjoy the "normal" times and survive the rest!
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I would be happy to detail my economic position to you, but since you think it's all about money and that's unlikely to change, I won't. That's a telling characteristic for a lot of people. Here's a reality check: All partnership breakups amount to money. The relationships themselves most often aren't based on that. Thailand is apparently a bit of a deviant example though, but in general this is true. An ATM? Until quite recently (and In fact during her "rational" moments, that is probably still the case), anyone suggesting that to my GF would have ended on the receiving end of some vitriol. EVERY couple where there is one breadwinner and one family caretaker has one party who is the "ATM". This is not unique to Thailand, it is how our species evolved. The reason that divorce settlements are invariably about money, is because one party (almost invariably the female) sacrifices x years for the benefit of the family rather than working at something else. It IS nothing more than compensation and it is valued in $. I didn't invent the concept, it is what it is. I'll be happy to pay her and walk away without a knife in my throat. This thread started with a question about legal status (answered). It is always wise to know the basic law before entering into a negotiation or contract.
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Oh, it's far longer than that and I did know it, roughly. But Covid19 and whatever has put me outside Thailand for going on 2 years, and laws and society change. I haven't really been following this very closely as it wasn't really an issue until quite recently. My GF seems to think she does have a legal entitlement and when she's angry and screaming, says so. Obviously she has the key to the condo (she lives there), but I doubt she could be classified as a squatter. Lawyers? Maybe. I am a child of a parental divorce, so I'm not going to throw them penniless on the street. There is zero probability of that. The son will graduate High School next year and then that part is done for us all because he can make his own way, and I'll help as required. Oh, we are not apart at the moment. They are in the same room as me now. This has taken a few years to develop into a toxic relationship. It'll take a while to back out gracefully.