You don't really care about Mexico, the US, or reality, you are still mired in Trump
You show your bias against Mexico, Mexicans, and probably women by using "Mexican Woman..." header instead of something more appropriate like "President of Mexico" or "President Sheinbaum of Mexico..." but you got Trump's name right.
Just accept the reality is that everybody is posturing for their constituency by throwing red meat to their supporters. Whatever is said won't reflect the upcoming changes at the border AND trade between countries.
What will eventually happen is that both sides will come to an understanding like what happened 4 years ago when Mexico used its military to clamp-down on illegal migrants passing through their country. This will happen because Mexico has much more to lose than the US if Trump closes the border like he did before, when Mexico immediately agreed to enforcing their borders, instituting Remain in Mexico, and replacing NAFTA with USMCA.