I am now always staying in villas exactly for this reason (misophonia is hell...). Even in a townhouse, when the houses are not separated and share the same wall, you can ear music and chair dragging, even if it's coming from a neighbor 4 houses further.
In Chiang Mai, I stayed a while at The Astra Condo. The amenities of this place are really awesome, but the soundproofing is aweful. I very often been waking up in the middle of the night by someone closing is door very loud or by someone dragging a chair. Even if the unit is far away from you and even not on the same floor, you ca