Dear Community,
I have seen many postings in this forum around Thai women and relationships. There is one question I am struggling with and maybe the one or other can enlighten me a little bit.
I spend two long term relationships with Thai women. Seeing married for 15 years with a Thai who grew up in France since she was a teenager and after my divorce many years later a one year relationship with an Isaan woman.
In both cases their ability to talk about their feelings was very limited, compared to European women. They both could talked endless about other things in her life or how bad they were feeling with ex-boyfriends or husbands, but being able to talk about what they feel in our relationship was pretty much non existing. Especially when it came to conflict situations where such kind of discussions are important in my opinion to find a common solution, their solution approach was rather to cook something and try to avoid any discussion.
I want to understand for myself if this was specific in my relationships and may have something to do with me and my selection of woman or if this is general cultural thing. How do you perceive this in your long term relationships? I talking about women in the age between 30 and 45.
Thank you and best regards
Momenteer
