I might have missunderstood your comment, but are you referring to me? are you trying to insult me for some reason?
Anyway, i was actually looking for information on how to proceed with the paperwork while not staying in Thailand, not how to rent a house, i am still very greatfull to the person that took the time to explain it, thank you. I figured i can get the papers scanned and emailed, print them out, sign them and send them back through email, or use some e-sign service. My SO is Thai, we are already renting a condo in her name, i would just prefer it if it was moved to my name since i would be the primary resident at that place. We are renting directly with the owner, she is a kind old lady but she doesnt know anything about the law regarding foreigners so i had to look it up.
Thank you to everyone that replied, my biggest worry was the Visa, since i can rent even before i get my Visa everything else is a non issue.