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But how would it be possible? He would be pissed off he sees her less than me? I see her 75% of her free time roughly?

I receive a military pension for the rest of my days, enough to live comfortably in Australia enough to live very be comfortable here. I can stay indefinitely.

Definitely crossed my mind. From what I gather her friend uncle is very small. She will meet a couple girlfriends for drinks maybe twice a month that I know about. She does seem to walk behind me and if I walk slowly ticket her catch up she walks even slower, not sure what that's about. Sometimes I think she has no idea she's doing anything other than what she thinks is normal

Literally tells me she doesn't want to any of my money, just grab and food

Good luck to them getting past my security lol

Why would I muddy the waters even further by throwing an allowance in the the equasion?

Lol, you think the whole family would go as far as to put on a whole fake show? They've never received a cent from me and in 3 months I've spent maybe 4000b on her?

Had my suspicions, but the fact she stayed here 6 or 7 nights in a row recently made me think otherwise, max time we have been apart is 2 days consecutive and I've met the family in the village too

Had my suspicions, but the fact she stayed here 6 or 7 nights in a row recently made me think otherwise, max time we have been apart is 2 days consecutive and I've met the family in the village too

Wouldn't it be easier to ask me for cash? She says her grandpa and mom fund her studies and never asks me for cash. Although I do pay for her taxis and food when with me

Had my suspicions, but the fact she stayed here 6 or 7 nights in a row recently made me think otherwise, max time we have been apart is 2 days consecutive and I've met the family in the village too

I'm here on a student visa studying Thai, my aptitude is reasonable. I'm half way to my commercial pilot certification.

Because, from the first date her smile hooked me. Her laugh is has the same affect. She brings me things before she's comes over and is thoughtful too. But in the next breath some of these other behaviors are also occuring. It's hard.

Have asked her if she wants to do something out of the house during the day, her response was there's nothing to do here in khon kaen don't worry about it is ok.

Hi all, I'm in my early thirties and she is in her early twenties, not that I'm sure age is a factor in my concerns. But it could be relevant I suppose. I have been dating a Thai for 3 months. We live separately and she only visits me at my condo, I've never seen her accomodation. She is a student and has her own student accomodation. Sometimes she surprises me and can be warm and affectionate, and she often sleeps at my place. However sometimes she stays home due to 'needing to get up early for class' but in reality stays up to 2am claiming she was in her phone and couldn't sleep. My condo is kind of small with only tiny couch in lounge and a bed in bedroom which may influence the following, but sometimes she feels cold and distant when she is over at my place she will sit on said couch on her phone while I'm in the bedroom watching tv, for hours until midnight and then come lay with me for a little and sleep, then leave early the next day. When she comes over its often already 11-12 at night, which itself concerns me a bit. There has been a few times she has said she's sore and doesn't want to do the thing, although we hadn't been together for a day or two. The other morning, she told me she was calling a grab. 10 mins later she collects her stuff and makes a b line for the door without telling me her lift arrived or she was leaving. Nothing. I decided to ask her what was up and if it was normal to leave without saying anything, her response was she was tired and didnt feel like talking? Kind of threw me off a bit. Anyway, sorry about the long post but I like the girl, I just don't understand some of the behavior and and leads me to feel paranoid. I haven't really experienced this before and honestly if it was a western girl I'd wonder if she might be a little Asperger's or even be uninterested altogether! I could be paranoid and completely in the wrong here. I'm just not sure. Any advice or feedbacks is appreciated, thanks in advance.