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44 minutes ago, MangoKorat said:

And you never will.

 

Sorry if this has already been said but I don't have time to read all the other replies.

 

Her behaviour in terms of claiming she can't stay because of lessons.........that's easy - she has a Thai boyfriend, they all do.

But how would it be possible? He would be pissed off he sees her less than me? I see her 75% of her free time roughly?

46 minutes ago, RichardColeman said:

Not really, my point was a young person in their 30's wanting a relationship with a thai girl has to be either living in Thailand (working) or have the funds to take her to their home country. Basically many young men come here, meet and fall in love with absolutely no way of being able to either A take care of her financially, B have an ability to work, or C take her home. It's not the same for us old codgers who are more financially stable. His girls antics might not be worth the effort if he has no way to take care of her long term anyway - maybe that is what she worries about too and hence acts like she is 

I receive a military pension for the rest of my days, enough to live comfortably in Australia enough to live very be comfortable here. I can stay indefinitely.

1 minute ago, mancub said:

Isn't that what Prigozin said ? 

Seriously though, have you ever considered that she might be embarrassed or even ashamed to be seen with a foreigner ? Do her friends know about you ?

Definitely crossed my mind. From what I gather her friend uncle is very small. She will meet a couple girlfriends for drinks maybe twice a month that I know about.

She does seem to walk behind me and if I walk slowly ticket her catch up she walks even slower, not sure what that's about. Sometimes I think she has no idea she's doing anything other than what she thinks is normal 

3 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

 

OK, let's for a moment consider the possibility that you are not a troll.

 

If you don't pay her an 'allowance' somebody else will

Literally tells me she doesn't want to any of my money, just grab and food 

2 hours ago, mancub said:

....before a jealous Thai guy pays a visit with a weapon and/ or a number of cohorts !

Good luck to them getting past my security lol

2 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

Wow!

 

 

I think that she has certainly found a "keeper".......

Why would I muddy the waters even further by throwing an allowance in the the equasion? 

1 minute ago, brianthainess said:

Lol, you think the whole family would go as far as to put on a whole fake show? They've never received a cent from me and in 3 months I've spent maybe 4000b on her?

10 minutes ago, BarraMarra said:

The OP is not the boyfriend he is just in the Cue.

Had my suspicions, but the fact she stayed here 6 or 7 nights in a row recently made me think otherwise, max time we have been apart is 2 days consecutive and I've met the family in the village too

9 minutes ago, BarraMarra said:

The OP is not the boyfriend he is just in the Cue.

9 minutes ago, BarraMarra said:

The OP is not the boyfriend he is just in the Cue.

Had my suspicions, but the fact she stayed here 6 or 7 nights in a row recently made me think otherwise, max time we have been apart is 2 days consecutive and I've met the family in the village too

Just now, scubascuba3 said:

Well known college students do sex work to fund their studies and families

Wouldn't it be easier to ask me for cash? She says her grandpa and mom fund her studies and never asks me for cash. Although I do pay for her taxis and food when with me

6 minutes ago, BarraMarra said:

The OP is not the boyfriend he is just in the Cue.

Had my suspicions, but the fact she stayed here 6 or 7 nights in a row recently made me think otherwise, max time we have been apart is 2 days consecutive and I've met the family in the village too

18 minutes ago, RichardColeman said:

I'm more interested in how you are staying in Thailand . You are not old enough for a retirement visa and that really only leaves a working one - if you have no retirement visa and not working and  just here for an extended holiday I would pretty much give up now. If you are on a work visa then I would imagine you could do much better and have a better intelligence than some to know when you are being lied to

I'm here on a student visa studying Thai, my aptitude is reasonable. I'm half way to my commercial pilot certification. 

12 minutes ago, G Rex said:

This relationship sounds like it is doomed from the outset.

Too many negatives here.

I can see no positives in your post - why would you want to continue this relationship?

Time to make the break, and look for greener pastures... 

Because, from the first date her smile hooked me. Her laugh is has the same affect. She brings me things before she's comes over and is thoughtful too. But in the next breath some of these other behaviors are also occuring. It's hard.

36 minutes ago, Fat is a type of crazy said:

You sound a bit passive. Ask her why she comes over so late. Give her a reason to come over ealiier. Take her out. Have fun. Sounds like you are watching on, getting late night fun, but not pushing it further. If she’s not asking for money that’s a good sign.

Have asked her if she wants to do something out of the house during the day, her response was there's nothing to do here in khon kaen don't worry about it is ok.