JK-Trilly

All your abusiveness has now caught up with you. Thank goodness. Good riddance. You won't be missed.

After reading many of your nauseating posts that dominate and attempt to highjack this topic, I can only come to the single conclusion that you are an angry and frustrated sexpat and part time sex tourist. What a shame.

Stage 4 - You find yourself supporting her whole dead-beat family because you were told that doing this is part of Thai culture and that you're also making lots of Buddhist merit by doing that, so that there is your reward. Meanwhile, you're questioning your sanity and wondering how you got yourself into this insane predicament in the first place. At the same time, you are starting to wonder why her own "brother", who is only a couple of years older than her, and looks nothing like her, spends so much time with her at your place when you are out at work or off somewhere meeting up with friends.

Ah, the crescendo of any romantic relationship. Who could possibly ask for anything more.

Stage 1 - She's crazy AF, but your ignoring the obvious signs because your too busy thinking about when she goes up and down on your little bobbin and thimble for 15 minute a day. After all, she's also special and different. And she recognizes all your good qualities like no other woman ever has. Plus she's 20 years younger than you, so you are the luckiest man on earth. Stage 2 - You realize that not only that she really is crazy, but unintelligent too and her life is ruled by a combination of childish TikTok influencers and ridiculous superstitious beliefs. And she's got a bunch of unhealthy bad habits. Plus she's put on 20 pounds. Also, you finally start to realize this really isn't a healthy thing at all for your own bank account. Stage 3 - Your in too deep. The arguments start getting physical, that 15 minute a day thing that you loved so much at the beginning has long come and gone. Special and different has turned into psycho and calculating. You're now thinking about cutting your losses, and hopefully, if you're smart, you are only moments away from running like hell while you still can.

Mate, you must be solidly out to lunch. You want somebody to jump through all the hoops to get a yellow book, just to be able to eventually get a pink card, which doesn't even serve the purpose of being a visa status ID card (as per the original post). What's the point of that? Are you a Trump supporter too?

I heard this works really well.

NFG FFS

The bike has no insurance yet I was told, don't know why. Her car has insurance, but since I'm not a licensed driver in Thailand they won't cover it.

So I went to a birthday party at my Thai girlfriend’s upcountry family home over the weekend. After we were there for a while, my GF asked me to move her car so that someone else could exit the compound with their car from the parking area at the front of the house. I already had a few drinks at that point and I accidentally plowed the back of her car right into her brother’s brand new Ducati sport motorcycle that was parked behind her car. There is only a bit of damage to the back of her car, luckily only the bumper cover is a bit scuffed, but when I crashed into his motorcycle it got smashed up pretty badly against the wall on the other side. Thus, there is damage to two sides of his bike. From the car hitting it and then from when the motorcycle hit the wall. And then the bike fell over when I pulled the car forward a bit after the accident. The damage from the car to the bike wasn't so bad but the wall really smashed up the bike on the other side and the fall presumably added to the damage of the petrol tank on the side of the bike that I crashed into as there were a couple of large stones on the ground that the bike landed on top of when it fell over. It was so dark that I couldn't really see all the damage I caused until we got some flashlights after the accident. Everyone in her family was really good about it, but I could see from the look in their eyes that they weren’t impressed at all with my little stunt. Now I’ve gotta get my GF’s car fixed, which isn't so bad, but the worst part is how to deal with the bike. It’s a lot of monetary damage and I don’t have the money right now to pay for all the imported Italian parts needed for the repair, however her brother obviously wants his expensive and new 998cc sport bike repaired ASAP, and I don't blame him fir how he feels. This isn’t looking good for me. Probably a big loss of face in the eyes of her family that I won’t be able to recover from. My girlfriend says she isn’t angry, but she hasn’t acted her same warm way towards me since the accident. So I don’t know how things are going to go with her in the future. We haven't had any intimacy together since the tragic event. At the moment though the biggest problem is how to pay for the damage to the car and motorcycle and make good on everything I did. I can now pay for the car repairs as I said, but I told them I would need a bit of time to transfer the money in for the bike repairs, although the truth is I don't have the cash readily available. I have a property overseas I could possibly sell, but my parents are living in the place right now and selling a property takes time anyway. Don't think I can qualify for a bank loan either at the moment. I’m not really sure what to do next.