JimmyTobacco

However, apparently the report is due 25 February, but I am leaving the day after. I know you can be up to a week late, but what happens if I come back to Thailand without having done the report at all?

Question: I entered Thailand in September. I did my 90 days report at the end of November, a few days before the actual 90 days. On my receipt, it says that I have to file my next 90 day report on February 25th, which is indeed 90 days from the day I've done my first report. I am actually flying to BKK on the 25th and leaving Thailand on the 26th. Do I still need to do the second report? (Despite not staying in Thailand for 180 days or more) It's a small effort to do the next report online though or go to the drive through here in CM, before the 25th. Anyway, next time I will make sure to do my calculations better. I assumed the next report would be due after an actual 180 days in the country, even when reporting early.

I suppose that if you are engaging in a discussion and you don't wish to explain yourself further if your discussion partner doesn't understand what you are implying, the discussion is basically over.

Well I gave you a possible and plausible explanation of what you said, and you denied that that was the correct explanation. Then you didn't care to explain more.

I want to thank you for probably the first serious response to my question, which is very serious as well. Regular updates would be a bonus, but are not an absolute requirement for me. I also realize that it might hit me harder than I think to see photos of my child without having any involvement in the child's life. I'm willing to take this risk. I recently read a story about I believe a Dutch guy who fathered more than 500 children. Many of the women are sending him regular updates and he even regularly meets up with some of the kids, but some women prefer to not have any father in their children's lives whatsoever. Now 500 is a bit much and irresponsible for sure, especially with the risk of incest, but I don't see what the problem is with such an arrangement otherwise. Except for the fact that one could claim that a western man fathering a child with a Thai woman who is economically less capable and then not supporting her financially is not responsible either, but I would say it entirely depends on the situation and circumstances. I know Thai women who make over 2.5 million THB a year.

You clearly didn't know what you meant either. Maybe you can ponder your own behavior for a while, writing absolute gibberish and then not wishing to explain yourself.

Ok but you say that " One is the woman's choice, one is not". What do you mean with this?

Ehm, you are assuming I want to make a woman pregnant against her own wishes?!

All I'm asking is if this procedure (basically sperm donation in any shape or form) is possible in Thailand, as it is in the west. If it is, I am sure there are ways to that they will verify the woman has enough economic resources to raise the child by herself. If not, I can still verify that myself. There are plenty of single moms in Thailand who are raising a child and doing just fine. And I do think there are probably Thai females out there who'd prefer to have a luk krueng. Being white is quite an advantage in Thai society.

I'm not sure, but it's MY point? I am asking if he objects to any form of sperm donation, since sperm donors are also fathering a child without taking responsibility. In fact, in most case the mother doesn't want them to take responsibility.

I have several female friends back in my home-country who have conceived a child with male friends or gay donors. Some are raising the child alone, some are not. How is this different? I don't have any problem if a woman wants to raise a child by herself and needs a donor.

Who are you to say so, if I could legally do so within the limits of the law? In most western countries sperm donation is a completely normal procedure, which is available to lesbian couples, single mothers and coupled mothers who have trouble conceiving with their partner. Both through sperm banks and personal arrangements. Responsibilities can be waived with simple forms signed by both parties most of the time. Do you object to that as well?

It's just not feasible. I even struggle to work more than 20 hours a week, while leaving enough time for rest, working out, exploring, eating, household chores etc. I cannot imagine having to raise a child. However, I am still very interested in fathering one.

I have a Thai gf The both of us don't want to raise any kids However, I would like to conceive a child. I'd like to have no formal relationship and responsibilities to the child, but perhaps get some pictures and updates every now and again if the mother feels like it. Basically I'd like to donate my sperm. I could do this back home and it would all be legally solid, but I'd like to do this in Thailand. Is there any way to donate sperm in Thailand or conceive a child with a Thai lady, without the obligations that come with it? And yes, my gf is fine with it

Mmm yeah I would also not use the word work. If they asked me if I am working while in Thailand, I would probably also answer that I have no work at the moment.