All I can say is I met a young financially independent woman, she already had her own house(s), money, income, business, I was in the same situation and was young at the time too.
She is now much older so am I, no drama involved or any of the stores as above or what I have been told by some farangs.
We are the same as most farangs I know with Thai women, ordinary with normal day to day lives.
News like that does not carry, it is not newsworthy so is never heard of in the press, only the doom and gloom stories where farangs are ripped off are reported.
So when I am told "You know what Thai women are like, they cheat and steal etc, ", by a certain type of farang, I tell them no I don't, I tell them to try and meet a Thai woman who does not work in a bar or such type of job.
They then tell me I know nothing of Thailand, I say I know nothing of your version of Thailand.