if i am married to a woman but see ladyboys regularly, does that make me gay or bi? it doesnt feel like it, I feel like im with a woman when im with a ladyboy, but i do like sucking on it as well. I'm just a bit confused right now i suppose. I have been happilly married for years but always find the time to sneak off for a bit of LB action every now and again. am I gay or not?