thainomad3

Lock him up Lock her up

Your lifes work are for your kids. Not giving to some girl just cuz she banged u a few hundred times

so u dont lose ur assets. the only reason to marry is for kids

I mean obviously age and previous relationships matter. but I measure it by breeding utility. will she give u babies? how much money does she require overall? etc did u have to buy her a house or car does she live with u

20k baht sin sod. what the heck. im getting asked 100k baht for a 28 yo single mom with 2 kids

It was over when she cheated on u

Sex and babies. If u want someone to talk to or do things with that's what guys are for.

Do you guys get legally married? Honestly sin sod is way cheaper than any legal documents and losing ur assets.

I am being serious. Maybe I'm cynical but I want a return on investment for everything I do. Why would I give a bunch up front?

Has 1 million baht car (think its paid off though but expensive to maintain compared to her salary) Family home 2.5 million baht. Still has mortgage. Father and mother blue collar works almost everyday. She had 50k (probably 20k now though) baht in the bank. Not a real teacher. But teachers assistant. Helps kids go to nap time, serves meals that sort of thing. Used to be nurse assistant. Checking in patients, helping doctor. Check blood pressure. But not any real medical treatment. I will do my best to negotiate it down from 100k and spread it over a few months. Making sure she's pregnant before any big money comes. The first 3 months of 10k/month is fine since im living in her home and sex daily.

Only this spring. in the future I'll stay like a month a year and she should let me since Id pay child support for my kid.

Not directly related to sin sod. But how do you deal with Thai girls misbehaving. Especially when it's hard to leave not because of emotional attachment but youve invested time and money (like flights). Sunk cost fallacy Ive tried cutting off a small allowance, ghosting for days, communicating my concerns, asking her to return the small money ive given her etc. Seems toxic idk how to deal with her doing stupid <deleted> that pisses me off I gave her 3000 baht because she chose an easy but less pay teaching assistant job. But I told her 1000 baht needs to go to the gym. She spent it on TikTok orders

So do you think im getting a fair deal or not? On one hand single moms dont deserve sin sod. On the other hand she's giving me a lot and a baby for cheaper than most farangs. I dont need to buy a car or condo etc

"he just wants to have a kid for some reason as some sort of lifestyle that will fit into him visiting Thailand now and then." True Not joking. I want to make sure both parties get a fair deal out of this relationship. I absolutely love her, enough to visit her every year. Not so much id buy a house or car or pay an exorbitant "sin sod."

It would be paid while pregnant but it's for when the Childs born she needs to take several months off. In the end if she gets a net profit of 60k or so baht that's fine. Because I didn't need to rent a condo or car or jewelry. I'd overall be saving compared to some Farang who buys a car for their wife.