BatteringRam

Twenty four/five year old on a dating site looking for money and asking guys to buy things for her...what do you think?

It's you who has focussed on money. No man nor woman with any self respect would bring money into the conversation. For you, it's part of the deal.

Sugar Daddy chat.

I wrote that I have access to EVERYTHING. That is normal. It just happens. If you think it had anything to do with a lack of trust, that's your own wild imagination. It's not something that has ever crossed my mind.

Nope. Bank accounts, I think, was when we were looking at her finances after her using credit cards and just making the minimum payments. I wasn't impressed and demanded to look at everything. But nothing to do with trust, but making sure that she kept on top of her finances. So if anything, it solidified her trust in me. It showed her that I cared. You have a seriously skewed view of women. I doubt that you will ever have a healthy and sustainable relationship.

No, I didn't request access to those things. They come about naturally if something needs to be facilitated. I meet women in natural surroundings, rather than a meat market, selling themselves to the highest bidder. We swim in different pools. Yours is full of sharks. Mine has dolphins. I don't have the same things to consider. Mine aren't looking for someone to support them. They want someone with whom to spend their lives. You are in Thailand because you think you can be a big fish. Your little income couldn't hack it in the West and certainly not with any 24 year old. 8000 baht would get you 30 minutes with an 'escort'. So you are here. That's all. No real relationship, but just looking to buy a 'girlfriend'.

High hopes indeed. Think about it for a moment... Does a 'hot' 24 year old need a dating site to meet guys? They do not. It's a job. A side line. You are their job. You are meeting sex workers and then using that to judge all women. Everyone reading here knows they are sex workers looking for a sugar daddy. Even you. As long as they don't shove it in your face, you can try to maintain the illusion. But when they sit on their phone all day with nothing to say to you, unless you are taking them out shopping and spending money on them, you get nervous and want to check. You are looking for sex workers on the cheap. No different from the ten of thousands who went before you. What's your plan for these women? Are they going to sit on their phones all day whilst you sit in front of your laptop obsessing over money? What next? Front up money for a beauty salon? At least your threads invite comment and discussion, I'll give you that.

Is that what I told you or are you only seeing the parts that you want to see? Did you read the rest of the sentence? Once the trust is there, you don't have to think about it again. I have full access to her bank accounts, email, phone.. Nothing to hide. You need a private detective and even then you'd be nervous. Which way is better do you think?

Sounds like a normal, healthy sustainable relationship. Woman not sitting around on her phone all day on the dating sites and chat, as I imagine Cameroni's 'girls' are doing. Keeping the other guys on a string just in case. He will not ever be able to relax with his freelance women. It's just a joke. He knows they are sex workers, but just doesn't want to really know they are sex workers.

Okay, boy. You can choose to believe or not believe. Makes no difference to me, other than I have no more time to share with you. I have better things to do. You do your thing. We'll read about it later. I trust you will try to be honest about what happened. One more thing... the fact that you cannot believe me, tells me that you have issues with trust. That's going to hurt you. You won't ever be able to have a stable relationship until you can have the feeling with someone wherein you don't even have a doubt in your mind. Only when you can find a girl without using money, will you begin to gain that confidence.

I asked you straight. Do you think that I have made up anything that I have written to you? The fact that your mind cannot conceive not paying has nothing to do with the fact that everything that I have written is 100% true. Same as I believe you. So show some respect, the same as I'm giving you. I'm telling you as it was. To be frank, when I used to tell about these things to colleagues at work, they too were incredulous. But they could soon see that I was telling the truth.

What is wrong with you? You think that I made any of that up? That's how it is and that is how is was. You are starting by almost crawling on your belly. How are you going to get up from that?

Are you serious man? Maybe I grew up in a different world, but i would ask a girl to buy me something just to check if she was serious. That's how I got my first bass, if I remember correctly. That is how we do it. Cucks of course will say real men give their women money. Of course you are in it together and everything is in the pot once she's proved herself. But guys paying from the get go. They fall back on showing that they have money. I don't tell women I have money.

I remember growing up, girlfriends would be buying me cars and guitars. Here is Cameroni thinking he's boasting about meeting 'hot girls' for whom he has to pay. It's mind boggling. That is pure Cuckold territory. When a girl likes you, she will do anything for you. Don't you know that?

Oh dear... So in your mind, you are the one in control 😊

No, I see it from a different perspective. Your tongue is hanging out and your blinkers are on. You are just a dog and she knows it.

From reading that conversation, that's what I see unfolding. Are you new to women or what?

Are you crazy? I cannot even imagine talking with a girl about money in that way. Being a sugar daddy has become your norm.

Cuckold.

I guess she kept herself groomed at all times, as I don't remember anything to that effect. Maybe you missed that I did not have to pay FOR ANYTHING. When I was there, she took care of everything. When she came to my place, ditto. If you think I exaggerate about the costs, take a look for yourself https://www.quisisana.com/ I would stay around the corner in an apartment. The house was ten minutes walk away. No cars allowed. Only special little electric carts. Paying for a girlfriend is sugar daddy territory.

Allow me to paint a picture of reality over your fantasy. I had an Italian girlfriend for a while. She lives in Italy, on an exclusive island, popular with celebrities. Every weekend, unless we had more time and could stay together for longer, I would either fly there or she would fly to my country. If I stayed there for longer, we would take a house. I didn't have to pay. Keep in mind that a house or apartment on this island could easily set you back 500 euros per night and more. That is a girlfriend. You are not serious.

Because you are paying her tomorrow?

She'll ride the money train as far as it goes.

So you know...

I agree. That's why you cannot let her go...and she knows that. 🤑