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  1. We recently spent 10 nights at the Koh Chang Cliff Beach hotel in Kai Bae and paid about 4000 baht per night for a cliff view room. I think their prices range from about 2700 - 6500 baht per night.

    Lovely secluded beach which did neighbour a couple of other resorts but we had a very peaceful and relaxing stay. The staff were more than helpfull on many an occasion and its not to far from restaurants and bars if you need a change.

    We've stayed at quite a few hotels on Koh Chang over the years and this was up there as one of our nicest stays.

    Guemlem

  2. Ok, a little bit of a tricky situation here, and I am asking on behalf of a friend of mine.

    My friends, who are husband and wife moved from Thailand to the UK almost 2 years ago. He is English and she is Thai. She was granted a settlement visa for 2 years and was in the UK for 8 months before moving to Costa Rica, South America with her husband to start up a business together.

    Her settlement visa runs out on the 29th March this year, and they are wondering what their options are regarding her visa status, and what she will need to do prior to and arriving in the UK. They are returning in March.

    Hope the scouse is about, as I'm sure he can advise accordingly.

    Thanks

    Guemlum

  3. Thanks for the info guys.

    We've used a translation bureau opposite the embassy before, but unfortunately the wife lost his business card and couldn’t call him to find out a price. I just wanted to pre-warn her of the cost involved.

    Unfortunately there are no reliable translation bureaus up in Nongkhai that I am aware of, and since she is going for her TB test on Tuesday and to submit her settlement visa application on Wednesday, it made sense to get the wedding certificate translated at the same time.

    Thanks again guys.

    Guemlum

  4. Hi Guys, It's probably been asked a thousand times and I've done a search around the forum and cant find what I'm looking for.

    Basically need to know how much it costs to have the Thai marriage certificate translated into English?

    Are there any other documents required by the translation bureau in order to do the translation?

    How long it takes to do the translation?

    Any recommendations for a good translation bureau?

    Thanks

    Guemlum

  5. Some pretty good pics G', the one of the underside of the umbrella had particular artistic taste, I thought :o and just put my mind at rest, you weren't involved in the Lorry destruction derby were you? :D

    I did like the pics

    Moss

    Thanks mossy and unfortunately had nothing to do with accident. Was dam_n funny though. The guy pulled of the ferry, drove fifty yards, slid backwards into the ditch. I think he never gave the 3 compulsory toots of the car horn for good luck that your supposed to do when arriving on Koh Chang.

    Guemlum

  6. Saw a German guy in a ditch only yesterday. He had come off his bike after sliding on loose soil/sand that had fallen off the back of a truck. Stuck him in the back of the pick-up and took him to the local clinic where they patched him up. He wasnt drunk and had ridden bikes before, but the back wheel just went from under him on a corner and there was nothing he could do about it.

    Best to drive the largest vehicle you can afford to, and if that's a small scooter then ride as though you expect everyone else on the road to kill you. That way you'll stay alert.

    Guemlum & Cuban - thanks for the mention of me & the site.

    Hi Changian, probably remember me as Gary...nice to see you on the forum. Have posted a few pictures in this forum from Koh Chang, including one or our boat trip with you.

    Look forward to reading any of your future posts.

    Guemlum

  7. White Sands is now (IMHO) quite a down market resort, lots of European back-packers with out of date Lonely Planet guides seeking "The Beach" experience etc etc.

    Where would you recommend as the best beach these days on Koh Chang, if not White Sands?

    Last hotel we stayed at was the Koh Chang Cliff Beach. Had a beautiful private beach... and IMO much better than the beach in Klong Prao, or Whitesands. There are lots of superior beaches to those that have been mentioned, but they obviously belong to hotels. Remember, you can always walk into most of the hotels and use their services, or failing that, just say you want to have a look around as you're thinking of visiting another time. Another option which we have done many times is to rent a private speed boat and visit some of the smaller Islands, such as Koh Maak, Koh Wai etc. Beautiful beaches and depending on the time of day, you get the beach to yourself.

    On another note and back to my original post, that picture is one of mine. Lorry rolled backwards after hitting oil...lost road grip and ended up in a ditch. Happened only 50 yards from the ferry point.

    You are lucky not to have witnessed any accidents on the island or to be involved in any.... however, I'm very surprised you've not heard about any. They happen on a daily basis. Just look at the number of farrang sporting huge scabs and cuts on their arms and legs. They are not called Koh Chang tattoos for no reason.

    I'll quote an article written on www.iamkohchang.com

    Motorcyclists. "There are two kinds of riders on K.C. The bad farang riders and the bad Thai riders. Their traits differ however, the Thai rider will more often than not be a danger to other road users because he places all his faith in not having an accident in the small amulet his grandfather gave him rather than following any rules of the road. This amulet gives him superhuman powers and makes him indestructible. Think about it, how fast would you ride if you thought you had eternal life? Farang riders pose an equal threat, not through speed, more through lack of it. Lobster tanned couples wobbling around on a 100cc scooter and eventually stalling and falling underneath the wheels of a pick-up when attempting to climb a hill are an all too common cause of tailbacks".

    Roads. "An asphalt road almost circles the island. Around the east coast the road is flat, on the west coast there's a very step climb between Kong Son & White Sand Beach, from there it's flat road until you leave Kai Bae and the road becomes a mini rollercoaster until you reach Bailan. The 11km between Salakphet and Bangbao is a dangerous, narrow gravel topped road for motorbikes and bicycles only . . .or it would be if the central section had actually been completed. As it is, the road just stops in a dead end in the jungle after a couple of kilometres. A lot of complaints are made about the roads on Koh Chang being too narrow but plans have been approved to add footpaths and widen the road in certain places on the west coast. In early 2005,there were a lot of surveyors out on the west coast roads, apparently deciding where to put footpaths . . .I don't need a troglodyte to know that adjacent to the road would be a good place to start. And by mid-2006 the road was widened from White Sand Beach to Kai Bae to include an additional footpath / bicycle lane / parking area / area for setting up market stalls".

    "Garbage is piling up on the hillside and along the road. Wastewater is being discharged from hotels and construction sites to the seashore, where tourists sunbathe and swim. The 70km road, the only main road on this resort island, is in terrible condition. Without street lights, the number of road accidents continues to rise".

    And another from another well-known Koh Chang website...

    "When you arrive at Koh Chang, the first precaution is to drive carefully. Koh Chang is very safe place where the most trouble is self-inflicted with drink driving. Most accidents are fairly common so you should always wear helmet and shoes; most of the roads are concrete now so they are crucial, jeans and jacket are advisable. The sharp curves are mostly around Klong Son, White Sand Beach, Lonely Beach and Kai Bae Beach. Except Klongprao where is almost plain area. Theft is uncommon, but if it does happen, go to police station and get a report for your insurance.

    And from another...

    Roads - A two-lane tarmac road circumnavigates 90% of the island. Sections of it are very hilly, so it pays to be cautious- especially at night as fatal accidents do occur with increasing frequency.

    The list go's on.

    Regarding the OP's original message, don’t hesitate in taking a car or renting a motorbike on the island. Just be aware that Koh Chang is no safer than any other island or town/city in Thailand. You may be the best driver in the world, but then there's always the other driver. And more often than not, accidents are a daily occurrence on Koh Chang. Please drive with care if you do visit Koh Chang.

    Guemlum

  8. Looks good. I am thinking of driving there next month, for about 3 nights, I think will take about 5 hrs or so [takes me just under 4hrs to drive to the other side of Rayong] ...... is there a car ferry? Price? is it worth taking the car over? which part is best?

    someone told me that 'white sands' is in fact NOT a sandy beach at all is this true?

    White sands beach is a very nice, and very sandy, beach.

    Contrary to another post here, I'd highly recommend taking a car onto the island - the roads on the west coast are all sealed and in reasonable shape. There are a few steep-ish hills, but nothing like the rollercoaster hills you get on Pha Ngan, for example. Quality of roads is generally fine, except on the east coast, but there aren't really many attractions on the east coast to warrant going down there. I've been to Koh Chang a few times and never seen or heard of one accident.

    Having a car gives you great freedom to visit the many beaches on the west coast at your leisure and without having to mess about with the taxis (songthaews). Plus you can drive to the interesting village on stilts over the sea at the far south-eastern tip of the island.

    You've got to be kidding me!!. We've been visiting Koh Chang twice a year for the past five years. In that time we've had 3 motorbike accidents, and not because we are bad drivers. The amount of building work going on on the island has bought an influx of large construction vehicles which spew oil all over the roads. This has been one of the many reasons for a large spate of accidents on the Island. Not only that, you get the typical drunk Thais and backpackers who seem to think they are indestructable after a few drinks on their way home.

    On our recent trip....October, we heard of 1 death and 7 accidents in the space of 3 days. The roads on the western side of the Island are like a rollercoaster but only from Kai Bae as far as Bang Bao, which is roughly half the length of the east side. On the eastern side, the roads ar nice and flat up as far as Salakkok Bay, but once you turn of these roads and head down towards long beach or lonely beach backpackers, you will encounter the worst roads in your life. These roads are a very badly eroded with 12" deep grooves cut in the roads from rain and landslides. In many parts, we both had to get off of the motorbike and walk. Definately a need a 4x4 if you are heading this far. Its worth it as the scenery and views are breathtaking.

    Koh Chang has an accident rate on par with other tourist hotspots. In spite of this Koh Chang is a lovely Island, as are many of the surrounding smaller Islands.

    I would definately recommend the link that Cuban posted. The guy's name is Ian and he comes from the UK. He is a very helpfull and knowledgeable guy and his bunglaows are the best on the island. And no, I havent stayed in them, just seen them.

    PLEASE LOOK OUT FOR THE OIL ON THE ROADS. EVEN THE DRY PATCHES. Would hate to hear of any TV members ending up as just another number.

    Guemlum

  9. It is also about class as well. If someone can't find the money to marry someone then may be he is trying to marry out of his class and should look else where.

    Love should transcend everything.

    "You can't marry my daughter if you can't pay what I want" Disgusting!

    Agree there...well here's my 2 bahts worth

    We recently got married and a sinsod of 99,999 baht was agreed. My wife asked her father about sinsod prior to us getting married to which he replied, he didnt want one. The above figure was chosen because of the number 9 being lucky in Thailand. It was purely for show. He never gave it back to us on the quiet either but announced it during the wedding ceremony.

    We gave it back to my parents who initially put up the sinsod, and they then returned it to us to pay for our honeymoon. Her father was happy that we received it either way.

    She got a 2 baht necklace which she gave to her father and I paid for the whole wedding, costing roughly about 3k GBP.

    Her father and family were simply happy that she would be taken care of for the rest of her life.

    Incidently, he passed away 3 weeks later, which can be read about in this thread...

    http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=161125

    Guemlum

  10. If you were to fly with Etihad and encounter a stop in Abu Dhabi of that length of time, they would put you up in a hotel free of charge. Worth a look, as its not very often that you'll be in transit for 9 hours with Etihad....the normal in transit time with Etihad is a couple of hours. They are alot cheaper and IMO far superior to Emirates

    Guemlum

  11. There are both Catholic and Christian churches in Nongkhai. I know of one Christian centre that is located in the small soi that runs along the side of the Nongkhai Grand Hotel. I'm sure there are other churches, but I'm not aware of their locations.

    And yes, you can get broadband in Nongkhai.

    Guemlum

  12. Hi Lickey, glad to hear you enjoyed your steak.

    Its a hive of activity around there, what with the market so close. The dogs name is Bianca for future reference, and I heard she enjoyed the leftovers. :o

    Guemlum

  13. Hi Scotty,

    obviously dont dress in short skirt, flimsy top and 6" stilletos. Just treat it like you were attending an interview back here in the UK.

    When my wife went to the application centre, she dressed smart casual....long trousers, smart shoes and her yellow "we love the king shirt". After her application, she was invited to attend an interview at the Embassy where she wore long trousers and a smart long sleeved shirt. Go easy on the bling as well.

    I saw people in there looking like they'd just come back from a nightclub or the beach.

    Guemlum

  14. If I was you, I'd write down you are in full time employment at present in Thailand. I'd also attach a note mentioning that you are moving to the UK with your family, but you will be unemployed upon arrival.

    The thing is, as you are the main sponsor, you will have to show some means of being able to support your family without the aid of government help (benefits). I also believe that no financial help from parents is allowed but an offer of accomodation is acceptable.

    Alternatively, you secure some type of employment before moving back to the UK.

    Dont give up yet. You can always wait to see what the SCOUSE has to say on the matter. I'm sure he'll be able to advise you accordingly.

    Guemlum

  15. I'm assuming that you are situated half way between Mukdahan and Ubon? I do know of a supplier in Surin where we recently purchased wine and vodka for our wedding in Nongkhai. You can buy a whole range of western spirits from a guy called Nobbi. He was based in Nongkhai but know resides in Surin where he is set up as "Nobbi's Restaurant and Minimarket" Unfortunately, I dont have a website link for you. Alternatively, look at some of the sponsors of this forum. Hope this helps.

    Guemlum

  16. For those who might be interested, and have never taken part in such an event, I thought I would post my recent experiences in taking part in my father-in-laws funeral. Forgive me for not being able to name each ceremony (in Thai) that took place, so I'll try to describe what happened as best as possible. This is a rather long post.



    My wife and I had only got married 3 weeks prior, and were not sure if he'd even make it to the wedding. We believe it was what kept him going, and were extremely happy that he witnessed the event.

    I could see it coming, and 2 days before I was due to return to the UK decided to extend my stay by 2 weeks, change my flight, and run across the friendship bridge to extend my visa.

    Probably one of the best decisions I made, as 3 days later my father-in-law passed away. I could never have lived with the guilt of returning home, only to be called by my wife a few days later with the news he had died. His final day was a painful day. We were all by his side as he left this world.

    Once the initial shock of him dying and the tears were over, which all in all lasted about 15 minutes; a train of events was to unfold which lasted 7 days.

    My wife, her brothers and sisters carried his body into the bathroom where they disrobed him, washed his body from head to foot, and dressed him. They also removed the catheter, which had been administered by the local hospital.

    Whilst this was taking place, I had jumped into the back of the family pickup with several male family members and driven to the local temple where we picked up an enormous air-conditioned coffin inlayed with mother of pearl. It took 12 of us to carry to coffin onto the pickup. Along with the coffin, came other items from the temple such as carpets, tables, statues and various items, which would be used by the monks for the next 7 days.

    Upon our return, we lay his body in a wooden box, which was then put inside the huge air-chilled coffin. The coffin now remains in the home until the day of the cremation.

    The next few hours were a bit of a blur, but the events, which were about to unfold, were carried out with military precision and had been planned out for a while prior to his death.

    The following seven days involved people coming and going, eating and drinking for 24 hrs a day, monks visiting the home every night to carry out various ceremonies, and very little sleep for all involved.

    My wife once showed me some photos from her mother's funeral, and I'd noticed from these photos that it was a requirement, though not necessary, that the immediate male members of the family became a monk on the day of the cremation.

    I had already made the decision of becoming a monk for the day, without anyone even asking me if I wanted to do so. It was as far as I'm concerned the final show of respect that I could give to my father-in-law. I did this for no one else, not even my wife and purely for him. This decision was a shock and surprise to the family, but one, which was welcomed with open arms. I don't do anything in life simply to earn respect as a result of ones actions, but this earned me huge respect within the family and local community, but something I was not looking for.

    You see, I loved my father-in-law and my wife's family. Although they are from Isaan they are not the type of family that have been tarnished with the same brush that a lot of family's are tarnished with, especially if a member is married to a farrang. We all have the same level of respect for each other.

    The Cremation

    11 of us had decided to be monks for the day. This involved a trip to the barbers where we all in turn had our heads and eyebrows shaved off. We were then taken to the temple where we took part in a small ceremony and given our monks robes. All jewellery was to be removed, as were any under garments. We went commando. I also had to learn some Thai prayers that had to be repeated 3 times upon receiving my robes.

    We were now monks and were treated with the same respect that any monk would be treated with. I was not allowed to refer to my wife as "Tilak" or by any other pet name, and was to simply call her by her given name. If I needed anything from her, she was to put it on the floor in front of me, and not to give it to me directly. This seemed a little uncomfortable for a while, but I soon got used to it.

    Once again we (monks only) piled into the back of a pickup whilst family and friends removed the coffin from the home and loaded it onto the back of a small flat bed lorry. The lorry was at the back of the procession, in the middle were friends and family, and leading was the pickup full of monks. We all held in our hands a long piece of string which in turn was held by every person in between the two vehicles and which was tied to the coffin itself. Everyone present had to be in contact with the coffin via the piece of string.

    The procession left the house with one vehicle up ahead throwing popcorn onto the road in front of the procession and letting of firecrackers at the same time. I'm not quite sure what the meaning of the popcorn throwing was about, but the firecrackers were to ward off evil spirits.

    Upon arriving at the temple, we all walked in procession 3 times around the oven, which was to cremate my father-in-law. To my surprise, this was not some type of medieval fire but a state of the art, oven that was computer controlled. You could even watch the interior via a heat sensitive TV.

    After about 2 hours of talks and further ceremonies and presentations, it was time for the cremation. After about 500 of the guests had left, only the immediate family were left for the actual cremation. The wooden box was removed from the air-chilled coffin and lowered onto some trestles where the lid was removed, and the video camera turned off. The oldest son then lent over his body and removed a small cloth hiding his face, with his teeth. This cannot be removed by your hands and has to be done by your teeth. After the initial shock of seeing a 7-day-old dead and frozen body we all took it in turns to pour coconut oil over his face and body. A few prayers were said and then he was placed inside the oven. We were then ushered around the other side where we could view the cremation on a heat sensitive TV up until the point where the coffin filled up with smoke and could see no more.

    It took 9 hours for the body to be fully cremated. We returned the following morning where his remains had been placed on a small table. Along side his remains were several sets of chopsticks and a small bowl. Each family member using chopsticks proceeded to sift through his remains to see if they could find any teeth as a keepsake. Anything found was placed into the small bowl. His remains were then shaped into the figure of a person, and 1 baht and 5 baht coins were placed all over his remains along with flower petals. Monks carried out another ceremony and then his remains were placed into a linen cloth to be taken home and placed on the family shrine.

    That evening, there was more drinking and eating and a lum-sing show at the home. Spirit houses were sculpted out of banana trees and placed on display outside the home along with photos of my wife's mother and father on each spirit house. Numerous gifts for the temple were also on display along side the spirit houses that in turn were all connected to my father-in-laws remains via a long piece of string.

    The following morning, monks at the home carried out one final ceremony, before taking his remains to the Mekong River. The family had rented a long tail boat so that we could take his remains to be scattered in the Mekong. We carried out a small ceremony on the banks of the river before boarding the boat and then sailed up river to the very sacred site of the old and ancient "Wat Pho Chai". The tip of this site still sticks out of the top of the river at certain times of the year, and was visible on this day.

    We all took a handful of his remains and scattered them in the river, before putting the remainder of his ashes overboard. This was his final wish.

    I miss my father-in-law, and although it was a very tiring and stressful time, the whole process was something I was very proud to have been involved with. 7 days of events meant so much more and had so much more meaning.

    Here in the UK, we have a service, dig a hole, put you in it, then say goodbye.

    I posted this here to give people a small insight into the funeral process, as I'm sure that if you haven't already been involved, you surely will be one day. I know that everyone's experiences will differ to that of mine, depending on the location, wealth of the family and religious beliefs.

    My father-in-law was by no means a rich man nor was he a poor man. The fact that he had such an ornate air-chilled coffin, and that the 1st Minister and ex 1st minister for Nongkhai were both present at his cremation, made me realize he was a well respected man.

    Thanks for reading guys, especially if you made it to the end and are still awake.

    Guemlum

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  17. I'm pretty sure you will be able to get a tattoo after you've been ordained. Many of the "sak yant" tattoos that you see on monks nowadays are actually performed during monkhood and buy other monks. Check this link out if you need to know more......http://sak-yant.com/

    Guemlum

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