Shotime

The hard way is usually the only way, and it make take a few trips around the block before you get it. 

This is no story. He usually gets to visit with them very cheap. Even he feels bad about not helping them more. Here, I've learned, it's about money, but, in some way, it's a matter of prestige and face for the lady. Give them more than expected, and they seem to glow. But what do I know? 

He has no money. No problem there, and I'm not an enabler. The problem is he gets himself too emotionally involved with them. He can't see the forest for the trees. He told me he was dropped on his head a few times as a baby and later as a youth. I can understand it, and I've been made a fool of once or twice. This is, also, no BS. It's happened 2 times in the 3 months he's been here, and the second one I, personally, wouldn't go near. I call her the virgin princess. Very attractive in every way. A spoiled little brat that we've gotten over on a few times. Cornered like a rat. With my help.   He will, however, have money soon. 

I try to ignore it. His being twisted and turned. We're all dummies.

He may be starting to get it. I'm taking him on a ROAD TRIP to open his eyes, and, yes, some can be that stupid. Been there myself.

20 hours ago, DennisF said:

I am from the UK. No family here but had to end a beautiful

relationship.

Not a doctors daughter but not a bar girl either!

What do you think it's like in the U.K.? There's an enormous bunch of BS waiting for you. There's no comparison.

9 hours ago, MisterTee said:

Puppy love at the age of 58?

It sounds like a case of arrested development.

 

I'm starting to believe it.

1 hour ago, JHolmesJr said:

 

are you guys scandinavian….sounds like fun in Villa Shotime.

No to Northern Tribes. Yes to fun in Villa Shotime.

I mean, I love the kid, but he, like many others, doesn't understand that with age comes a little wisdom.

I am watching his money. Believe me. Thanks. Thru manipulation, on my part, he has spent a minimal amount of baht. Sometimes free, but you always pay later. One way or the other.

Thanks. I stay on his case, but I may overdo it some times. He may hurt me. Not really, but I will be careful not to insult him too much. I have hooked him up before, but it's only a temporary fix.

I have been living in Hua Hin for a few years now. Close to 7. I am an old man, but still vital.

In any case, My cousin came to live with me 3 months ago. He is 58. He's a big boy. Over 6 foot, and not fat. He takes good care of me, and, of course, I've known him his whole life. 

I have a dilemma. He has been with women like he never dreamed of. Herein lies the rub.

He keeps getting emotionally attached to them. I do not claim to know women. Much more, Thai women. I've had my own problems, and have the scars to prove it. However, I've learned. Especially when it comes to my feelings.

His latest affair is with a 35 year old woman. I lose contact with him at times. By that I mean, he's on a different planet. She has stolen away his brain. I have tried to tell him not to take things too seriously or personally. Without going into detail, He texts her via Line. He's just like the girls who sit glued to their phones. Through my texts, he has done well with her at little expense given she's very attractive. When he texts her on his own, he keeps digging himself into a hole. I have managed to get him above ground a few times. He denies it, but he pines for her, and she knows it. After digging his last hole, I told him that he could blame me for texting her when he didn't see. However, I think, she knows better. Ever hear "Chalaka?" She knows who gets her out of the mouse hole, and corners her. Last night she said she wanted to go to dinner, and had him waiting at three different corners, but never showed. Needless to say, you could see how he felt. Dumped on.

Since we live together, I feel the brunt of his frustration and disappointment. I could go on, but what can I do?

I thought President Clinton established that a blow-job is not sex.

Did the fine include the cost of the BJ?

Maybe they don't like us? It's mostly Brits who run it. Try UK.

It means, they love you.

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I really would like to hear what the girls of the bar say about the customers they meet!!!!!!!!!!!!!

any links?

They think we're dahk ling.

I haven't read the thread, but I want tto say what has probably been said already. Everyone is different. There are some good, some bad, Just be careful. You should know what's up. Do what your brains and stomach tell you. Don't get involved too much for awhile.

I was actually thinking of going home. I miss the U.S., but I have it too good here. I loved my city, Philadelphia, and have many memories. I don't think that exists anymore. Living expenses are one thing, but look at what's going on there and elsewhere in the world. I feel "locked up tight. and out of range" here. I think we could survive a nuclear war. I still don't understand what those "terrorists" with hand-grenades were doing here. It seems like a police-state there, and the dollar scares me.

I have to do it soon. If there's a problem, it's about money. Ask how much it costs to make everything ok. Some, not all, don't like us.

I wish I could

I have lived in both Bangkok and Pattaya. Got tired of the pollution mostly (which no one has mentioned so far). Why put yourself in that chemical soup?

Now, 15 km. from Chiang Mai, I found my perfect spot in Thailand.

Is that a bonano (not sure of the spelling) ape? It must be nice where you now live. Though a little slow. I stay Hua Hin, and like it.

I used to go to play golf there every week. However, I haven't been there in years. The last time I was there, an overwhelming wave of (how you say?) paranoia swept over me. It was a very evil vibe.

You must learn to say, "No, you are" in Thai. Mai krap koon a leh. It stops them in their tracks, and they get a stupid look on their face.

I went to Apple's website, and they didn't list any authorized products in Thailand. I'm really just interested in if you get the extended warranty, will it be honored anywhere.

You're right about everything, anywhere, probably was made in China.

I want to buy a new computer, but I believe everything here is a copy made in China. Apple has no authorized stores in Thailand. So what do the Apple stores here sell? I would appreciate any info you may have as to what to get. Thanks.

You.ve had many good suggestions. You must not be sympathetic. If money doesn't work. I suggest telling her you have a new GF who happens to be a ladyboy. Go hire one to come home with you, and scare your ex-GF away.

There was a billboard recently, at a large University, that had Hitler along with some superheroes. The article I read said that the students had no idea who he was or his historical significance. Given that's true, why would they include him on the billboard? This isn't the first such incident I've read about this. Their was another time that he and the Nazi's were celebrated here. At that time, it was explained as a fashion statement. I think I also read recently about something similar in Malaysia or Indochina. Are they anti-semetic? Actually, I don't think they know what that means. What's up?

I'm struggling with this presently. I miss home, but I'm afraid that once I go home, I'll miss it here. It's happened before.

The good about here is that it's cheaper. I'm in my late 60's, and the girls, though pretty, aren't as important as it was before. However, it's still a plus. I feel safe where I am here, and pay half the rent I would pa at home.

The good things about home are it's home. Better medical coverage. Not as prone to be taken advantage of. For some reason, I think I'd feel more comfortable there. The food.

Anyway, I'm giving some serious thought to going home.

But selling bodyparts is easier and bigger money. Mind you, we are not talking BG's here.

What's the difference between a BG selling her body and a massage lady selling her body ?

One can give a massage.