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11 minutes ago, Number 6 said:
They should create an NGO and open this up to allow only foreign expat volunteers to run the program in it's entirety with a Thai government comptroller.
If that actually worked Africa would be full of first world countries by now.
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4 hours ago, greenchair said:
I'm not really under standing what you are infering. Thai citizens have access to 15 years of compulsory free education(12 in the west )
It also has free healthcare, which I have been to some of the government hospitals, very nice service.
As for running water, to my knowledge thailand has always had running water, we're not talking Ethiopia here.
Thai standards also compare the wealth gap. More than 20 percent of the population is considered wealthy, compared to 2 percent in the west. Thailand is the 4th richest country in Asean .
I just don't see them as being destitute.
In the maslo hierarchy of needs ( the UN evaluater )
They have sufficient shelter, schooling, healthcare and so on.
I see many low income people. No different from the west.
There is a big difference between poor and low income.
Thailand has not always had running water. My wife grew up without it and her family did not have a toilet for many years in her youth. Same for her entire village. She spent years in Kong Toey slums with similar conditions for thousands of people. She left school when she was 12 as did all the other kids her age in her village. She slept under trucks at the wharf to unload containers. Her father slept under bridges when he was a labourer. This is not uncommon.
Have you visited the slums or any poor villages ? How about looking at the way millions of labourers live in camps throughout the country? Anything like that in the west? I just can't see how you can say "I see many low income people. No different from the west." The poorest people in the west live nothing like they poorest people do here except if you count homeless people in the west who are there through their own poor life choices or because they are mentally ill and they are only a tiny percentage of what is considered "the poor".
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13 minutes ago, greenchair said:
. 40 percent of Australian and around 60 percent of new Zealanders are living below the poverty line.
The way poverty is measured in the west is in terms of how much poorer you are in comparison to the rest of society. It is not an absolute measure which measures things like access to 3 meals, running water, schooling etc. It is completely misleading, possibly deliberately so.
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20 hours ago, LivinLOS said:
Really ??
2 cars here.. Back there I drive a nice beemer, fraction of the cost of a low quality farm truck here..
Clothes, shoes, electronics, etc etc etc.. If your not buying chinese 'broke in a year' junk almost everything is cheaper back there.. Sure someone cleaning your pool, doing your garden / ironing / etc is cheaper here, labour is cheaper.. But things ?? Of quality ??From my earlier post in this thread
"Rent - I pay less in a month than what I would pay in a week in Aus. Granted it's a smaller, cheaply made house but I'd happily live in the same back home if they were available. On top of that I can walk to the beach here. Renting or buying a house near the beach in Aus is only for the well off these days.
Utilities - way cheaper in Thailand
Fresh fruit, veg and meat - way cheaper in Thailand except for beef and lamb. I eat home cooked Thai food daily and doing the same in Aus costs a small fortune, which is what I would want to do.
Internet - way cheaper and faster in Thailand
Imported electronics and other imports - cheaper in Aus
Cars - cheaper in Australia although a "cheap ass toyota" is fine with me.
Petrol - about the same price I think?
Public transport / taxis - way cheaper in Thailand
So all in all Thailand is WAY cheaper for me than Australia. Not even close."
Mind you I'm not trying to duplicate a western lifestyle here which makes all the difference. Also, I haven't been to the US but I understand it can be a very affordable country.
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4 hours ago, poohy said:
I think indifference is a much better word.
I worked in BKK for 12 years then moved to rural Thailand south of Prachuap with Bangkok born and raised Thai wife.
Most of our both close friends and her family are BKK based
Local Thais are simply indifferent to both of us probably for different reasons ..
- Cant or scared to talk English or Thai to me
- Wifes from BKK so also an outsider in both culture eg farming /fishing and from what i see to certain extent language.
No real problems you just accept get used to it.
Yes indifferent is the right word. Indifferent and uninterested in outsiders and the outside world. When you think about it, why should they be obligated to be otherwise? It's wrong to mistake this for hostility. Like you say you just learn to accept it and get used to it. Don't become a farang frustrated and resentful suffering from Relevancy Deprivation Syndrome ?
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8 hours ago, manjara said:If you want people to care about the community and the people then you need to make them feel part of it, rather than have the attitude that it's Thailand for the Thais! (we're guilty of this in the UK to some extent too, but at least the law is fairer!), i.e. it's institutionalised in Thailand!
Thailand needs to decide if it's going to be insular or open its doors and laws, to allow people to become Thai and fully invest in the country. Make it easy to do business, to stay and build up assets, without being already rich (and uninterested?). Some farang do it, but let's face it, they are the exception!
Seems to have worked out pretty well for Japan though? Given the problems in the West with open doors and multiculturalism I can see why Thailand and other Asian countries don't see that as a natural fit for them and would prefer something along the lines of what Japan or South Korea has done.
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39 minutes ago, bwpage3 said:
It's called downsizing and a lot of people enjoy the experience of simplifying their lives
Why does a person have to move 10,000 miles from their home to a foreign land, language and culture to downsize?
Maybe because they like it here (or at least did when they decided to move) and/or there was a woman/women in the picture and they were quite happy to shed a lot of the costly materialistic stuff that was never really important to them in the process.
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52 minutes ago, manjara said:
Just as bad, if not worse! (If you were a Thai doing it!)
I've not really met any thais I would call friends though, all are at the acquaintance level. I can't, and don't, complain about that, as my thai skills are not really up to a meaningful conversation!
If a Thai went to the UK and only spoke basic English, it would be hard for people to bond with them too!
Perhaps it's the circles that I'm involved in, but I haven't met many Thais that are actually interested in things non-Thai, though I guess they would have to speak some English to be able to express it to me.
Even with the language (I speak Thai well) you will still find it’s the same situation in regards to friendship.
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1 hour ago, Don Chance said:
Just step on few toes you will see how quickly the tide changes.
And what happens when you do that in your home country?
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On 7/28/2018 at 3:45 PM, Don Chance said:I just spent 3 month in Nepal, the feeling is much better than Thailand. People speak English and are super friendly, playful, joke around. Sure Nepal has a lot of problems most of you probably won't like and for long term it would be difficult. But the comparison in how people treat you as a farang is huge. Main thing is speaking English makes all the difference.
The thing i notice back in Thailand is the hostility some Thai's can show to farangs is unnerving. They can be down right rude. In Nepal i have friend for years, that remember my name, the guesthouse owners are thrilled if i return, they don't even ask for payment until i leave, even for weeks and weeks. People are always easy to deal with and never hostile or rude, easy to bend a little.
"Hostile" is not a word I would use to describe Thais at all. On the whole I would describe them as mellow and tolerant. In relation to foreigners, outside of economic interactions, I would describe them more as uninterested or indifferent if anything, hardly a great flaw apart from perhaps damaging our collective egos ?
Also, any country that has experienced mass tourism for so long and on a such as scale as Thailand is bound to have a jaded quality to it on the side of the local operators.
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For the people who say that Thailand has changed I wonder if it's actually they who have changed while Thailand has more or less stayed the same or changed only as much as to be expected over a long period. Seems to be in my case anyway.
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1 hour ago, bwpage3 said:What do you think the percentage of expats that moved to Thailand live in a Thai house that cost/worth/quality/size the same as one they moved from?
It's called downsizing and a lot of people enjoy the experience of simplifying their lives. I know I have. Doesn't mean we're all living in "tin shacks" though.
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22 minutes ago, bwpage3 said:
I think you right on target there. I find it odd people will sell up their western lifestyle, move to Thailand and live in a one room flat or tin shack in Isaan because that is all they can afford, then jump and down trying to convince everyone how cheap it is.
I would say only a tiny percentage of farangs who live here do that. Exceptions don't make the rule.
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5 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:
What I was talking about, was ‘if’ you want to eat western food (not always), have good AC in your house, decent housing, then the cost of living isn’t that much different.
That may be true for the US (I wouldn't know) but not for the rest of the developed world.
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5 hours ago, bwpage3 said:
One of them is in international school the other in the local catholic school. I'm not convinced either one is worse than what I hear and observe about schools in the West these days
You are not convinced? What facts do you have? Here is a fact. The company I work for employees 200,000 worldwide. Take a wild guess how many are from Thailand?
After having my kid at Prem International in Chiang Mai for years, came back to the USA and he was a year behind. Don't have to think, that is reality.
Apples to apples. You can live in Thailand cheap because everything you have is cheap. Price out a comparable western house you see for 6,000,000 baht plus here on TV. No where near the quality of the USA and not cheap either.
Honda's and Toyota's more expensive in Thailand unless you buy the cheap ass lowest end
Western food in Tesco? That is no bargain either
Compare apples to apples. Cheap is cheap no matter what.
As for savings, my company gives me an additional 65% of my 401k contribution each year.
If you have a couple hundred grand (US) a year income, good on you. If not, living cheap like a Thai will get your there same as living in a tent in Yellowstone.
Apples to Apples.
PS Thailand has sure changed a lot since I was there in 1985. Cannot even recognize the place through all the corruption, coups, materialism, wanna-be's
I have never been to the US but I have heard it has a cheap cost of living. Perhaps it can be considered an outlier among Western countries when having these kind of discussions. Here's a comparison to Australia:
Rent - I pay less in a month than what I would pay in a week in Aus. Granted it's a smaller, cheaply made house but I'd happily live in the same back home if they were available. On top of that I can walk to the beach here. Renting or buying a house near the beach in Aus is only for the well off these days.
Utilities - way cheaper in Thailand
Fresh fruit, veg and meat - way cheaper in Thailand except for beef and lamb. I eat home cooked Thai food daily and doing the same in Aus costs a small fortune, which is what I would want to do.
Internet - way cheaper and faster in Thailand
Imported electronics and other imports - cheaper in Aus
Cars - cheaper in Australia although a "cheap ass toyota" is fine with me.
Petrol - about the same price I think?
Public transport / taxis - way cheaper in Thailand
So all in all Thailand is WAY cheaper for me than Australia. Not even close.
As for schooling, sounds like you have nice schools where you are in the US. I'm definitely not thrilled with the schools here either but your original comment was "zero education" here. The "reality" is that Australian test scores are dropping every year, incompatible migrants are going up, drug problems abound and the education system is riddled with leftist mumbo jumbo and silly educational fads. That said it may still be better than what we're getting here but it's by no means a slam dunk.
Yes Thailand has changed over the decades. I've been here for 20 years and personally I haven't noticed the corruption getting better or worse. For exapmple my local immigration office is infinitely better than the corrupt riddled shithole it used to be. Some changes in Thailand have been bad for sure, others have been better though too. I'm not sure my home country is a better place than it was 20 years ago either.
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31 minutes ago, xylophone said:Sure things are more expensive by comparison to what they were but that's only to be.
So many times I have spoken to expats here who have returned home only to find that the grass wasn't greener, even the second time around!
I never understood the argument that things are getting more expensive here. Anyone checked into the West lately? Money just goes way further here although I stick to local tucker and lead a simple life - by choice.
Yes, "grass is greener" is something that needs serious thought and shouldn't be glossed over when considering going back.
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33 minutes ago, bwpage3 said:I don't think it is throwing it away in a mid-life funk.
What you are doing is surviving. Your kids are getting the worst education in the world.
The biggest issue I see, is what happens when you do make it to retirement age and you have nothing?
20+ more years in a job where you can build social security, 401k, educate your kids with an education that will allow them to earn more than minimum wage, etc. gives you a life when you do hit retirement age.
Right now you won't have any of that.
Don't think about today, think about when you are 65.
Thailand can sure change a lot in the next 20 years. If Thailand ever pulls itself out of the third world in those 20 years and costs rise much higher, then what?
You can hear tons of expats bitching just because the exchange rate is in the tank. With world trade sanctions, economics, etc. who can predict what will happen long term.
I moved back to the USA, back to corporate America. Sure, in the beginning it sucked having to get up and go to work everyday after working for myself for 10 years.
However, I see and work towards the long term benefits for my families future and my own.
Very, very few in Thailand can see past right now, to what it will take to survive 20 years from now.
I think you're making a lot of assumptions here.
"I don't think it is throwing it away in a mid-life funk."
OK
"What you are doing is surviving."
Actually, no. Earning more money now than I ever have. Outlook going forward looks good too.
"Your kids are getting the worst education in the world."
One of them is in international school the other in the local catholic school. I'm not convinced either one is worse than what I hear and observe about schools in the West these days - apart from the facilities that is.
"20+ more years in a job where you can build social security..Right now you won't have any of that."
I'm managing to save and am quite satisfied with what we're putting away every month due to the low cost of living etc. Certainly more than we could back home.
"Thailand can sure change a lot in the next 20 years. If Thailand ever pulls itself out of the third world in those 20 years and costs rise much higher, then what?"
Thailand doesn't change that much. Costs are unlikely to ever come close to matching the West.
"However, I see and work towards the long term benefits for my families future and my own."
Me too, and although I'm constantly weighing things up currently it seems the future is better for me, my wife and my kids to be in Thailand although it is not an easy decision to make. There are pros and cons for both that don't make it straightforward.
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15 minutes ago, meechai said:It is not hard to return to a country you have a home in.
I don't know. I could afford to buy a modest house outright in my home country but that doesn't seem attractive enough for me to go back. Even with a house it's too expensive IMO compared to the lifestyle I can have here.
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13 hours ago, Batty said:I have lived here full time for 15 years, and I would love to go back home to the UK. I have had enough and have felt that way for the last few years. I ache to go home, actually. In that sense, its funny how my outlook has gone full circle: The first few years here between 2003 and maybe 2010 I always looked at my expatriation as an adventure, something I achieved and to be proud of making a life over here. Now, I see going back home the same way.
The problem is that my business of 12 years failed last year, its an old technology that I cant market anymore. I used to earn good money, but now I just tick over. I own a nice house here but its only worth 4 million and if I sold it, what would that get me in England? Nothing! I could raise another couple of million selling my car, bikes and bits but even 6 million wouldn't afford me a property back home. At 45 years old I dont want to get a mortgage in the UK. And also now I am just ticking over, what sort of life would that give me back home? Especially given that I would have to rent.
I cant imagine getting a job. I have worked for myself for 17 years in one form or another and my skill set is better served working for myself really.
Then there is the wife. She loves England but I know she would miss her parents too much to leave and I wouldn't want to force that on her.
I used to love this country. Im not saying I hate it now, but it does feel different. Literately, almost - I mean sometimes it feels like a totally different country to the one I moved to all those years ago. It just does not feel fun anymore and I feel far less wanted here than I did before, as a ferang. I feel like a square peg in a round hole.
But the main thing is just a longing for my home country and everything it has to offer. Its first world, and this is third world (kinda). I miss having a pint in a proper pub with English banter. I miss little interactions with people: buying a newspaper, nipping to the bookies and having a fiver on a horse, random chats with strangers in random situations. I feel like I miss my own people. Quite often 'my own people' here in Thailand seem odd, sometimes bitter, you meet a new friend here and somewhere not too far down the line he turns out to be a complete cock. That seems to be a trait of ex-pat life as far as I can muster.
I haven't been back for a couple of years but on my last visit, driving through the Cotswolds on a sunny Saturday afternoon, I couldn't believe I had abandoned this place in favor of a country so completely alien to me full of people who dont realy want me around. At that moment it made no sense to me why I was going back. But I have no choice realy. Unless I can find a few hundred grand (GBP) to buy a house and give myself a cushion, Thailand is going to be home for the foreseeable future. If something changes work wise and I start earning well again, I will buy a flat back home and at the very least spend the summers there.
I dont let anyone know this as no one likes a moaner, but I am actually pretty miserable here now lol. I have just totally had enough of the place.
Good luck mate, Im sure you wont regret making the move. Thailand has had its day - in my opinion - and life is better back there. Again, in my opinion.
This has really struck a chord with me. Been here 17 years, mid forties, and have gone through a similar almost 180 degree turnaround in thinking and wondering how the hell it happened lol. I would be able to financially get my self set up back home but then would have to get stuck into work. Been working on my own like you for 17 years so it'd be back into some entry level job. Missus would have to work too so we'd both be back in the rat race. Cost of living through the roof. Not sure I'm going back to the same country of 20 years ago either - expensive, crowded, nanny state, pc crap etc. I only go back every 4 years or so for a few weeks and it seems great. But we all know living and visiting are different things, rose coloured glasses and all that. I'm just not convinced we'd be happy really. We've got kids too so if we went back it would have to be one way so it's not like we can dip our toes in the water for a while and see.
Lately have wondered whether a lot of it can be put down to mid-life - a funny period wherever you are and apparently you come out of it better in your fifties. In the last year have started feeling more appreciative of my situation and not feeling the intensity to change as much. It helps that our financial situation has been continually improving here too. All things considered we have a good standard of living here in a beautiful spot and am cautious to throw it all away on a midlife funk or because of some unrealistic vision of how great things are back home.
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15 minutes ago, connda said:
If there is one country that engages in protectionism and excessive tariffs and duties, it's Thailand. It would be appropriate for Trump to 'level the playing field' here and for other global exporters to follow suit. Including Australia. Like others have noted, show me the low-priced, tariff free Aussie retail goods lining the shelves of the markets. Yeah, right! ?
There is such a thing as Aussie-made retail goods? ?
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27 minutes ago, stud858 said:
Thailand is full of unqualified teachers. I've seen all sorts of issues. There are the odd few of dedicated ones. I know one that is doing a brilliant job. He feels like there's room for improvement.
I must admit it's been years since I was in South Korea, and Taiwan teaching. There I got all the perks, Thailand offers zero. Wether the locals wanted to kill me, I don't know what they really thought, but business was very easy in Korea.
The acceptance of people and personal relations is a seperate argument. People will generally treat aliens not as their own no matter which countries are involved . Fact of life.
Yes Technology and basic processes also like rubbish collection. Don't need high tech for that. Just due disciplined process and enforcement that western countries use.
Thailand is still a developing country so it can't afford to have highly qualified English teachers throughout the entire education system. Korea and Taiwan are wealthier and so they can pay more and attract higher quality.
"I don't know what they really thought, but business was very easy in Korea."
If you turn up to your Korean girlfriends place and tell the old man you would like to marry his daughter you will get an idea. Or try walking down the street with your arm around a Korean girl. God forbid if you happen to be black too. That said I find Koreans very nice people just...xenophobic and a bit racist. as is par for the course in Asia.
"The acceptance of people and personal relations is a separate argument. People will generally treat aliens not as their own no matter which countries are involved . Fact of life. "
Yes but some countries more so than others. Asia and the Indian subcontinent are definitely way more xenophobic/racist than the West. In fact I'd say we currently have the opposite problem in the West.
"Yes Technology and basic processes also like rubbish collection. Don't need high tech for that. Just due disciplined process and enforcement that western countries use. "
Correct they don't need any Western influence for that.
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On 7/18/2018 at 12:13 AM, stud858 said:
If they wanted to take care of their own population wouldn't allowing more Western influence be better for improving things for Thai society. One example. foreign teachers. They aren't very welcoming as compared to their Korean, Japanese, and Chinese counterparts.They aren't very welcoming as compared to their Korean, Japanese, and Chinese counterparts.
"wouldn't allowing more Western influence be better for improving things for Thai society"
Why would they feel that having more Western influence (apart from technology) will improve things? I get the impression Thais like themselves as they are.
"One example. foreign teachers"
What about them? The joint is full of them.
"They aren't very welcoming as compared to their Korean, Japanese, and Chinese counterparts."
Not true at all. Those countries are the same or possibly even worse on the xenophobia score card.
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Apologies if this has been posted already (haven't read the full thread). Interesting breakdown:
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20 hours ago, timkeen08 said:
I personally first heard the pronunciation of the term "dawg" outside of these above parameters amongst the Black and Hispanic gangs portrayed on television and movies in America along with Rap music.Shortly after among youth of all races and nationalities trying to act like or to be Hispanic and Black hip wannabes.
Precisely. This was the gist of my original comment and subsequent follow ups. Kieran00001, however, for some reason, finds this awfully racist to point out. He also doesn't seem to think it's true which I find hard to believe.
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Old-style leftists have become a rare breed in Thailand
in Thailand News
Posted · Edited by Poottrong
"a raw leftist like him is hard to come by these days."
Good.