johnnyk

Thais can live on 10K a month but they know the ropes and are less demanding than falangs.

Not a flame, but when TG discovers she is sharing 10k a month she will quickly find additional income as she expects falang to make and provide much more than a mototaxi man.

Remember, Pattaya is geared to falang budgets and 30K is about bare bones if you want to do more than sit in a dingy room.

Good luck.

You are 45 years old which is on the downslope in career terms and you do not list any very substantial education, experience or achievement. Many, many people can type and will work for far less than you want.

In short, don't hold your breath that they are awaiting you with unbridled anticipation because you can speak English.

Christ, I'm glad I didn't pass this by!

I woke up today, farted, picked my nose and went back to sleep.

I might do the same tomorrow but I have trouble making decisions.

Going back to bed now with a comic.

soi 6 (yodsak) from 1400h. room=200baht lady=500baht. king kong and red point bars higly recommended. you pipes will be cleaned. that is what you are interested in isn't it or is it the temples?

Of course they sleep until 3pm.

They blew and shagged four guys before you walked in.

Tthen they had to work you over, taking an hour to coax life into your willy.

By the time they got any shuteye at all it was 6:30am.

You do know that you won't have any ownership rights over the land?

No plomplem...trust her and put it in her name.

thanks the job will be in Pattaya. also i am looking at living in the naklua area, so any info about there would be cool

Naklua so-so. Jomtien is better, more houses and good condos w/pool, balcony, security etc for 12-15,000. Live-in help can be had for 5000/month for mama plus 1000-1500 week for herself.

Under no circumstances let on that your salary is 78K/month!!!!!!!

I am still unsure about pretty much everything....

If you are unsure about "pretty much everything" then you are getting into a danger zone. Go slowly, live there, soak up as much info as you can. Why is the Brit selling? etc etc

Wow.

My 10-yr old daughter has already passed through the Britney stage so why would anyone older than 10 give a phlying phuck?

Maybe to see just how rich you can get without an iota of talent?

Hello,

I have never been to Pattaya, but have heard some good things, anyone out there

who has visited both have any thoughts ?? I found Patong was fun, but after a week i just kept seeing the same girls in all the disco's and bars.....

Thanks

BDB

Pattaya has 1000 bars and 10,000 or more working girls...how long do you think it will take to see all of them?

Never. By the time you get to #10,000 the first 5,000 have gone home and new ones have taken their place.

Besides, its cheaper than Patong.

SoCal

Ah Hah! I knew that I would find you somewhere. I have returned to torment well intentioned but deluded folks everywhere.

Who do you support in November and why? I don't vote but I like to hear from those that do.

Lets have a warmup before I open a thread hereabouts...we will set screens ablaze from Bangkok to Hongkong.

All the best (and I mean it...best regards)

Tutsiwarrior

Say what?

a few days and nights on soi6, Pattaya

Sample size of 400 out of a female population of approx. 30-31,000,000. Wow.

At 03:47 04/10/2002 +0000, you wrote:

Hi John

I have recieved your mail already. I understand you . You have many duty in yourlife. I thanks you for your intention for me. My grandmother died I need many money for a cremation. I not have enough money return my friend but you don't worry me I nevermind I understand you. I missing you,too. I hope to see you again.John. you take care of yourself,too. I waiting for you always,John. Miss bye bye

Miss you always

Sita

A quick 10,000 ought to do it. Don't wait, do it now as she is rare and not like the others.

Boon Mee and Nam Kao, you are both ignorant and racist misogynists. I hope your mothers are proud of you.

Boon Mee, LBFM? People still use that type of terminology? Little brown ###### machine. Aces! You are truly a prince.

In regards to my other post, my wife happens to be Thai, but she is a person first. You seem to regard ethnicity the same way you would a particular breed of animal. People like you folks make me sick

PC drivel.

Cool, thanks for clearing that one up for me. was a worry for me.

One other thing. i have freinds who are concerned about safty out there. they think that i will get drugs plantted on me and get sent to prison for life. or get shot or somehting.

Are thiese concerns founded. i fell that anywhere you go int he world there are dangers!

yes, the world is a dangerous place. best stay home with ragnarok, teletubbies and the palm sisters.

...and can have nubile potential.

nubile potential????????? too much acid, syd.

Up here, in the Esarn villages, we see the "other end" of this discussion.

I would agree with Naka about a child needing a young father 'to grow up with and learn from' if this discussion was about Western nuclear families.

But in a Thai extended family, especially in a village, uncles and older cousins are as, and sometimes more, influential in a youngster's development.

After all, very often, the young Thai father is away, in Taiwan or wherever, working to send money home to support his wife, child and parents.

That kiddy in the stroller may be set for a great upbringing in an Esarn village. And the farang father may be set for a real 'Shangri La' retirement here in Esarn. (Provided he and his wife can bridge their culture gap and work out an acceptable middle-path between falling out with the aforesaid uncles and cousins or having their funds bled dry by them. It can be done, but the wife has to be prepared to 'slap away' some of the begging hands, and the farang husband has to see her difficult position, when they come reckoning she owes 'bun kun' for childhood help she got.)

We see some very dependable women lose their husbands in motor-bike accidents or get abandoned by irresponsible Thai men etc, and have to go off to Bangkok to earn money to keep the family solvent.

If they come back with a farang husband, the gossip isn't the prurient sort of "Do you think she went to 'sell body in bar'?", but much more concerned with whether they seem to be a well-matched couple.

Age difference isn't a big deal; after all, an actuary would probably see a 35-year-old Thai woman and a 60-year-old farang man as being about equal in life-expectancy. Also there are quite a few instances of young Thai women marrying much older Thai men.

The gossippers are very shrewd, and if their judgment is "Seem OK, very equal" the relationship does usually seem to work out well.

Where there seems to be a mismatch, I have a distinct impression---though I haven't kept score--- that we more often say "She deserves a better (farang) husband" than "He deserves a better (Thai) wife".

But I have to admit that we see some young Thai women (of the sort that you wouldn't want your son to take up with) going off to Bangkok and going from bad to worse (in terms of the farang men that they bring back for a few days---to the disgust of decent villagers).

Martin

Thank you Martin for a mature, level-headed post. Nice to hear from someone who isn't a keyboard warrior with an agenda.

I think the conditioning received from working bar can result in the BG seeing relationships as essentially transactional. The relationship between punter and BG is basically mutually exploitative and that is a very sandy foundation upon which to build anything lasting. That's not to say that it can't and hasn't worked but I think the odds going in are pretty steep.

NO, but she ties me to the bed and does weird and un-natural things to me.

Don't be coy! What kinds of un-natural things? Erasers? geometry sets? Chalk?

No showing at Nana. So me and my mates went into Obsession, where some sort of exposure can be expected and by some contortion of imagination, deemed acceptable.

There in the corner was one of my Bosses. He feigned not to know me. He was on his own (bit dodgy), not on a genuine chums outing (true, true its true...its true....honest)

What to do?

I marched up to him and extended a hand, and he still said he didn't know me.

You think he might have said. "Fancy seeing you here, The Eye of Sauron."

We sat down.

One nanosecond later he scarpered.

I can't help but feel rejected. Should I share my experience with everyone at work?

Next time you stand next to him in the elevator just give him a nudge in the ribs, failing that wink when you pass him in the corridor or give him a thumbs-up. Only two things can happen:

1) You get a pay raise

2) The company has a bad quarter and must downsize

...remember Axel it's not the size that matters, it's how you use it

Mine's only 5 inches, but I reckon that's thick enough

Just caught up with this thread but couldn't resist.

So, you are in the male escort business.

A client calls and is agreeable to your rates. Drinks, dinner, theatre, and extras after. Maybe a tip if you're attentive and do a good job.

She will happily pay you plenty to do the dirty. But she's 270lbs, huge rolls of fat, 3 chins, dyed hair and she stinks of cigarettes. Oh, I forgot, she also drank like a fish before dinner, during dinner and at intermission in the theatre. She keeps grabbing your cock in the taxi and drooling in your ear that she thinks you are handsome etc.

You get home ...she tells you to lap her stinky, floppy, elephant-ears <deleted> until she comes 3 times. She'll tip more you if you rim her arse.

Your rent/car payment/? is due shortly....you need the dosh but you'd like to vomit.

Now you know how a BG often feels.

I'm thinking of getting into the guest house biz down the road by buying an existing enterprise. I understand the key money is to buy the lease. So when the lease is 3X3 years renewable or something similar does this mean the key money must be paid at each renewal or is it one time upfront simply to buy it from the tenant/holder.

Is there a minimum size for a gh to provide a decent living (THB50-60K a month)rather than hand-to-mouth? Good areas at reasonable prices (not Phuket or Samui)?

Thanks for any help you can offer.

Also the post said nothing about profits in Pattaya. It talked about the Hello Girls holding signs saying " Full.. .Try again in 10 minutes"

Well, the discos in the 70s and 80s used to keep punters waiting outside even when they were half empty inside. Whets the suckers' appetite.