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MrHammer

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  1. well they do in america and the uk - talent from all over the world heads to silicon valley or cambridge to found startups.

    the same would start happening here if the government didn't expect 51% to be handed over and 4 layabouts employed before even a line of code has been written

    There it is again. The tripe about "giving up 51% of your company to a Thai"

    The idea that you have to "give away 51%" only holds true if you don't want to bother finding one of the thousands of Thais that can and would gladly pay for their 51% with funds, land, property and equipment. Of course, to find them, you have to leave the Expat Ghetto and actually mingle with the natives.

    I know dozens of Thais who are extremely entrepreneurial, and would be in the top 1% in annual income in any country they chose. And if I know dozens, that means there are thousands just like them- because I don't get out much.

    The "give away 51%" tripe also completely loses sight of the fact that having the right Thai partner can actually smooth things over in every interaction with the government, the banks, the po-po and any Mafioso that may want their cut for nothing. (Caveat- of course, having the wrong partner can kill your business, but that's true anywhere)

    And if you can't find something for 2-4 Thais to do, each making a minimum wage of $300 per month, then you're not thinking hard enough- or your time as a company founder isn't worth much. Run errands, chauffeur, do shopping, change the oil, clean the office, walk the dog, watch the kids, clean your socks, wash the car, keep air in the tires,...,... As an alternative, they can just stay home and be on call for your every need.
    Those 2-4 employees will cost you less in a year than the lawyer you have to hire just to incorporate prudently back home. And here, your Thai partner will take care of the incorporation. Part of his 51%.
    I'd rather have 49% of a thriving business than 100% of a non-starter. The good news is that so many foreigners buy into the "give away 51%" crap, that the competition for Thai investment money is pretty sad. The bad news (for me anyway) is that my contract doesn't allow me to moonlight and I'm pretty happy with what I'm making already here in Thailand. And no desire to stay if the paycheck quits coming.

    You must be kidding, no businessman in their right mind would EVER sign away control of their company at the founding, and definitely NEVER only to be allowed to incorporate. I think, I'll stick with my 100% owned, 0% corporate tax HK company thanks.

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  2. Lets say conservatively that someone consumes 100.000 a month, with 7% VAT that is 7000 paid a month in taxes. We should then factor that the person who got the money will pay taxes on that money in the form of either business tax, personal income tax or VAT again in the form of consumption. I am not going to make that calculation now, but you money being earned abroad and spent in Thailand is what any economist would wish for. It is quite literally the best kind of situation there is for a country.

  3. A ray of hope that digital nomads and online workers are registering on the minds of Thai government. As others have said, it doesn't read like it changes much however. We all know that there has never been any problem working online on a tourist visa or getting a bank account or a driving license, but that doesn't change the fact that he is talking about tourist visas still, which is not what most online workers are interested in.

    It is great that the younger (and older) digital nomads now can feel more legit on their 3-6 month trip to Thailand, but doesn't change the realities for those who would like to make Thailand their home and live there without constant visa runs. What is really needed is a complete overhaul of the business registration code to allow for the fact that Thailand is very popular with freelancers, online workers, online entrepreneurs etc. Decide if you want them in the country or not. Singapore doesn't mind them. Hong Kong don't mind them. Philippines and Cambodja don't mind. Thailand minds?

    The business code is archaic and needs to change to match the modern reality of global software and internet companies.

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  4. Seems like people can't read the study.

    They tested those who voluntarily showed up. That means you will get a larger subset of those who may think they are at risk including drug users.

    44% of all street based prostitutes had HIV. 4% only of brothel based prostitues and again only those who went voluntarily. Very low number and then a proper study should discount IV drug users to get sexually transmitted HIV.

    I hope most guys are smart enough to realize that street prostitutes are there for a reason, most likely because they are drug users and therefore can't work in bars or brothels. IV transmission is by far the most 'effective'.

    But yeah, I hope some of the guys who are happy to pick up a 500 baht whore from Beach Road realize the risks.

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  5. Mr. Hammer, now it's perfectly clear you're making the wrong decision. Say it ain't so!

    Take another look at Thailand--get out of BKK above all.

    If you must go, consider the Phils, Vietnam, Cambodia, or Indonesia.

    The bike has been sold, the lease has been ended and I will buy a ticket for Taiwan tomorrow and stay there for 3 months to learn mandarin. Who knows what will happen after that, we shall see. Taiwan seems very agreeable too. It would be foolish to not listen to experience from those who have been in China, but it would also be foolish to not try out things for yourself.

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  6. Well you've run the gamut quite successfully. I even spotted a thinly veiled death wish on behalf of one of your detractors!

    I hope you will keep us updated on how your experience goes. Remember it'll be uniquely yours to experience and regardless of what this thread may presage could be fantastic or terrible- only one way to find out.

    Those of us who are more familiar with your posts know how you meant your comments to be taken.

    I wish you the best!

    Thanks for the comment. You are right in your assumption.

  7. I'd like to get in an apology before an eventual lock for the choice of words regarding mixed thai-farang children. I did not mean to deliberately offend parents of mixed ethnicity children and it was a very poor choice of words. The comment was supposed to be aimed at the beauty standards of some thais rather than an insult.

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  8. 555 you are really ignorant my friend... You are leaving the pot for the frying pan... Oh yeah, the Chinese are friendly and love foreigners, and if you are white they kneel in from of you. Stop dreaming. The attributes you mention are a constant all throughout Asia. The disdain of foreigners is a constant no matter where you go, even more in Northern Asia. The only ones who will respect you are the rice eaters in the villages where they have never seen the white man. You must be proud of that! Other than Philippines or Indonesia, Asians tend to be cold and unfriendly. And In Philippines and Indonesia friendliness is not gratuitous either. Maybe Singapore has the most evolved culture, but that makes them respectful, not necessarily friendly. If you want to escape all those things you mention just go to Central or South America. Spanish will be easier for you to learn than Chinese!

    Yeah, I am sure you are right, however I have in fact known quite a few chinese in recent years and I do at least like that they don't mask their emotion as much. I do not need or want fake friendliness or groveling. I would much rather a chinese from the old generation curse me out in public, than a Thai smiling at me then muttering the same to their friends. I prefer less frequent genuine smiles over fake smiles every day.

    I hear your suggestion about central and south america and have considered it seriously but businesswise I am not sure it is the right place to be for me at the moment. I have time to go there later too.

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  9. OP,

    have you been to china?

    I am interested to hear of your future, and hope you update your thread.

    I would have been interested in golf but it appears physically defeating here,

    the one poster who has been married 34 years is an exception,

    but I would like to know how people prosper in thailand

    I have been to Hong Kong. This time I plan to take a 3 month intensive mandarin course in Taiwan, then proceed from there.

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  10. Good grief, this thread became full off self righteous holier than thou types, which unfortunately are often ones found to be abusing alter boys or caught sneeking out of some pervert gay bar.

    And LaraC, we get it, you feel threathened by prostitution because you feel it indirectly lowers your sexual value, when a fixed price is set on p*ssy. I wouldn't get too cocky though, as you will likely find that older men do have an easier time finding sexual partners, paid or not, than older women. With your attitude, you might soon find yourself in the shoes of those old men, except you will be going to Ghana instead.

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  11. I've been in Thailand a long time and I have long figured out that most Thai girls prefer a Thai guy about their age. I accept that. But there are plenty of Thai women who, by circumstance, are looking for foreigners. For example, single mothers. Just the other day, I advised a close friend that a single mother may be the best way to go. She'll be ready to settle and won't be "hard work," as the OP says. But if you want to compete with a Thai guy for a grade A hottie, a Thai guy who's got the culture and language advantage down pat, you've got no chance. Sorry, but that's reality.

    I worked that out by my second trip - absolutely no requirement to spend years in the country, just go to a Thai venue outside the usual Farang haunts. It's a bit like telling us that hot 20-somethings in Oz are looking for guys with washboard abs, a BMW and a 6-figure salaries : it's only a discussion here because some of us are sufficiently deluded to believe that nature is somehow turned upside down in Thailand.

    Where it IS different, IMO, is with women over 30, but apparently this is a discussion about 'grade A hotties' so I wont go there.

    It's good that you "get it," but I can assure you that a lot of farang guys don't. I've got men visitors from America all the time and they're constantly smitten with the belief that "Thai girls love us!" Of course, they come to this conclusion after spending most of their time in girlie bars. I've met many farang guys who think that every single Thai girl wants to be with a farang. I would imagine you know guys like this.

    But you do have a point about women over 30 (or 40, whatever that magical over-the-hill age is). Once a woman realizes that her due date is coming up quick, she's very open to different options.

    Basically what I am trying to say is that people who have trouble finding a partner in their native either because they are too shy or other reasons they will not have easier play in Thailand or anywhere else. What I enjoy here is the fact that there is no bad reaction when starting to start a casual conversation with women, but there is still the cultural barrier.

    Before the thread went into overdrive, I will say I mostly agree with you, but not fully.

    First of all, anyone here can find a 'girlfriend' if they throw some cash around. If we exclude that and say that you only want to find a girlfriend who is middle class, educated and up, then it may actually just be harder, assuming you're a normal guy simply because you are likely mostly to meet a certain kind of woman and the language and culture barrier.

    However, for guys who are otherwise 'normal', but have certain traits which are not popular in the west such as being short and skinny, they will fare much better in Thailand, because that is the norm here. Some guys I am sure would do better with women in China for example instead of Thailand, because China is a more masculine culture, or Japan, which is a more introvert culture.

    I'd say, if you're an extrovert, short and skinny, then Thailand is the perfect place to be :D

  12. Excellent salesmanship by the girl here.

    Not sure what qualifies as "excellent", but not only did she fail to close, she wasted 4 weeks on a poor prospect and got thrown out by the customer.

    Based on her performance this quarter I'm not sure she would make a very good sales rep?

    You're right, she needs a rigorous course on closing. Any volunteers?

  13. Excellent salesmanship by the girl here. First she built a connection, then she made the irressistible one time offer at the time you were your weakest. These girls waste their time selling sex. If they had any kind of drive, they could have made excellent sales reps in other business.

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  14. The older man, younger woman hate by most western women is usually just a barely hideable personaly fear that if older men - by virtue of their wallet or smashing personality - can date younger women, then who will date them when they are out of their prime.

    Maybe it's also the fact that no man - or very few - will sleep with an old, physically unattractive woman for money, while plenty of women have no problems doing so with men.

    I dont think you guys get it..or you are deluding yourself.

    Ive actually dated a man who was 15 years older than me some years back.

    He was very attractive, was in great physical shape (was into exercise -like me, and enjoyed eating healthily), he didnt drink, hated watching tv (like me), and had a successful business.

    We dated for a couple of years and he wanted to get married.

    The problem was that ..well frankly i wanted something else in life. He had a lot of responsibilities..kids from a previous marriage etc, and i was finding it all a bit too overwhelming as i still wanted to have a bit of fun, do "younger" activities etc.

    I had to bite the bullet and admit to myself that i just wasnt ready for it all.

    When people looked at us, they saw a couple who were well matched in terms of similar interests, looks, physicality etc.

    No, most people (be they "western women" or otherwise), DONT feel any kind of "hatred" (as you put it) towards seeing an older man and younger woman. But yes, when you see an old decrepid man or a fat old balding singlet wearing beer guzzler with a thai girl a quarter of his age..its just downright weird...no matter how that may offend you. Same if i were to see a old grizzly woman with a young boy partner (especially if she were to paw at him in public). I dont care if its UN PC, it makes me gag. Anyway, Thailand is an un pc country..so im perfectly within my rights to say that i find grungy old men with little thai ladies creepy. They might be lovely if i got to speak with them etc..but that first impression..creepy. Like it or not, thats the view of most of us who arent retired old western men...

    No, hating on old men and their sex drive is certainly not un-pc, it is perfectly acceptable. Hating on straight white men is the only hate that is allowed. Woe me, if I say I feel the same about seeing an old spinster lesbian and her Thai lover here.

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  15. The older man, younger woman hate by most western women is usually just a barely hideable personaly fear that if older men - by virtue of their wallet or smashing personality - can date younger women, then who will date them when they are out of their prime.

    Maybe it's also the fact that no man - or very few - will sleep with an old, physically unattractive woman for money, while plenty of women have no problems doing so with men.

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  16. Fool myself?? o.O about what exactly?

    About your middle class female friends not dating older men.

    ...riiiiiighhht..

    Silly me.

    Thanks for opening my eyes to that.

    My naughty Thai female friends..there was me believing all along that they are happy with their young fit equally successful male partners..when they are off doing the dirty on them with old retired western dudes.

    Tsk tsk!

    feel really foolish now.

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    You have no clue.

    Durex infidelity study: http://www.bangkokpost.com/breakingnews/309732/thai-women-ranks-no-2-in-infidelity

    Thai women cheat the second most in the world, Thai men are also in top 3.

    You didn't mention western older men in your post, go back and read it. I also didn't say it was western men, just older men, but because having a younger mistress is totally normal in all of Asia also means that the old western guy, young thai girl thing, really isn't out of the norm at all. It may not be your idea of a perfect relationship, but still very common among Asians.

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  17. I seriously doubt that anyone on the thread have ever had a real conversation with a Thai woman who was not a bar girl. Yes, it is difficult for farang to meet educated middle class Thai women, assuming that you would want to do that. I also doubt that anyone has bothered to so some basic research on the Thai culture regarding communication, relationships, families, marriage, legal rights of women in Thai marriages, why there are a large percentage of education Thai women that are in their 30's,40's,and 50's that have never married because they do not like the way Thai men treat them.

    My advice is to do your homework and stop focusing on young girls.

    Most, if not all, my Thai female friends are middle class Thai women.

    ..none of them date old men however.

    Or so they say.

    Or maybe they are not attractive enough to do so.

    This is Asia, mistresses, second wives and sugar babies is a sport here. You just don't see it, because you don't know what to look for.

    Educate yourself: http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/02/04/inside-china-s-mistress-industrial-complex.html

    I'm not even old, but don't fool yourself.

    Fool myself?? o.O about what exactly?

    About your middle class female friends not dating older men.

  18. I seriously doubt that anyone on the thread have ever had a real conversation with a Thai woman who was not a bar girl. Yes, it is difficult for farang to meet educated middle class Thai women, assuming that you would want to do that. I also doubt that anyone has bothered to so some basic research on the Thai culture regarding communication, relationships, families, marriage, legal rights of women in Thai marriages, why there are a large percentage of education Thai women that are in their 30's,40's,and 50's that have never married because they do not like the way Thai men treat them.

    My advice is to do your homework and stop focusing on young girls.

    Most, if not all, my Thai female friends are middle class Thai women.

    ..none of them date old men however.

    Or so they say.

    Or maybe they are not attractive enough to do so.

    This is Asia, mistresses, second wives and sugar babies is a sport here. You just don't see it, because you don't know what to look for.

    Educate yourself: http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/02/04/inside-china-s-mistress-industrial-complex.html

    I'm not even old, but don't fool yourself.

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