ppmacready

Why do Farang that have been shafted as above then come on TV and ask the same question a million times ?

What about those times when unlike you the Farang doesn't run out of money as he isn't stupid and they live happily ever after

BUT, how can he be anything other than stupid to marry a prostitute ? Surely only fools marry prostitues.

No.

People who fall or think they are in love, marry prostitutes.

You have to be a fool to give all your money away!

i was actually believing this was going to be a good thread reading the OP.

Up until the line:

"My friends have had a great deal of luck in Soi 6".

Looks like just another windup.............................

SpeciAL bargirls................lol.

Also one doesnt need high libido to deal with bargirls. Bargirls are not in it for the sexx.................lol.

My friends who get their girlfriends from soi 6, without exception, 'ALWAYS' tell me the girl is 'special'!

I agree you only need a 'brain' with a C+ level of education to adequately deal with a Thai girl.

Generally I have found working girls 'do' have a higher libido than 'normal' girls.( Which is an ingredient I need in a relationship to make it work.)

A trait which helped many choose this profession.

Some working girls do enjoy their work, contrary to popular belief on this site.

I'm amazed that the good looking young guys that come here are prepared to 'pay' for it!

I assume the culture in the west is slowly changing and the guys understand one way or another,they have to pay for it anyway!

Certainly I would of preferred to have spent my youth here, instead of Ibiza and Corfu.

"If an uneducated peasant girl, can get a 5 or 10 million baht house bought and paid for in 2-5 years by any means necessary. Good Luck to her."

It's often implied on TV that uneducated peasant girls are remarkably smart, but couldn't it just as well be the case that the "farang" in question is remarkably stupid..?

(General comment, not directed to the OP)

I totally agree with you.

The guy crying in his beer, that she took the house and car made his own bed!

i was actually believing this was going to be a good thread reading the OP.

Up until the line:

"My friends have had a great deal of luck in Soi 6".

Looks like just another windup.............................

No windup.

We all have 'lucky' friends who have married working girls and its worked. ( so far!)

I believe they were 'lucky'.

I'm sure they are not staying together just to 'prove me ' wrong.

I would add my friends who have made a success of this type of relationship are not the 'doormat' types.

OP, you are a good catch.

Good in paying the girls, good in caring about them, good in being truthful to them.

This is what Thai girls, and girls all over the world need, and you are a good provider.

The only thing, be aware that someday a girl, more clever than you, will take you to the cleaners, as they did with many others.

Hope that never happens to you.

Thank you for your kind words.

Its a chauvinistic culture designed by men for me.

How can you lose?

I never hope.

I plan.

Most guys don't plan ahead.

That's why they don't have private medical insurance or a private pension plan.

Bare in mind if your the same age and share the same culture,a relationship only has a 50% chance of working out anyway.

A 25 year age gap, her dubious occupation, cultural differences, an enforced educationally backward understanding of how the real world works.

Your chances of it working longer than 5 years are very low giving it 'your' very best shot.( I'm including buying a house in 'her' name!)

Holding a relationship together is hard work. Something the Thais are not well known for.

If you have a successful happy relationship for 10 years in Thailand with any women, any age, from any occupation.

I'd politely suggest you have had a fair crack of the whip and you should of have had your moneys worth!

​A plan in case the relationship fails is practical and prudent.

I'm asked often,how I managed to retire so young in Thailand.

​My answer is I've never paid for a divorce.

I watch as the guy works out how long he could live in Thailand on his wife's share of the settlement and then it dawns on him!

'Ave a great weekend.

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How's your village doing,since you left then?Regarding your last line.

As always, we can see lots of thought goes into your replies.

And you read it to the end. Seriously, well done!

You were obviously a high achiever at school.

And you have another post notched up, 1776

But you didn't answer the question.

But i think i did.

Good.

As I tell my daughter its all about being a 'can' kind of person.

Not I 'can't'.

You tried.

Well done.

If the take out message from the OP is that 'he loves Thai Girls'

I have to concur ... I love Thai Girls

... and two little 1/2 Thai boys ...

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I 'adore' Thai girls they are my 'reason to live'.

I treat them as Princess's' whilst they tow the line.

And to be honest, Ive always been treated like a 'king'.

They have made the past 18 years in Thailand, a bachelors dream come true.

Although I had a pretty good crack in the UK living with 2 women!

Although I do advise if you really want a married life, get a girl from Fillys and bring her here.

There culture because of there religion, is far more conducive to making it work long term.

See the difference on comments on the Thai and Filipino forums.

Clearly there is a difference and its by a huge percentage, when it comes to long term successful relationships.

Being successful in Thailand is more about ,if you have retained your sense of humour , your sanity and most of your wealth.

How's your village doing,since you left then?Regarding your last line.

As always, we can see lots of thought goes into your replies.

5 friends were so jealous, they moved here.

Well go and eat something then.........

Inspiring as always.

If I was the OP I would be looking around the Nong Palai or Mabrachan lake area's.

Thanks, going to Pattaya to scout for a house and school at the end of this month, will search in those areas.

Disappointed with the schools.

I started to have my daughter home schooled 2 years ago when she was 8.

At the time I would of been happy to accept her growing up a C+ student.

I'm pleased to say 2 years later her last report was all A's.

Not surprising when there is 1 teacher 2 children V 1 teacher 30 children.

If you would like more information contact me privately.

Over the past 25 years I have seen farangs marry working girls and also seen them marry non-working girls. If you discount the working girl ones that you "just knew would not work out" from the word GO for various reasons(she was the Mamasan for the last 20 years or she was the Banana show girl straight from the floor) I reckon the divorce rate is about the same between non-working & working girls. In fact I would go as far to say some of the worst ones were non-working girls IMHO. I observed someone who was made miserable by his well educated wife who told him when to eat, what to eat, what clothes to wear, what car to buy, what house to buy, etc. She would correct him at will in front of anyone. She thought she was cute with that PHD, I thought something else.

He was a doormat?

Love the smell of the Thaksin knob slobbers soiling themselves over having a decent, effective man in charge, because the contrast with their hero couldn't be more striking.

“When the old refuses to die, and the new is struggling to be born, monsters appear.”

Mine is different.

Mine is..............''Special'!

Only low in English skills?

Why does this only go up to 100k? I know very few people spending under 150k and most are in the 200k + range

That's BS if i ever heard it.

Not really, 150k is 3,000 pounds not a massive sum to spend to be honest.

150K is on the button for me, although 17K a month of that is paid from a UK bank directly to Bupa UK.

Why do Farang that have been shafted as above then come on TV and ask the same question a million times ?

What about those times when unlike you the Farang doesn't run out of money as he isn't stupid and they live happily ever after

BUT, how can he be anything other than stupid to marry a prostitute ? Surely only fools marry prostitues.

Its cheaper to date a whore here.

And the money lasts longer here than marring a whore in your own country.

In times of yore, there were 'the King's Marshalls', the Highest Authority could call in, to correct very grave situations, where Justice had not been able to be served. I'm not speaking of vigilante, or death squad here, it was a very select small team of very respected men of high honour and skills, some even say they still exist.

Even in Thailand?

ppmacready post 80.

Please re phrase these sentences so they give the same information and facts but are not racist then.

I have never pretended to be educated.

Ah so good to see you recognize your own shortcomings Benny.

Its important a man knows his own limitations.

The guys who come over here thinking its their chance to be a hero for the first time in their life and rescue a damsel in distress, quite simply, do not.

I'm sorry but pointing out a couple of facts, I do not think makes anyone a racist.

I do not like to go to bed with a women with black as coal skin with frizzy hair is a statement of fact.

It has got nothing to do with me being a racist for example.

My black mate was a drug dealer with frizzy hair and we lived amicably together for over 5 years.

Is also in my humble opinion not a racist remark.

Of course I grew up in an era when being gay meant happy.

Most Muslims are not terrorists, but most terrorists are Muslim.

Is also in my opinion not racist but a factual statement.

Fascinating facts ... and no doubt you have the scientific research studies to back up these "facts". But they're still racist facts.

Please re phrase these sentences so they give the same information and facts but are not racist then.

I have never pretended to be educated.

I'm sorry but pointing out a couple of facts, I do not think makes anyone a racist.

I do not like to go to bed with a women with black as coal skin with frizzy hair is a statement of fact.

It has got nothing to do with me being a racist for example.

My black mate was a drug dealer with frizzy hair and we lived amicably together for over 5 years.

Is also in my humble opinion not a racist remark.

Of course I grew up in an era when being gay meant happy.

Most Muslims are not terrorists, but most terrorists are Muslim.

Is also in my opinion not racist but a factual statement.

I'm not a doctor nor a Brit, but I play one on thaivisa. And 9 out of 10 Thai women surveyed chose to avoid all foreign men for fear of losing face. Especially the filthy French.

I notice the Russians have a serious personnel hygiene problem.

But I hear the girls avoid Indians the most.

How many of your friends and acquaintances have lost their minds living in Thailand?

Not all rosy but Thai UK marriages have a good record

Not all marriages between Thai women and UK men work out but they have a pretty good record. In fact there is evidence that some marriages between young Thai women and farangs (foreigners) in general tend to fail for one reason or another. Thailand is not a difficult place in which to find a young Thai woman genuinely seeking a faithful partner although alas this is not always the story. There are horror stories out there, particularly involving men who seek Thai women or marriage partners out in the bars and night clubs of the cities such as Bangkok and Phuket. Recent divorce applications in Thailand's north easy region (Isaan) prompted an investigation into this issue.

However what has emerged is very impressive in fact. Over a period of 10 years marriages between Thai women and foreign partners even where the marriage partner was substantially older, have the same divorce rate as marriages between Thai women and Thai men of a similar age. The divorce rate is approximately 20% which is well below the western average, now approaching 50%.

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