Dr. Burrito Posted October 7, 2007 Share Posted October 7, 2007 i am not sure if the jealous husband idea is right as her salary was not a problem for 2 years; so why should it suddenly be a problem now? if u got some way of getting in touch, call her and ask her. u've got me curious too. anything that has changed in ur household recently? could even be a problem with someone else in the vicinity. THIS IS THE KEY question for me: do I try to contact her, and ask "why", or do I just forget it, as others have told me to? Some said "you don't want to interfere with Thais when they decide something"... Does it seem like a Thai could be re-convinced to re-think the situation? Or should I really just forget it, cause they have already decided what they want to do? Once she is gone, she is gone. Simply find another, an easy task to do. Dr. B Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frenchFARANGbkk Posted October 7, 2007 Share Posted October 7, 2007 (edited) Also, I have never even remotely made any kind of sexual "pass" as this maid... never even crossed my mind... but I am home alone with her most of the day, every day... maybe the husband doesn't like that...Also, now I'm thinking... there are guards outside the gate at night, and when I come back late at night, I usually stop at a market and bring them bags of peanuts, cold drinks, sometimes a candy bar, raisins, etc... Once in a while, I'll hand them a small amount of money, like 20 baht... is this wrong too? Am I action like some farang flashing money? Lastly, I appreciate all the previous replies, helping shed light on this matter, that I am now realizing I knew so little about. You really are too nice with everybody. You should move and start a new life at a new place, and do not give any free stuff to anybody except when they do somehing special for you or something bad as a death happen in their family. Seems like Thai do not know how to handle gifts. Edited October 7, 2007 by frenchFARANGbkk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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