lowersmiths Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 I met a 'good' Thai girl a few months ago at the place where she worked and started seeing her on a regular basis. We went to the movies, out for meals etc etc without any sex. It was like the kind of dating you do when you're a teenager in England. She said she wanted to see if I was 'good' before she committed herself, which I accepted. While this is going on I'm still on the bargirl scene. I love bargirls, but I was looking for something different and not money-driven. Anyways, I finally managed to get the 'good' girl into bed (a combination of subtle wit, easy charm and 25 singa beers). The next morning, after seconds, she said 'you give me money'. I was shocked, I couldn't believe my ears. I asked her if she was same as bargirl and she got really upset. She said 'for mobile phone, for family' etc. I told her to go whistle but I'm really confused. Is this normal??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britmaveric Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 Not to be flippant, but what do you think? However I'll answer anyways no this isn't normal behaviour. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thai3 Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 Obviously NOT a GTG after all then! -peter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lowersmiths Posted December 10, 2004 Author Share Posted December 10, 2004 Not to be flippant, but what do you think? I think she is a 'stealth' bargirl I'll stick with the real thing for the forseeable future....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danone Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 well if you use 25 singhas to get yourselves into bed, she's clearly not a virgin in any sense. clever of her, naive of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khutan Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 Umm, I don't understand this .... and 25 singa beers Who drank the beer. My wife who cringes at the sight of a bar is off her face with 2 SPY in her belly, and after 3 my god, she is a sick girl..... Just remember, when I left the army my councellor told me Tolerance = dependance = associated behaviour...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cojones Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 depends on how you define "good thai girl " . those on lower pay have debts to pay so always need the extra . i have also had this thing happen with 2 teachers and several other "good" girls. conversly i have had BGs do freebies with i , for some odd reason. nothing adds up in LOS ,expect the unexpected Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathe Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 Farang wants to try ...free of charge....to pick good gal. There are many good gals and many naughty young gals , who wants to earn some pocket money ..by going out with Farang....as it is up to date...having BF as a farang. And nowaday there are many ..Farang rue mak..... You got what you are looking for. Really good gals with good home. good behaviour...would not dare doing things...unless they want expensive bags or handys....and focus YOU.. as her big spender...hehehee....Want to know...if you guys like Bargals....I think it would not spicy experiences enough for you to pick such good gal ....as you guy used to have such a hard...thing....as the song....wild thing..u make my heart sing. If it isnt so wild...you needed 25 Singha Beers...Cheersssss... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stumonster Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 I met a 'good' Thai girl remove stereotypes from your thinking and things might become clearer? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fisherd3 Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 Talking to my TGF about such matters a while back she came out with with absolute conviction 'Free sex me hear about that in England, girlfriend and boyfriend....." in such a way that her observation was a general Thai attitude and not an attitude limited to BGs , obviously there are 'good' Thai girls who can afford to be 'good' but for many in between BG and 'good girl' moving into Farang territory = money whilst leaving whatever?! morality restrains there behaviour in Thai society. A bit like English girls going on holiday to Spain and doing three or four guys something they would never do England. We musn't forget the twisted Victorian attitude we at least UK farangs have towards simple bodily processes and the commercial utilisation therof, the concept is almost foreign to us compared with other peoples including our close neighbours the Germans who have whore house opnely in the middle of their big cities, this makes it difficult for us to grasp the simplicity and ease of the transaction for the impoverished. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gazza Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 Not all 'good' girls are good. Not all 'bad' girls are bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a2396 Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 Sex seems to be a negotiationable commodity in Thailand, in elements of the social strata where you might not expect it. I am realtively new on the scene here, and I am not sure what to make of it yet. Along with the marriage dowery, it is another bargaining chip in a relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cdnvic Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 (Fisherd3) We musn't forget the twisted Victorian attitude we at least UK farangs have towards simple bodily processes. If you keep sex on par with farting, and burping, you are really meeting the wrong girls. cv Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuestHouse Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 Is this normal?? Is what normal? It all seems to me as though you've lost your compass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dfwbkk Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 If you keep sex on par with farting, and burping, you are really meeting the wrong girls. cv <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I would have to agree. Look elsewhere... /// dfw Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samran Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 Anyways, I finally managed to get the 'good' girl into bed (a combination of subtle wit, easy charm and 25 singa beers). The next morning, after seconds, she said 'you give me money'. I was shocked, I couldn't believe my ears. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> You didn't get her to pay for those 25 beers by any chance? Maybe she wanted a refund! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeff1 Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 Arnt good girls great ? Where can I find one like that ? After 25 sings , I would give her every baht I have ! You cheap charlie . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronnoi Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 I met a 'good' Thai girl a few months ago at the place where she worked and started seeing her on a regular basis. We went to the movies, out for meals etc etc without any sex. It was like the kind of dating you do when you're a teenager in England. She said she wanted to see if I was 'good' before she committed herself, which I accepted. While this is going on I'm still on the bargirl scene. I love bargirls, but I was looking for something different and not money-driven. Anyways, I finally managed to get the 'good' girl into bed (a combination of subtle wit, easy charm and 25 singa beers). The next morning, after seconds, she said 'you give me money'. I was shocked, I couldn't believe my ears. I asked her if she was same as bargirl and she got really upset. She said 'for mobile phone, for family' etc. I told her to go whistle but I'm really confused. Is this normal??? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> u silly bugga Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lowersmiths Posted December 11, 2004 Author Share Posted December 11, 2004 cheers for the replies fellas. i'm not that bothered, i got what i had been after all along anyway. i was just a bit shocked the way she asked - exactly like a BG. in some ways i can understand. i earn 10x what she does so it's not a big deal, it was just how upfront she was about it. as for the singha beers ... that's a well-worn tactic ain't it??? she refuses, so get her drunk ... then it's game on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Pat Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 You must have spoken to her in the wrong kinda way, possibly spoke to her like a BG, and she sussed you out and realised that you were prepared to part with cash. The fact that you (well say it anyway) say you didn't give her money is questionable. You have got to "Suss out the Thai way" first, then you'll understand what its all about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sas_cars Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 i have bedded 25-26 TGs,no BG at all.And I was never asked for any money though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lowersmiths Posted December 11, 2004 Author Share Posted December 11, 2004 no dj pat, i've known this girl for months. i used to meet her from work during her lunch hour and would take her out on my days off. she said sex was completely off limits, because she needed to know if i was 'good'. i asked her how long this would take ..... she said maybe 10 more months! to be honest, i was getting a bit fed up. 10 months is too long to wait, i don't care how much i liked her, it isn't natural. i decided to 'go for broke' and take her out for meal, go to a club she really likes and get her drunk. we had a great night (and morning) and then she came out with the 'you give me money' completely out of the blue. i told her no (i was skint after the previous night anyway!) and that she had to go. she called me 10 mins later and said she had been given the day off work because i had made her late. i told her i had made other plans already and i haven't spoken to her since. interesting to hear a few other posters have had similar experiences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeff1 Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 Let me try this again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeff1 Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 cheers for the replies fellas.i'm not that bothered, i got what i had been after all along anyway. i was just a bit shocked the way she asked - exactly like a BG. in some ways i can understand. i earn 10x what she does so it's not a big deal, it was just how upfront she was about it. as for the singha beers ... that's a well-worn tactic ain't it??? she refuses, so get her drunk ... then it's game on Nice guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lowersmiths Posted December 11, 2004 Author Share Posted December 11, 2004 Sorry mate, but if you had to get a girl drunk to get yourself laid, it is sad to say the least, especially if you thought she was a 'good' girl. If you were that desperate, why not go for a bar girl in the first place?Just a thought. you live in reality or cloud cuckoo land? ever been on the pull in england? seeing as you asked, i went for a bar girl the previous night. this was a long-term thing and i thought it was time push turned to shove. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lowersmiths Posted December 11, 2004 Author Share Posted December 11, 2004 don't think i'll be taking any advice on women from someone who has been married FIVE times. thanks anyway though pal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joe strummer Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 I met a 'good' Thai girl a few months ago at the place where she worked and started seeing her on a regular basis. We went to the movies, out for meals etc etc without any sex. It was like the kind of dating you do when you're a teenager in England. She said she wanted to see if I was 'good' before she committed herself, which I accepted. While this is going on I'm still on the bargirl scene. I love bargirls, but I was looking for something different and not money-driven. Anyways, I finally managed to get the 'good' girl into bed (a combination of subtle wit, easy charm and 25 singa beers). The next morning, after seconds, she said 'you give me money'. I was shocked, I couldn't believe my ears. I asked her if she was same as bargirl and she got really upset. She said 'for mobile phone, for family' etc. I told her to go whistle but I'm really confused. Is this normal??? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> One question, just how much does a 'good girl' charge? How much did she ask for? I reckon she probably wasn't a hardened prostitute, if she were then she wouldn't have left without some cash. Rather she would have got nasty & made some sort of scene. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gburns57au Posted December 12, 2004 Share Posted December 12, 2004 Were you lookiing long term with this girl or were you just after the conquest of a "Good Girl".....???? By getting her drunk and then bedding her, you have made her feel cheap, (over here you would be a candidate for rape) If you had waited till she was ready, you probably would have done better. But you made her feel like she was a whore and she responded in kind. Being on the pull in the UK where the girls are more sexually liberal is not the same as being on the pull in Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BadboyBrown Posted December 12, 2004 Share Posted December 12, 2004 Meet a good girl.......not a bar girl......sex for free (true love)........... Within two weeks down the jewlers 20-25000bht for a bracelet...... 14 days 25000 bht - if you are a pretty and a clever girl you got it made. Everbody pays...... bargirls just want the cash up front! Its not our good looks amazing personalities or sexual proess that make us attractive to thai girls. Some Thais think Farrangs can print money.......... You cant blaim them.....blowing 70000bht in 7days......im sure there are many who do this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poolcleaner Posted December 12, 2004 Share Posted December 12, 2004 Meet a good girl.......not a bar girl......sex for free (true love)........... Within two weeks down the jewlers 20-25000bht for a bracelet...... 14 days 25000 bht - if you are a pretty and a clever girl you got it made. Everbody pays...... bargirls just want the cash up front! Its not our good looks amazing personalities or sexual proess that make us attractive to thai girls. Some Thais think Farrangs can print money.......... You cant blaim them.....blowing 70000bht in 7days......im sure there are many who do this. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> WHAT!!!!!! Tell me it ain't so! You mean they're lying when they callme 'hansum man'? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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