MsClueless Posted October 12, 2009 Share Posted October 12, 2009 I have a question what is appropriate in term of doggy bag? (pack away food from restuarant when you dont finish meal?) I dont do it a lot, but if a lot of food left then yes, as I dont like to waste. but i know if im out in formal setting then i dont. recently though, i was out to dinner with friends (older friends). they were paying. i finished only half my food. normally if with friends I will pack for sure, even if I give the take-away portion to friend. but in this situation I was in dilemma. I make the distinction between friends and older friends, because in thai culture when somebody is that much older than you, we dont usually refer to them as friends, and we dont treat them the same way friends in similar age group. (friends are non-thai by the way) if I pack, the host may think Im greedy? and make them pay for 2 meals for me! if I dont pack, they may think I made them pay all that money and didnt finish my food and wasted? what is the appropriate thing to do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colinp Posted October 12, 2009 Share Posted October 12, 2009 I would have thought the appropriate thing would be to say " Do you mind if I pack the remainder as I don't like to waste food " or something along those lines. Your friends will probably say "of course we don't mind". If someone has been kind enough to pay for your meal they will not be interested in the '2 meals' scenario only that you enjoyed the meal. This is only my opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britmaveric Posted October 12, 2009 Share Posted October 12, 2009 If its an individual mean - just ask for a box. If its a shared meal I wouldnt even bother asking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soulwy Posted October 12, 2009 Share Posted October 12, 2009 Interesting topic. And you are so right. I agree with Colinp by the way. But I'd also look at the situation, if is it a formal (classy) situation, I wouldn't ask. Or if the "friendship" is pretty fresh and new, I'd pop up the question when I know the people a little bit better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IanForbes Posted October 12, 2009 Share Posted October 12, 2009 Interesting topic. And you are so right.I agree with Colinp by the way. But I'd also look at the situation, if is it a formal (classy) situation, I wouldn't ask. Or if the "friendship" is pretty fresh and new, I'd pop up the question when I know the people a little bit better. That would be my take on the matter as well. It all depends on the situation. It would also depend on how the meal was ordered. Most people have a choice in what to order in a restaurant. If I'm not hungry I'll only order an inexpensive, small meal. I don't like waste either and won't order a fancy meal if I'm not hungry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drum Posted October 12, 2009 Share Posted October 12, 2009 if you would like to take the food home ,just ask the waiter waitress they will only be to pleased to make up a doggy bag,i usually find Thai people eat with there eyes,and there is more often than not food left over,no need to feel embarrassed, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bonobo Posted October 13, 2009 Share Posted October 13, 2009 When I am with my Thai friends, they pay probably 90% of the time. They will pretty much always ask for a doggie bag, and they will always ask me if I want it. I invariably turn down the offer if they are paying, but I accept it if I am paying. For example, last night, we went to Somboon, and we had an extra kilo of prawns and three quarters of a plate of crab curry that my friend asked to be packed in a doggie bag. Even thought the meal was technically on the company, since it was my friend who pulled out the cash, I deferred to him as to who would take it home (not to say I wasn't tempted when he offered the food to me--it was a pretty delicious meal. ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yabaaaa Posted October 13, 2009 Share Posted October 13, 2009 I have a questionwhat is appropriate in term of doggy bag? (pack away food from restuarant when you dont finish meal?) I dont do it a lot, but if a lot of food left then yes, as I dont like to waste. but i know if im out in formal setting then i dont. recently though, i was out to dinner with friends (older friends). they were paying. i finished only half my food. normally if with friends I will pack for sure, even if I give the take-away portion to friend. but in this situation I was in dilemma. I make the distinction between friends and older friends, because in thai culture when somebody is that much older than you, we dont usually refer to them as friends, and we dont treat them the same way friends in similar age group. (friends are non-thai by the way) if I pack, the host may think Im greedy? and make them pay for 2 meals for me! if I dont pack, they may think I made them pay all that money and didnt finish my food and wasted? what is the appropriate thing to do? Gee you must have some difficult decisions in life?? Just say the meal was "so good" that you want to take home the remains. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
webfact Posted October 13, 2009 Share Posted October 13, 2009 (edited) As long as you don't say I will take that home for my dog I trust there will be no objections from your friends Edited October 13, 2009 by webfact Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
way2muchcoffee Posted October 13, 2009 Share Posted October 13, 2009 I would probably leave it alone. I didn't pay for the food. I wouldn't want to take my leftovers home. It feels like bad manners. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkjames Posted October 13, 2009 Share Posted October 13, 2009 agreed, you didn't pay - don't ask to take the leftovers home... even if offered by the payer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MsClueless Posted October 13, 2009 Author Share Posted October 13, 2009 so mixed answers no clear proper or right thing to do it seems? yes tough life I have. (without sarcasm - i may be in similar situation again and want to find what is the 'proper' thing to do) i didnt realise how big the meal will be, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkjames Posted October 14, 2009 Share Posted October 14, 2009 so mixed answersno clear proper or right thing to do it seems? yes tough life I have. (without sarcasm - i may be in similar situation again and want to find what is the 'proper' thing to do) i didnt realise how big the meal will be, err on being overly polite... Even if I am with a close friend, I wouldn't ask the question. Now if you are still insistent, you could be a bit sneaky and say, "What a shame, would really hate to see all that food go to waste". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickenslegs Posted October 14, 2009 Share Posted October 14, 2009 so mixed answersno clear proper or right thing to do it seems? yes tough life I have. (without sarcasm - i may be in similar situation again and want to find what is the 'proper' thing to do) i didnt realise how big the meal will be, err on being overly polite... Even if I am with a close friend, I wouldn't ask the question. Now if you are still insistent, you could be a bit sneaky and say, "What a shame, would really hate to see all that food go to waste". "... and a couple of beers 'to go' would also be nice." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Powerband Posted October 15, 2009 Share Posted October 15, 2009 Chockchai steeakhouse around asoke actually has doggy bag written on a bag, that they pack your leftovers in....won't be going back there anytime soon...Am I a dog? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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