Pregnant or not?

[sidjameson]

Im 46 she is 39.

I have never ejaculated inside her.

Never used condoms.

3rd March a 1 day period. Seemed strange.

10th March had urine pregnancy test with Dr at her government office. Negative. DR seems a bit of an idiot

16th March had blood test same place. Results back next day. Negative.

31st March urine test. Positive. Very light line.

2nd April urine test. Positive.

No period in April.

4th April urine test from Tesco. Negative!!!!!!

Nipples sore since 1 week BEFORE 1 day period.

Often sick since 1 week BEFORE 1 day period.

After 1 day period stomach became bigger. She is slim.

Stomach pain like pre period 2 weeks ago. Start again yesterday.

Her doctor at work seems useless and always says same, 'lets wait'

Such conflicting data, though it looks like preggy to me. 1 week late period, couple of positive tests. Symptoms. But symptoms that started before 1 day period! Neg blood test. Stomach pains!!!!

Confused.

[sidjameson]

Oh the first positive test line was so light almost couldnt see it.

Second positive test line still very light but can see.

[Costas2008]

Oh, c'mon OP, you are asking the Thai Visa members if your wife/gf is pregnant or not.

You can't be serious and you better take the advice her doctor is giving her.

Let's wait and see.

It is quite common to get contradictory results at the beginning of pregnancy.

Big breath, calm down and congratulations for the new baby

PS-edited.

You better stop that habit not ejaculating in her, and not using a condom.

It doesn't work as you will know in a few days and both you and her do not enjoy sex.

Edited April 6, 2015 by Costas2008

[FBN]

Keep in mind that sperm leaks out during intercourse and pregnancy can occur even if ejaculation takes place outside.

[Brit_Doggie]

sperm can swim upstream even though you think you have withdrawn you can't see the little blighters,so enjoy the future whatever the outcome.

[h90]

sperm can swim upstream even though you think you have withdrawn you can't see the little blighters,so enjoy the future whatever the outcome.

It will be a strong one....

[Sheryl]

Given the conflicting test results I recommend she get an ultrasound...from an ob-gyn not a gp

[NancyL]

Sheryl, given that she's probably only about five - six weeks pregnant is anything going to show up on an ultrasound yet?

[Sheryl]

The embryonic sac can be seen on ultrasound as early as 6 weeks by abdominal ultrasound, 4 1/2 - 5 weeks by transvaginal utrasound. Transvaginal ultrasound can also detect thickening of the endometrium by 3-4 weeks.

It will detect a molar pregnancy even earlier, and that is a concern in this case.

She should also have a repeat blood test as these are more accurate and sensitive than urine test.

[sidjameson]

Thanks Sheryl.

She went to a Dr and he gave her a pelvic exam said she didnt need an ultrascan!!!!!!!

he also gave her another urine test which was negative.

He said she wasnt pregnant and had had a chemical pregnancy.

He also told her her uterus was swollen.

He said she just needed to wait for her period.

We were content with his answer for a few days but growing doubts mean we will go to sukhimvit hospital for an unltrasound on Saturday. Do you think its needed? Ive just read about molar pregnancy and I agree that it cant be ruled out.

[Sheryl]

To be on safe side yes I would get ultrasound.