Debaryman101

You want to know!!! I have posted here and i get slammed Why? Is this not what this forum is for?? I have been told why are you posting here to find out about thailand why don't you ask your mom and your wife. First of all My mom told me all i need to know What is wrong with finding out on your own?? I posted a thread about starting a relationship with a thai woman. What's wrong with that?? Maybe some people want to read other people's experiences I can only say so much to them and plus I am 10.000 miles away. I just got one of my friends asking me to come with me when i go back to thailand.

Tell your friends to look first on the internet there are many nice Thai girls looking for farang husbands.

One word of warning employ a private detective. It does not cost that much to do. Address, passport no, bank account no, is all you need and photo, this will put your friends minds at rest that they are doing the right thing.

I hope this has helped somewhat In answering some if not all your queries.

I have seen some websights and I have shown them the websites These two men know about the sex industry side of bangkok and they do not want to be involved with that.

They saw your post about the private detective and they are asking why?? Is this beacuse some girls were former bargirls Is that what you want them to make sure of and avoid? Please tell me why they need to do this

Thanks

thepnakhon

Am I being singled out because i am Thai-American?? I know I am going to get slams I want honest answers when i get one I will leave thanks

Bizz not good idea to show your feelings on this forum you mght get your head chopped off

chok dee

thepnakhon

maybe they were looking for osama bin laden

I am not going to ask how or why or what you mean about leaving yourself open I thank you and appreciate your answer one of the few answers to the question but i am in the wrong forum this an EXPAT FORUM and i should have realised that and that was my mistake

chok dee

thepnakhon

You guys are terrible

obviously according to thai lover that many thai women just jump into bed at the toss of a hat!!!! My wife and i while we were dating never slept together until after we were married so i guess there are conservative girls still out there.

thepnakhon

it's someone they don't want here someone that starts crap threads or whatever

I give up

Thanks stroll

bye

How can u have security in an airport when u don't have security in the world?? The Phillipine government and the Thai goverment are leaving Iraq The only way to stop being insecure is to do what you did to point it out that a bag was left unattended. You expect other people to make u feel secure?? My Opinon is this we must do our part if it just a little. How did you feel when u pointed the bag was left there own it's own??

chok dee

I grew up with some "americans" that hated me Why? Because I didn't have white skin or round eyes a bunch of them wanted to beat me up Funny thing is a black man stopped them They have been persecuted also here is the US. But I forgave them all I didn't hold a grudge and go find them and kill them or beat them up as they almost did to me. Now I have friends that are coming to me to introduce them to an asian girl I have been asking myself Why? I read a very digusting thread well in my opinion about bedding thai women

It's from a man from the US or so he says Am I the only one who finds this digusting? Is that what makes a man how many women he can SHAGG My friends are american also I am going to help them Maybe they can find some happiness. I hope they do. I knew one girl she was Thai Married an american man Thought the world of him I don't know about thai men from thailand at all How they treat the women. I have heard some stories. But back to this Thai girl She was beautiful woman The american man ended up marrying her brought her back to the states Living happily ever after I guess

Until the one day she came to my parent's house Bloody nose and all. He hit her I almost went ballistic but my dad calmed me down. These two men are my friends but i don't know what they do behind close doors. I hope they are not the same. But i'll help them best i can that is why i started this thread. But I got slammed and for what I don't know maybe to make some people happy. I don't live in the LOS I am thinking about it someday I will. I have been questioned about my english also Why? isn't this thread to get people's opinions and then comment on them? I thought it was

Stroll told me that thai people have come here to voice their opinion's on the forum and some were slammed and didn't come back. I know this is an expat forum but all you expats remember were you live

Strange how this thread developed from a question, perhaps not worded in the best possible way, to a bash-the-Debaryman kind of thing.

I think this forum is lucky to have Thais and Thai-Americans to add to the multitude of opinions here.

When I first came to Thailand, I was full of naive questions as well, not because I was trolling, but because I lacked the experience.

It would be interesting to know how Debaryman met his Thai wifes ,though, he must have some knowledge about Thai women and culture?

Stroll I met my wife through a friend of my mother and we wrote to each other and then I flew to thailand to meet her. After I left she started taking english lessons she also had her father that spoke english. He learned from The Americans that were stationed there( udon thani) during the vietnam war She learned better and better we grew to know each other and fell in love I went in 2002 to marry her I hate to say this because I am not a racist Her Father was glad his exact words "I am glad you are thai and not white farang" MyfriendU even he said i was "THAI"

thanks stroll your answer is above sir

thepnakhon

I am Thai Sir Grew up in a Thai Home My Friends are Farang I have told them what i could I guess Myfriendu like to continue to bash people I am not gentelmen scamp If you ask him and I am sure you will He will tell you no that he has not written these posts

I have been a member of this forum for almost a month not a week. But it's ok Not for any longer

Thanks stroll

OK People I do have knowledge and I just wanted to start a thread to get others opinions or experiences I am only one person I have told my two friends about all I can Maybe Just Maybe I thought it would help to see some other experiences? I am not going to Lie I have been writing to stroll and telling him about what is going on I understand this ia an expat forum But if u don't want thai opinion or experiences it should be outright stated. True?

I was denied posting permission for a little while I just read a thread about bedding thai girls and a poll added to it. I was informed when i received my permission back to read the forum guidelines I did I saw on that bedding post Dirty language It says on the guidelines not to use language of this type.

Maybe I am talking to a wall

Thanks

Mother - Angry i didnt marry the American girl I had before because she was

from a very rich family. My mother is a typical money grubbing

black widow - cleans guys out left and right.

Sisters - Very jealous of her because she is so beautiful and kind. Treated

her very coldly.

Brother - Left wondering why he didnt marry a Thai girl... He is on his second

marriage to lady falang and miserable like most here.

Ex-Girlfriends snaring looks - Priceless

Why dosen't this surprise me Many of my friends are asking me now how do i get an asian girl. I see your happy all the time they say to me. I want to be like you. I tell them about the wait for my wife to be approved that shuts them up pretty quick she's been waiting since 2002 to come to the states

Oh and about your Mom's reaction My Grandmothers was the same when my mom came to the states back in 1972 Are you sure about being with her Your gonna get alot of looks my mom told me this when i got older

So your families reaction except for your dad's does not surprise me If you ever get the chance rent oliver stone's movie Heaven and Earth the woman is vietnamese in the movie but same premice about a soldier (Tommy Lee Jones) falling for a asian girl and bringing her back to the states. It's really good movie

Chok dee

sorry bluecat just curious just asking that's all thanks anyway

well i don't know what it's about anymore so be it and whattado i am in the states you ever hear of florida i wish i was in thailand but can't have everything

Thanks to all for the answers and insights and opinions it was nice to post here while i could thanks again

3 years old

When i was in thailand last i went to ask a policeman and my wife did the same isn't there job to help people?

i was just wondering because my dad told me don't bother the police at all. Thanks for the insight

OK I was 3 3 yrs old when i left I do not know anything about thailand but I am stupid to learn about it!! Leave my Mom out of this she is not in the forum I have shown the utmost respect to everyone i have posted to or whatever but u sir have not so that's all i have to say

maybe i should get my head examined  because all i learned was about bargirls  how to com-  never mind  see ya  around  no farang in here gives a ###### about a thai's questioning or opinions

But it was you that started yet another bar lady thread

it's not ok for me to do so? but gentleman scamp can?? THANKS

well, whoever has comments regarding the initial topic, post them, i guess. the thread starter obviously has 83 posts here, so he most likely isn't a troll. but since you (the thread starter) have a thai wife, it may be best if you give your friends your own opinion?

I have given them my own opinion but have you not heard about a 2nd or 3rd opinion?? That's what i come to do but it's ok don't worry your not going to hear from me again

Listen OK this is a Farang forum is it not? so don't worry because i leave it to the FARANGS i came to this forum to learn about thailand maybe i should get my head examined because all i learned was about bargirls how to com- never mind see ya around no farang in here gives a ###### about a thai's questioning or opinions so you don't have to worry about me anymore