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Simon you said Turkey was too cold for your lungs. UK will be worse.

On the other hand a self contained life of an older man doesn't differ that much wherever one is.

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

UK 15 miles to my nearest town, no bus service, 40 quid in a taxi.

Thailand, 12Km to Chiang Mai moat, 20bht on a Songtaw.

 

I'm not sure why you're all bigging up the UK, it was never that great.

Just work and quiet desperation.

Couldn't even go cycling, cos it rained nearly every day and I was only 3Km from the Camel trail.

What time is the last songtaw back? How much does it cost if taking other means?

On 6/22/2025 at 12:33 PM, Celsius said:

She sucks deeper

Yes I can confirm that.

4 hours ago, Jack1988 said:

it's up to these people, i don't care at all. I am the owner of my money and i don't give it to nobody

Have you ever been married?

9 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Unfortunately, I have seen the world from both sides, I have been with a 19 year old long term,, 23 years,  a 25 year old and a 27 year old also fairly long term, 12 years and 6  years., and it seems to me that the effect men have on women is far greater than we realise. I say this, because the 19 year old stayed loyal for 23 years, she had no issues, she did not have to deal with cheating and the like, and her life was blessed and her behaviour was usually on point therefore. However, I also saw the 25  year old Filipina (not the one that's coming, another one), who had 6 previous relationships, and even though it was her propensity for cheating, dishonesty and crazy behaviour that torpedoed all those 6 relationships, she developed greater insecurity and ever crazier behaviour, precisely because of her insecurity that once the men find out who she really is, that they will leave her.

 

So loss, the fear of loss, cheating and the like, even when done by the woman, will take a major toll on her sense of security and thus her ability to conduct herself right in any relationship in the future. And it always gets worse.

 

Even with the Thai girls I noticed that in their very first relationship they were all giving, generous and carefree, but then when they saw their love was wasted, not reciprocated and effectively for nothing, that is when they became harder of heart, less generous, less giving and less feminine.

 

It is absolutely the case that previous relationships have a profound effect on women, and men, but more on women.

 

Of course I am extremely apprehensive about bringing this Filipina virgin to Thailand, particularly as I am still entangled with the Thai Miss Grand, and I am mindful that one or both of the two women, and potentially myself, will come out of this year heartbroken and will have to go through a valley of tears. But you have to be strong enough to survive that, because if you do not, what is the alternative, you act like a monk and have no experiences? Life is to be lived, even if it hurts. You dust yourself off and get on. As Bonaparte said, in war and love, all's fair.

 

However, I am bringing in the Filipina in in good faith, ie I am giving her the chance to show that she can be a life partner. Also because the Thai Miss Grand has some serious behavioural issues.

You clearly know the game and the evolutionary mechanisms at work. By your post you seem to be over 50 with a lot of experience. The young girls you target don't have those benefits do they.

Has any girls SMV (sexual market value) been increased by sleeping with you? Or decreased?  At your age you should have developed more compassion. 

We both know this time next year it will be different girls but the same story.

5 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

10 priors is a lot. It's too much. You have to draw the line at 6 really. Over 7 and you're in for a 50% chance of tear down.

 

 

That's true. You can't tell there's a flu virus in the air either. Until it's too late. Just like a virus, a woman who's had to many sex partners will make you pay. One way or the other. You will regret it.

 

 

Well, take it up with these guys:

 

https://thethaiger.com/news/national/boom-boom-thai-people-ranked-no-1-in-asias-list-of-top-shaggers#google_vignette

 

According to them Thai women are the most promiscuous in Asia. Bear in mind the 10.6 figure, if they did it right, will have taken into account that in rural Thailand the girls have 2 to 3 partners. So the true tally for girls in the city is much higher, than 10.6, as the rural girls will have brought down the average.

 

 

 

Maybe, maybe not. But either way you'd have fond memories of doing a silky 20 year old.

I agree with most of your points. Women tend to be diminished by every man that seduces/lies to them. 7 broken hearts/ disappoints take their toll and they and their future husband pay the price.

So therefore how comfortable are you to be contributing to another humans suffering? Unless your irresistible i imagine your waving a potential committed life time relationship at this Filipina knowing that it won't happen.

Make a real connection with another human being. 

Have a child.

Get a dog.

Volunteer where you can do good.

In short, stop living just for yourself.

Anyone born after 1940 in most western countries are incredibly lucky. Born in a not dysfunctional two patent family more luck. Born to an inheritance coming your way more luck again. Born good looking, again more.

Most don't realise how much their life was dominated by luck.

1 hour ago, frank83628 said:

Since when does someone 'pull' a kooker?

yesterday I entered Tesco and smuggled put a whole salmon under my shirt. The cashier smiled at me as I walked thru. I then proceeded to a hairdressers and seduced a girl into washing my hair and then sweet talked her into cutting it. Leaving we were both happy.

Obviously I paid  both times and got receipts and everything but you know what I mean.

1 minute ago, blaze master said:

 

There always seems to be one turd in the punch bowl.

Be kind. BM2 is a great poster. Constructive criticism is one thing. How does a nasty dig help the world?

Same the world over. Dynamic, attractive girls graduate and go to the big cities to look for work and/or relationship opportunities. The uncompetitive, unambituous or lazy stay where they are.

How long have you been married?

How did you meet the wife?

Look at yourself and her, how much did finances contribute to making it a fair trade?

Even if the answers were good I'd still be suspicious. 

Bkk is fantastic if you're happy spending money. Imagine if everything in bkk was 90% cheaper, I suspect all those claiming to hate the place would be saying how much they loved it.

3 hours ago, Kinnock said:

Photo from last year ..... swimsuit is under the stylish Singha shirt  😃  Still a good 10 after 15 years together .... in my view anyway

 

Looking at my photos from when we first met .... she was a good 11 out of 10.  But she's more than looks alone .... helps run our business and is caring and loving.

yep, you played a great game. 

Finding her, how much was luck and how much was having the right strategy?

What's the age gap btw?

On 5/26/2025 at 10:19 AM, Nick Carter icp said:

 

99 Pence for 125  grams in ASDA UK , could you go and look in 7/11 and check the price there ? 

Fairer comparison is to Lazada. Both do online delivery. Very little difference.

On 5/26/2025 at 11:46 AM, pacovl46 said:

Not really! No one I inow had their salary doubled over the past 20 years! 

Even in the 3rd world UK minimum wage has increased from £5.05 to £12.2 an hour over 20 years. 2.4 times.

13 minutes ago, Lemsta69 said:

 

You're not the smartest kangaroo in the bush are you fella? 

Every single poster who simply asks you a question you attack as stupid.

So why do you live in Thailand then? 

I'll wait for the abuse not an answer.

1 hour ago, Tuco Ramirez said:

Why would I care about a taxi driver?

 

What does he have to offer me in terms of intellectual expansion? and for that matter, what does a bar girl have to offer?

But it's you that started the thread about thais only asking you the same three questions while you ask nothing. And then implying that it says a lot about Thais while ignoring what it says about you.

1 minute ago, Tuco Ramirez said:

Absolutely nothing.

 

I couldn't care less about their life.

So they have a little curiosity about you and you have zero about them and you ask only about their education system!

33 minutes ago, Tuco Ramirez said:

It's the same old spiel, time and time again when one is forced to interact with a local.

 

Is this how they are taught to interact with foreigners when they are at school?

 

 

And what questions do you ask them?