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Exactly, so I replied to the correct post. You are mixing up correlation and causation, please see my earlier reply to you.

Coming out is a choice, we agree on that. I won't speculate about Neeranam, though.

Yes, I agree.

May be, cannot find the post I reply to now. Someone asked how many gay Palestinians were killed by which side, that's what my comment referred to. Anyway, that question is moot.

No. Many young guys (often in their early 20s) give it a try with a guy and later fall in love with a girl instead. It's who you fall in love with that makes you gay or straight. Many a gay man has had sex with a woman. That didn't make them straight.

This is the Gay Forum of AseanNews. Welcome to our group!

Thank you for your contribution.

I guess some people just give up while others persevere. People are different.

No, this topic is about being gay. It's just one aspect of diversity. Otherwise, we would talking about colour of skin, physical or mental disabilities, fashion, and everything. Let's focus instead. This is the gay forum, not the "everything you want to say about diversity" forum.

I agree with what you want to say, but being gay is not a choice you make. You find out at some stage in your life that you are attracted to guys. That's it. You don't decide that.

This is totally unrelated and has nothing to do with the topic of this thread, but please do name one of these countries.

60 years is not too old to fall in love, I can assure you.

No. It means that when you fall in love, you fall in love with a guy. Unexpected fact: Sometimes, you will never have a relationship with that guy, as he does not fancy you. So, dear Nick, no sex. But still gay. Have you ever fallen in love with a girl and not have had a relationship with her? If so, does it mean that you are not straight?

No, it isn't. Someone is gay when he loves men the way you love women. It has absolutely nothing to do with what you do or prefer in bed, or whether you do anything in bed at all. What you said actually is something I have heard from Thai people. This guy always had boyfriends, but he thought he wasn't gay because he was the giver, not the taker. Sorry, but that's not the definition of gay. He loved guys.

This is funny, as you are saying you are not a real man, as you are the textbook example of someone being intolerant. Unlike your brother, you are unbearable. It appears he is much more of a man than you.

Regardless of the answer to that question, none of the gay Palestinians were killed because they were gay. So, this question is moot.

Yes, Nick Carter is obsessed with it.

Yes. Someone is gay when he likes and loves men the same you way apparently like and love women. Will you stop being straight if you don't have a sexual relationship with a woman? How long do you have to have no sex?

Glad to hear that you are speaking for Simon.

No, I am not saying that. You are really obsessed with sex, aren't you?

I used the auto-gates before they were "upgraded". Almost every time I ask whether they have been made accessible again for PR holders, and I am always told "not yet, please wait" without any time frame when they expect it to work again. Since when have the e-gates been opened again for PR holders? When did you use them last?

You put being gay into the same category as liking rubber gimp suits. I am only used to such nonsensical arguments from straight people. Sorry about that.

The brother did not discuss sex, he mentioned a love relationship. Sex is a physical activity that people have with or without love. It is telling that you first think of sex when people talk about relationships. I feel sorry for you.

I think this thread is about love, not "banging". I certainly doubt that the OPs brother told his mother what he does in bed with the person he loves. If you think sex and love is the same, I feel even more sad for your and your family.

There is no reason to keep it secret whether you like men or women. If I am invited with a +1, I bring my husband. It's nobody's business to comment on that, and I don't see any reason to hide it. So sorry for you, my husband is as private as your wife. You show everybody that you are heterosexual, don't you? Everybody announces to the world that they are hetero (if they are). Why did you just plaster all over social media that you are hetero, I wonder.