I was working in England then got ill so am currently forced to stay. Life here is not easy compared to my younger years.
Renting or buying a home is ridiculously expensive, the economy has tanked and in general it's a hard life.
Now thinking about our life in Thailand, we live in her birth village where it's mostly rural. Us and her extended family are all happy most of the time as are the other inhabitants.
When we travel, if we go to Thai holiday locations the same level of general happiness applies.
When we go to Pattaya this doesn't seem to be the case, and considering we used to live in Jomtien up to 8 years ago, we notice. Same in Bangkok.