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he gave in to the silly wife......................lol. wife wears the pants in that familee.

nana plaza and soi cowboy. 2 days of this shutdown and the results are in. Never seen it so bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wow, this thread just drips with cynicism. And I thought I was a sour puss.

A lot of it is just jealousy of the young man from old frats who wish they were him.

or jealousy of the old guy with the young bird who does not take a second look at the poor young boy who could only dream of being with something so lovely just saying

Going by the thousands of old farang/young Thai couples I've seen, most of those men DEFINITELY aren't getting value for the money they're undoubtedly paying.

99% of the time, the women are short, chubby and poorly-dressed with feet like Orks.

im glad you see what i see. I just dont see hi-so thai girls with well to do farangs their own age.

I have no health insurance and recently had to face a fairly hefty hospital bill. I want to get some but not sure what's best. Any advice anyone? I am over sixty, does that make a difference?

OBAMACARE was made to order for guys like you. kind of like buying fire insurance after your house burns down. good luck 2 u.

Why worry this at all? If it is not clear, then it probably is not going to work out the way you wish. By renting (not putting down a large sum of money in the land of schemes) you protect your nest egg. Invest in whatever you like, because it is going make more money than you ever will from the house. Leaving it to the kids upon your death.... Just consider it pawned/sold already. Better to invest and leave them the key to the safe. For the most part, with brokers, 2nd mortgages, lawyers and greedy relatives....a house/property (here) is not a good investment for a farang. It may work in you own country...so how about that?

Renting is worry free, and your assetts are not tied up in a foreign property in a country that is not really worried about you losing it to a Thai National. Rent yourself the home of your dreams...and sniff the freedom. Money in the bank.

There are tons of empty houses up north. My gal's sister owns about 18 homes and 100 rai...none of which can be sold for a fair price....and most have been 2nd mortgaged/or pawned to a China money lender. No paper in hand...lol.

From what I read, many guys get the idea from their wife that they must purchase a "Brand New Home". lol Many brokers and businesses in that area will be cutting in on that deal. Chalk that up to ghosts/you don't love me/ it's for the kids....whatever reason. It comes down to helping out the hood.

1. why dont fellas buy at a great discount these abandoned homes instead of building from square 1?

2. is the market so bad that even thai real estate investor decline these properties. or are the owners so stubborn they rather have NOTHING than something.

first off. there are very few pretty girls in pattaya. if you saw there customers you would know why(not least pattaya is known for cheap everything).

a 30 year old girl with genereal connections? the best she could marry was a 60 year old farang. girl mustbe really real;y unattracative.....lol.

Nice, JLCrab...

If I thought all Thai women were the same, I wouldn't have bothered started this thread. Of course, maybe I just need to be broken and convinced that they are...

The women I've been meeting and/or talking to are between 20 and 30 years old, usually middle class, speak fairly good english, and have gone to university. A couple of them have even split the bill with me, surprisingly.

The ones I've maintained contact with haven't indicated any interest in my money, so I'm giving them a chance. They know I'm a schoolteacher here, so obviously, I'm not sugar daddy material at this time in my life. One or two girls I'd been seeing started asking me to buy them shit, but I quickly cut things off with them.

i claudius, I'm a math and English teacher here. Might stay and progress to University level, might not.

You sound like a very decent young man, so let this old one give you his 2 cents worth on Thai Women. Or Farthing! Or Baht! As this is dependant on where you come from.

Don't believe for a second that Decent Thai Women are not interested in a Farang! That is about as far away from the truth as one can get. Just be careful, if you are in Pattaya, as to what a Decent Thai Girl is? In my book most Thai Girls I met, including Bar Girls, are very decent. Only one or two out of a hundred I did not like much. But just to let you know that that Thai Women who sold you a shirt and tie that day in the shop, might be also the same one on Walking Street, or Beach Road, in a short skirt and selling her wears. There is a lot of good reasons for that, but mostly poor wages in Thailand and need of money. Even for educated women.

My Thai Wife of 5 years has her B.A. in Business Administration and Accounting. Before she met me she worked in the Tax Department and earned about 15,000 Baht a month, which is good wages for Thailand, outside of Bangkok and Pattaya. Her English is better than most because as a Teenager she won a Scholarship as Top Student to go study in Australian for a year. Everything was paid for but besides that this worked in well with her plans. Her younger sister by a year would also be going to University, so if my wife waited a year they could go together and graduate together.

As they did 4 years later! Little Sister is now a Lawyer engaged to a Judge. My Wife's Father owns a large Plot of Land by Thai Standards. He grows Sugar Cain & Rice, but besides this he is a Government Official for many years, and like the Mayor of His Community. My Wife's Uncle is a General in the Police Force, but Retired now. I only met him one time and he only said one thing to us that I recall. He said that if we ever get into any trouble in Thailand, for any reason, to call him for help. I guess there isn't too many Generals in the Thai Police Force. Now on to you!

Good Looks is not what counts the most in this country! Or any Country! Sure it helps to get that easy Lay, and at a discount, or free. But you told us you want to get away from that. So here is how to do that Son!

Above all else be honest! But also know how to put that into words! Be Yourself! What BS Advice is this? I am 59 Years Old and I still don't know who "Myself" is? So how can a younger man like you know that? Just tell them the truth, and like you told us. That in Western Culture we "Butterfly" much earlier then them. Which is true and they will understand this. Don't ever tell any woman from any country that you are looking for a "Serious Relationship"! They won't believe you! And to tell you the truth Son...neither do I.

So what you really want to tell them Son, and in which all will believe, if what you say is true, is that you are just looking for a Friend. Someone to go dancing with, and have dinner together, and enjoy a good conversation. If you don't know dancing then do it anyway and learn. All Women Love to Dance! If some do not believe this than tell them another truth! That for you sex is easy to find. For them to. But a Good Friend is not so easy!

Now ending this post I want to share something more with you, which I don't like posting here, due to negative responses I can expect, but will as I don't care, and what I say is true. I am 59 Years Old, and My Thai Wife 30, but yet I can't tell you what it feels like to have one agreement with my Thai Wife after 5 years. Oh I have seen her angry! But Thank God, or Buddha, it was always someone else. If she had a knife in her hand, I don't doubt she would not use it. But this is nothing to be afraid of! Just something you need to be aware of Thai Women! Okay?

As you know now, my Thai Wife is 30 years younger than me, yet she will not ever let me go anywhere without her! I can go anywhere I want but she wants to come along always, no matter what. Wants to be my Free Caddy, when I go Golfing! Which I won't allow! But what all Thai Women are really afraid of is losing is "Their Man", to someone else. With Your Good Looks, this is a double concern for you Son!

So, when you do find your mate and friend, be prepared to go everywhere with her. If not...then you are not ready yet. I Love going everywhere with My Wife. She is also My Best Friend! Personally, I think I am Old, Fat, and Ugly. Or maybe not so Old, Fat and Ugly! But compared to her I feel this way. Which brings me to the close and the only time I was every angry at my Thai Wife.

I was sitting on the bed looking through some documents when my wife came from shower. Totally naked, and as expected. She was standing in the full length mirror and doing things only women know how to do their. She caught my eye but not in a sexual way. I felt more like looking at a Statue of Venus! A Bum of a 14 Year Old Girl! A body of an 18 Year Old Girl! And a Pretty Thai Face of a 30 Year Old Thai Woman. How Beautiful she looked!

But this silence got broken when she came over to me in tears and discovered that she was "Ugly"! I saw Venus but she saw a totally different picture! That she was not good enough for me. I just wished I had a picture of my first wife, then another 30 years later, on how she looks today, to define "Ugly"!, to my wife. That was the only time I ever got agry at my wife, and made her promise she will never say this again!

My Wife calls me "Huggy" as she knows I do not mind her cold hands on me, in our bed, this time of year, to keep her warm. But the real person I am to her, and we both laugh about, is the Man, with Big Heart, Big Balls, and Small Money.

But there is a lot of wisdom in this Son! "Big Heart" is a loving and caring person. Big Balls is that you are a Man, and not afraid to fight for a better life for you and your family. But not some Drunk Guy I a Bar, trying to impress her! Small Money means you do not have Bill Gates Money. But enough to support you and her, Which every woman in this world really wants from us, and is expected.

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im sure your 30 year old wife doesnt want to lose a 60 year old husband to another 30 year old thai girl. makes sense to me.

are you a native thai speeker?

Best not to speak than to tell them something that they really don't want to hear. No girl or guy likes a butterfly for a bf or gf. Always answer with a question. When they say you are handsome man and must have many girls... Just say " really, you think I am that handsome that many lady want me ?" And smile... Never tell them anything. Also, play a little hard to get and always act like a man not a boy. Never be cheap but don't throw your money around. And best to stay at your own or near education level as you will get bored of the sex and if you are educated you may want to take them to some really nice places that an uneducated girl would not feel comfortable at nor understand. Basically, if you have a college degree maybe a 6th grade educated girl is not your best match. There are however some very smart Thai girls who just never went to school but most still feel out of place when around business people, farang couples or places geared to the more educated. I have had long term relationships and dated many girls, all ages, looks and education levels. Not saying i know it all but this is my advise for what it is worth....

And for god's sakes, BE GENEROUS. SPEND money on them, and don't automatically think of them as gold diggers.

Give things made with your hands. Thai girls appreciate those more-becoz its from the heart.

be different. be the guy who doesnt want to purchase a thai gf.

the truth alwys cums out its 1. be generous or 2, mislead them.

20-30 year old middle class urban thai girls want old farangs to date...............................hahahahahahahahahahahahahahah.................and haha!

Never let a thai lady take full responsibility for major decision

come on. most thai girls are not as stuppit as op wife..............lol. and i mean this sincerely...................lol.

Ok... I'll see you guys back at this thread around 2038 and let you know how things went.

At 51 you'd still be very young.

lets pray he still not teeching english in 2038......lol.

no offenses but its true girls who have no problem dating foreigners are either hookers or have the thought process of hookers. It game really isnt the same as with your home country girls.

You'll find the vast majority of Thai ladies are not hookers, and many who are interested in foreigners are educated professionals who are totally pissed off with the philandering and lies of Thai men, or have spent time overseas and look at things more internationally.

You drank the KOOL-AID man. I can count on one hand the times ive seen a hi-so thai woman with a farang boy.........................lol.

one would think the yellows would consist of suit wearing men, high falutin thai girls and the like but NO they look just like scrubby reds. dirty and smelly all of them...................lol. soon we will be seeing human feces all over the place.

does the side who loses the coming erections shut down bkk again. kind of pointless-now that i think of it.

why doesnt anyone speak the truth. your skilss not needed in thailand......................lol.

im just guessing by the way.

why dont you go the english route- translate financial legal documents for guys marrying isan girls. i always read where guys dont know what they are signing.

by the way they are 50.000 israeli guys that Travelers in thailand evry year.

probably 49,999 of them dont need your services.............lol.

lots of thIas are walking the streets. next up on the socialists agenda!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I too date girls 20-30, but I am in my 50's and I don't have any problem with them. Take it easy Rico Suave, you have many good years ahead of you to fuc_k it all up, don't be in hurry.

ive rarely seen "likes" on girls fb pages of men their daddies age.

im not a middle class urban thai girl but i got to believe that a farang man who is hansum but makes little money is not that great of a catch.

in his 20s and already an english teacher. noone can be this un-Smart.................lol. what a waste of a handsome guy......lol.

Thank you for all of your advice...I thought as much but needed reassurance. My children are presently in the uk at a very good school so would be stupid in the extreme to move them.

Thank you

ya think!

really now. Who brings kids to grow up in thai voluntarily.

Get a new wife.

wholeheartedly agree.................lol. 5th floor no lift..........................hahahahahahahaha!