leither69

I am in pattaya for a few days holiday. It is like a ghost town. I can assure the government. Tourists are not coming to Thailand. Wake up and smell the coffee

Pattaya. Bang na. Rama 2 road. Samut sackon . phetchaburi. Hua hin. Simple journey 3.5 hours

is she a bar girl?

No

WoW.

If you wrote Stupid instead of sensitive i could answer you. Ahahaha. 1st April jokes coming now LoL

Your obviously stupid then?

It seems we have this kind of threads daily - Why cant I help feeling they are constructed to generate debate ???

Game set and match then!!

Watched this last night. Couldn't watch the end. To gruesome. This guy is a murderer and he intended to kill this child. Also someone was standing watching the whole episode!! Words fail me. "Kill him"

I find the Thai friends I have are always willing to share. Usually at a restaurant I end up with a spoonful of this and that from their plates. When visiting me or I visit them I quite often end up with a share of fruit or some vegetables or a Thai sweet that they just got. They must not have read the book of instructions on Thai mentality.

Please remember most of the posters here live in tourist areas and only have experience with sex workers and their associated hangers on.

Very few of us get to live with normal Thai people.

I think the basic problem for the OP is he has mistaken a sex worker for a girlfriend.

She just want's to be paid then get away to do stuff she likes with people she likes.

Many NooBs make the same mistake.

Another Numbskull who hasn't read the posts correctly. I'm passed trying to enlighten people like this!! I don't know how this guy manages to live with the amount of grey matter between his ears

Not attempting to be rude but I believe these "Complaints" are a tad trivial and involving pennies. I actually thought they were a wind up

1 Maybe she though you'd buy your own rain jacket or even buy her one as well

2 perhaps her previous Boyfriends bought her dinner or lunch when they went to a restaurant together and she didn't have to sit there and watch them eat because she didn't have any Money

3 Why didn't you buy something for yourself or get her to get it when she went in the shop or just tell her to give you some of hers

Are these really the kind of condescending "Standards" Western Men are attempting to measure and apply to local ladies ?

Your obviously missing the point and who mentioned standards and an issue with money??. I am talking about behaviours whether they be for significant or trivial matters. People like you flabbergast me with lack of a grasp of written English!! Maybe at this time you've had a few??

Of course each time I have put her straight in no uncertain terms but it appears that the Thai mentality ...

"the Thai mentality"

Based on the behavior of one person you are able to judge the behavior and thinking of 66 million people?

"each time I have put her straight in no uncertain terms "

I guess from this we can reach some conclusions on the farang mentality and we know how all farang behave.

A tad defensive??? I am not saying farangs are perfect. And you knowing how " all the farang behave" will obviously know this but, there are many here with similar experiences which bares out my comments and subsequent questions. Maybe I'm trying to understand more. Give me a break

I think everyone is correct.

She is telling you exactly how she feels.

I'm not sure what you're not seeing.

That's strange !! There are various comments here. Many with differing views. I don't know what your reading. Maybe multiple posts and your confused?

To the OP: What do YOU want out of this relationship/agreement? If your answer is "short-time", get your own candy and raincoat and stop whining. If, on the other hand, you're thinking long-term, then you need to sit down and talk to her about this. Maybe, just maybe, she's not aware of it and you two can sort it out. BUT, she's the way she is and I suspect she's never going to change...

Seeing as you've had so many Thai "girlfriends" in the past, I'm sure you already know what you're going to do next...

Yes I am veering in a general direction but the post was intended to seek out views on other peoples perception of her thought process and thereafter maybe (or not) a reevaluation of my thinking

Do you actualy call a girlfriend, someone who you have a relationship with or some fxxxk puppy

Far from a fxxk puppy I can assure you.

Is she as selfish in the sack?

Actually. Promising would be a better description. She's a school teacher and I'm the first farang she's met ( no bullshit please guys. Stayed here a long time. Not a stupid boy) little experience in it he bedroom.

Because of her background. That's why I hadn't kicked her into touch before. She's solvent so its not a money grabbing issue

My goodness, why would you want to spend more than a few hours in bed with someone like this?

Do you want to grow old with this woman? Do you want this woman by your side when you're ill? When you need help?

It never ceased to amaze me why guys invest anything more than 1500 baht in women like this. Next thing you know, the OP will be having children with her so he'll decide to put up with it and 15 years later he'll be wondering why he's been dumped at the public hospital, with his bank account cleaned out after he's had a debilitating stroke.

I've seen it happen.

Don't think so. To old in the tooth

Handsome!! Someone been sharing my photos???

Why does it not surprise me that so many slackers here on TV are offended by my statement that we should all follow the rules and comply with the immigration laws?

Because they are in a constant state of flux for obvious reasons? Psychophant much? Forgot. DUH.

Maybe in a state of flux due to people over staying. Regardless. No one can justify 10 months with your reasoning. Get real

Not the way I was brought up. Say nowt. Know nowt. Deny there's a god if you have to

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The law is the law is the law!! I generally don't bother with people who overstay 2,3,4,5 weeks. Ok having a ball, I understand. 10 months?? Then asking for help. Knowingly being in the wrong. I don't like. That's abusing the friendliness of subscribers here (most of them) so, although some go over the top with their condemnation. They do have a point. Rant over

I'm sorry, but why would you bother at all about someone being on overstay?

The reason the guy is asking for help/advice is that he doesn't know what to do to rectify his wrong doing, which is why this sub forum exists, to give advice. I also would disagree that by asking the question, he is abusing anyone, in fact, the only abuse that I see is by some posters who think that his actions directly affect them.

I have been here in Thailand for a while now, and to my knowledge have never been affected by the actions of anyone on overstay. On abuse of visas, yes, quite possibly, but not by people overstaying.

I know I'm legit and follow the rules, as I will continue to do. That is my little world that I am happy with. What others do is really up to them. I would also like to add that not everything in this world is black & white, s h I t happens and people do get caught up in it.

Rant over....................

Note: Not a dig directly at you, but at the section of the forum that believe their lives are being changed by people asking advice to attempt to rectify the situation they're in.

No need to apologise. Most People make their own shit, I sort mine out. This guy is looking for a back door in avoiding his responsibilities. End off

Do all thai's sing like canaries as soon as they are nabbed for a crime?? Or are the beaten senseless with a lead pipe until the confess? Yes again in this story, there seems to be immediate admissions of guilt. What happened to the criminal code of "not grassing"

Can live reasonably well on 50,000 bath per month I would think. Get a lady to stay a bit longer defo cuts the costs. Eat thai food and 4/5 beers per night easy street

Horse meat on sale?

I have a triple entry Visa(only first stamp) I need to go in mid July for my first exit. I stay in hua hin, can someone advise on the Kanchanaburi border and who and what I need to do when get there.

Thanks in advance

John