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Of course its worth the stress - don't give him the idea that its not - this thread is hilarious ! Knocked up early on by a local lad - moved to the bars to support the family. She'll want more kids to tie Cam down - and only then release the information that her 'non-bar-girl-bar-girl sisters kids' and not really the non-bar-girl-bar-girl sisters kids but in-fact Phuket Girls Kids... Cam is blind he cannot see this one coming...

She’s told him she owns land. And in a wonderfully transparent act of desperation to legitimise her, he’s upgraded the narrative from “she might be a bar girl” (see earlier quote) to “she’s a major landowner”... (eye roll)... Cam has taken this little turd, polished it, rolled it in glitter, sprayed half a can of deodorant over it - and after all that effort he’s somehow managed to convince himself it’s actually a diamond. The likelihood of her personally owning land is somewhere between minimal and non-existent. The extended family may have some land somewhere - maybe rented out, maybe a patch of farmland, maybe a bit of scrub with no utilities and no real value. As you mentioned, the far more common situation is that the land is tied up with debt anyway. As this saga unfolds, Phuket Girl will keep dropping small tidbits that quietly contradict the previous version of events. Cam will promptly reinterpret them, explain them away, and give the whole thing another enthusiastic buff with the Mr Sheen turd-polisher. Down the rabbit hole of self-delusion he goes. Still, let’s look on the bright side. If this all plays out the usual way, her kids might end up with a nice concrete house out of it. That would be the honourable outcome in all this. Those lovely kids at least get something tangible - courtesy of Papa-Cam’s charitable contributions. A benevolent ending, if nothing else.

She was lying to you ? - Nooooo.. Honourable PhuketGirl lieing - Say it isn't true !!! ... She hasn't stopped lying to you since you met - as the phrase goes "if her lips are moving....." ... But you defend each new lie to the death with a level of belief and gullibility that remains astonishing... She told you her sister is a bar girl - and she doesn't want do do the same. She then told she 'wants' to be a bar girl - changed her story. She told you her sister is bar girl - and gives her money. She has told you so many lies you are lost in her words - ultimately ONLY believing what your ego allows you to beleive. PG is a normal girl, the sister is not a bar girl. As for the kids.. well - thats going to really drop the bomb on you when you do find out the reality. Even early on you realised that PG was a bar girl... You have allowed yourself to pull the wool over your own-eyes.

I don't get you. First I'm adding the MAGA commies to my blocked list, now you. A shame, because usually you have useful things to say, Ta ta. You’re being labelled as “game-playing” simply because he has no sensible, logical or factual argument to counter the clear, well-structured information and historical context you’ve been providing. Some individuals struggle to separate emotion from analysis. They find it difficult to examine their own biases and, as a result, are unable to engage in a calm, thoughtful or intelligent discussion about complex issues. What you’ve been doing - sharing concise, informative context - is exactly what meaningful conversation should be built on.

Is this the 'sister' who's a bar girl, she was living with in Phuket ? ... the 'sister' that she told you didn't actually exist.. (if recall correctly). Now its the sister who she doesn't get one with.

Neither can hitlers grandson - he's packed and ready to move in once you are evicted. Talkin 'bout them lips ?

Possibly. If this bond is not broken, then ours will be. What.. and leave her kids without a father figure ?

Oh I don't know about that - PG was attracted to his cash - others will be too. A salary / retainer - call it what you will, will do that for some women. You mean - just as you were, when she retuned to him ? pretending she'd gone to Sisaket to vote and had dodgy cell coverage and power issues with her phone... And she'll unblock him again - you don't see the repeating pattern ? Just as the promises that she's blocked him are 'encouraging' you.

How do you know it wasn't immigration police that visited the op ?

Oh, how I wish that were true. How I wish. Indeed.... There are the mongers on ThaiFriendly & Tinder, and then Wolfgang bustanut and yourself who've been paying to bump uglies...

Not my cup of tea More like gargling battery acid.. With a face like Neapolitan Mastiff licking the pavement outside a bus-station it was clearly a very tough paper-round... ... and pregnancy took its toll...

Bar girls don't count when checking yerrating ! They'd study you and conclude the polar opposite - you're smack bank in the throes of one with smitten blissful ignorance - subject to your preference for leather or spandex you're a dash away from getting a Harley or Cannondale. It think its wonderful that you can join in with the rest of us and have a good laugh at yourself. Sure.. it sounded great when the flubber-faced-floozy was smashing hitlers nephew and shopping for a good smashing on ThaiFriendly and Tinder.

I'd tend to agree - the use of the term 'upper' tier is to label their socio-educational-economic status - its a qualifier to identify rather than a measurement of character. They wouldn't let you control them and check your phone ? They had options so didn't need to put up with being controlled ? Throughout this thread - you've claimed people who date financially independent women to be fabricating a story - make your mind up. Agreed - socio-educational-economic status is not a measure of character. Neither is judging a woman who is desperate to sleep with a man for money - however, what is bizare is the person who fails at a fundamentally basic level to identify this dynamic. Others might suggest 200 pages too late !!! Yet you made such claims repeatedly...

Don't forget about the kids papa... ... when are you going ? - this is going to be brilliant !!!

To be fair to you, Cam, the things you’re claiming are not inherently unbelievable. It is entirely conceivable that a foreigner in Thailand once worked at a prestigious law firm, or that they were on first-name terms with government ministers and officials. None of that is beyond the realms of possibility. It’s equally conceivable that foreigners here mix with - and date - well-to-do Thais. Plenty of people on this forum do. Thailand is not a feudal kingdom with velvet ropes separating the locals from the foreigners. The point is this: there is a whole spectrum of people on this forum. Different backgrounds, different careers, different social circles. Most people grasp that reality quite easily. The difficulty arises because you seem to compress that spectrum into something oddly selective - as though foreigners dating or marrying people you personally might consider “out of their reach” is simply impossible. But the real reason people are starting to question your story isn’t the claims themselves. It’s the behaviour surrounding them. Throughout this thread you’ve displayed a level of gullibility and lack of judgement that sits rather awkwardly beside the image you’re presenting. People find it difficult to reconcile the idea of someone sufficiently educated to work at a prestigious law firm - someone supposedly comfortable among senior government figures - with someone who repeatedly wanders into situations that appear, to most observers, obviously questionable. That’s the contrast in your narrative. It’s not that your achievements sound too grand. It’s that your decision-making sounds too questionable.

Well... you knocked one out the park there... There's a resemblance thats for sure... don't go having a sly shuftie on us now...

You are concerned that a hippie is getting more attention than you ?... ... why do you even want attention in the first place ?

I can see you put some good thought into that - great effort ! Does your 'criteria' include "must come with inflate to 200psi" instructions tatted in the inside of her lips ? ... or 'potential for barefoot waterskiing excellence'.... or is simply... 'has a pulse and will f... for a salary' ? No one believes you were a lawyer... particularly with Tilleke & Gibbins or similar... or a kickboxing champ !!... On that we agree, for some of them, not the sweeping generalisation that you've applied to all.

His best line in the whole thread? “Varicose Crypt Keeper"... It was pure juvenile retaliation thrown out at those whose partner happens to be of a similar... but, he’s wheeled it out more times than I used “Takoyaki-faced floozy” (and that was overused... To be fair, he was on a roll for a while - sparring properly, trading blows but he struggled with creativity and the nastiness started leaking through. He could have kept it clever... He had more to work with.... “Grim Reaper’s bridesmaid”..... “Carbon-dated cougar”... “Coffin-dodging Karen”, “Taxidermy trash”…

Where's Stiddle Mump when you need him ? - he'll back you up on everything you mentioned above !

Op - did you also make a FaceBook post about this ?

I think a few failures of understanding there - I'll add to it with some assumptions. You are on a Non-Immigration Visa, and it was Immigration Police coming to check your address. That not uncommon outside of Bangkok. The USA-Iranian link - thats just Thai sense of humour - nothing specifically to do with you being American and checking up on you - they're just taking the pish. As far as the earlier call - they're checkup up to see if you were home. As far as requesting your address - they're checking if they have the right number / right person - and carrying on with the usually light hearted and someone juvenile lack of professionalism you might expect from an 'official home visit'... Ultimately - nothing to see here - just them doing their job and nothing more to it. It might feel like an invasion on privacy - for them its checking a box.

Oh no… a man with messy hair bought a plane ticket... National alert.... Bring out those Immigration Smart Cars ! You could’ve offered to help him out financially, though, y'know... Pop a lump of coal up yer jacksie for a few hours and present him with the diamond you’ve heroically produced. That should resolve the humanitarian crisis unfolding at 7-11. While you're at it, draft a formal complaint to the Ministry of Acceptable Facial Hair and Flip-Flop Compliance. I reckon they have a rapid-response unit for un-ironed trousers. The way you tell it, he’s masterminded an international conspiracy - infiltrates Thailand, attends a festival, then commits the unspeakable crime of not pressing his linen. Thats audacity that is... You’d better get down to Khao San Road and sort out those fraudulent gap-year oxygen thieves as well. Teach them how to steam razor-sharp creases into their tie-dye fishermans pants. They’re clearly running a shadow economy of spiritual identity theft somewhere between açaí bowls and tantric massage workshops. You call Mr Beard a “vampire sucking the life-blood of the culture” and an “identity fraudster” - yet somehow miss the irony of flying abroad, living somewhere cheaper, and then gatekeeping who is allowed to look scruffy while doing essentially the same thing. Maybe... just maybe... a man with dreadlocks isn’t a cultural parasite. Maybe he’s just… a man with dreadlocks. If we’re ranking social offences in Chiang Mai, I’m not convinced “creases, dreads and visible sun damage” makes the podium.... But do keep us updated. If you spot someone in Crocs, socks with sandals, or elephant pants, we may need to alert Immigration - back to those smart-cars again - I knew they'd be useful eventually.

Her Milkshake has been bringing the boys to the yard for some time it seems !!!