To me it’s an issue of being a man versus being an adolescent. So you do you.
But if you want to know more about the truth about women, they generally need more stimulation, it takes more time than men for them to reach climax, and it typically involves stimulation of multiple erogenous zones.
Generally, when a woman makes a lot of noise and appears to reach orgasm very quickly, it’s usually because she’s not enjoying it and simply wants it to stop. But don’t take my word for it. Read about it. Many women have written books about it. It’s also been discussed a lot online.