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RawboneFunksta
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No matter how mean, nasty, avaricious and plain bad a hooker may be with 99 out of a 100 guys, there is always one guy who will turn her into the most faithful, loving, loyal pussycat and vice versa.
Generalisations cannot be made about Thai women, except to say a fool and his money . . . . you know the rest and there is always a line of people waiting to help him
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We cannot help but generalise and the negative traits of some people on both sides of the argument are often made larger in the telling.
I used to believe that circumstances determined our destiny; poor people were poor because the rest of the world colluded to keep them poor. However I have learned that the bus stops at the end of the row of slum-houses, all one has to do is board. It's not quite a simple as that but there is truth in it.
I could be rich had I saved more of the money I earned, worked more hours, chosen an education and a career that was better paid. It is often about choices.
I have found many Thai people from Isan to be charming, graceful, warm, fun, smart but also lacking initiative, reflection or dynamism in the work arena.
A farang who knows very little is heaven sent to a poor thai moobahn. I have witnessed farang men being served up to a family in Petchabun province.
A Thai woman married and living in England encouraged her daft husband's 65 yr old friend to travel back to the village with them. He was whisked from the airport to the village by bus and a local girl asked to 'take care him' while he was there. She was told to ask for 1000 baht a day.
Predictably the sap fell in love/lust with her and she was able to milk him for a couple of years . . . . .ultimately he got tired of messages saying, 'I tell you I cannot answer call becos I working in restaurant. You send money yet? Love you!"
It's a cottage industry.
I think what I described is fairly typical unless one gets lucky. My objection is that a pretty innocent soul (even if he is characterised by some as a fat, old farang sex tourist) is taken advantage of by the sewer rats of the village.
The irony is that the people taking advantage imagine themselves smart as a whip for fleecing the ostensibly more sophisticated foreigners. They mistake intelligence for the low cunning they possess.
I am lucky like many I am sure and was well versed in Thai-farang relationships early on, got a little singed emotionally but did not lose my shirt, figuratively speaking, and was the wiser for it. Many are not so lucky.
Conversely I believe there are lots of good women in Thailand who would jump at the chance of financial security and someone who gives more than a shit about them. Finding them is the challenge!
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Almost certainly steroid use, probably test as it's cheap here. As long as there is no over-use, good plan.
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6 hours ago, bkk6060 said:
Your post is interesting but curious you say relationships are not built on: intellilect, conversation, or sex.
So, whats left?
I think they are not built solely on either of those things but they may be part of the deal I guess.
One thing I have learned here is that what the Thais call (in English) 'feeling comfortable' is just as important as Thai people think it is.
We would probably call it 'ease of heart' sabai jai?
The happy state of affairs when two people are not living in each others pockets but love the time they spend together or not necessarily involved in each others business but share precious time together. . . . .sounds a bit corny, I admit.
Not constantly checking on each other but just the right amount of jealousy (very little)
But then, what do I know????
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In my opinion there are beautiful, graceful and generous women in every nation.
As far as conversation goes, there are many who say conversation with a Thai girl is impossible.
I would ask them, when was the last time you had a meta physical conversation with any woman or man for that matter?
Conversations about art, politics or life are limited in all countries because unless the speakers are educated they are not capable.
However, the ability to have a conversation is not what relationships are built on.
An intelligent, well read woman may be a terrible bitch and vice versa.
Sex is easy to find in this beautiful country and I do not mean of the bargirl variety although there is nothing intrinsically wrong with that.
Love is not so easy but one probably has more chance of it once one reaches middle years than in the west.
Older people, especially, it seems, older, white men, are dismissed and denigrated as being 'past it' or 'out of touch' and especially as 'old perverts' as if an older man should just shrivel up and die and certainly should never show interest in sex or love, that's strictly for the young. Yeats wrote this in Sailing to Byzantium, 'this is no country for old men' (I do not mean the movie)
Thailand is the modern day Byzantium??
What's interesting is the ire flung at 'sex-pats' characterised as uneducated, loutish boors. Thai Isan girls too are described in similar ways. They are illiterate and primitive and without sophistication it is said. In which case these two groups of people seem a perfect match but frankly they exist in all countries.
Building a relationship on one's sexual desire and beauty is a fool's errand. I did it for years and always discovered that once the excitement dies, which it always does, there may be little left. Liking someone, that's the key, in my opinion. Liking Thai women is pretty easy once you realise that sabainess is what's important. Ease of heart and being able to be in the same space without having to talk or interact apart from a smile from a doe eyed, gentle hearted woman makes for a long and easy relationship.
Thai women are great eye candy and no matter their age they usually care about their appearance, dress as well as they can afford and have a natural elegance and graciousness about that is unique to Thailand, I think.
Why criticise poor Thai girls and ladyboys with no education? How would we fare in their shoes?
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On 26/03/2017 at 10:18 AM, Destiny1990 said:
when will foreigners speak out about why they prefer dating ladyboys over real girls?
Is it a secret? They probably like them because many are more beautiful than genetic girls and a lot more adventurous and motivated sexually.
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Hazing has always happened. It's just that in the past people did not moan about it and expect the state to 'make it all better'.
That said there ought to be some guidelines.
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All the charges against Trump have zero legitimacy and are clearly the work of liberals who cannot believe they lost!
Soooo sweet . . .
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Trump does not want war . . . he even worked to make a better understanding with Russia. Now if Hillary had won we'd be invading someone already . . .
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This sounds familiar.
Western feminist organisations cite 1 woman in 4 will be raped on US college campi but the 'statistics' have long been proven erroneous.
4000 rapes per year? If many other rapes are unreported, how does anyone know about them? Hogwash!
In the west sexual assault and rape have dropped considerably since 2005 but one constantly hears the media discuss the rape epidemic or rape culture. I wonder how much of this is real and how much conjured to gain charitable endorsements for organisations promoting the lies?
The west is beginning to wake up now and several rape accusers have been convicted as well as college authorities being criticised for simply accepting the word of the accuser.
It is a serious problem that all people would like to see eradicated but making up statistics or blaming all men does not help anyone except the organisations who get government money to 'raise awareness' etc
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On 03/04/2017 at 3:35 PM, Jim walker said:
No sympathy for any man who lifts his hand to a woman let alone one who stabs a woman or a child. No RIP from me.
Yeh, he deserved to die . . . . those bamboo sticks can be painful.
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Actually while it may be and easy bandwagon to jump onto for those with vague belief in the default politics of today (a kind of lukewarm leftist politics of identity ) Fox news is no better or worse than any other channel and at least invites those with opposing views on to the show and gives them an opportunity to share their point of view.
The presenters are also rather attractive and that's no small thing in the feminist gulags of Europe and the USA.
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Bon Voyage, a sad final? episode in the disgraceful saga of Thailand's first female prime minister who has been forced to flee after being set up by the elites.
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I believe there should be a referendum or at least the act of removing statues should be done by elected officials as opposed to a bunch of liberal soft-cocks steeped in Marxism from some shabby university with a minimal grasp on history.
Our colonial past may be a reminder of deeds now considered negatively but we all know the reason for their removal is to appease the left wing agenda and it's tool of political correctness. If you want to see fascism in action, look outside!
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Red Ken Livingstone the then communist mayor of London tried to do the same in Trafalgar Square. He wanted all the statues of Generals who helped build and sustain the British Empire removed and the history eradicated.
Trump's right. the left have brought the inherent violence out into the open by six months of protesting and if anything are much more anti-freedom that conservatives. The KKK etc are nuts and everyone knows it.
Demanding the Pres 'condemns white supremacists is just a ploy by the left wing media who can't name Islamic terrorism when they see it, ironic.
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Seriously, you think the environmental lobbyists are not powerful?
Just consider the censure directed at anyone who disagrees with their agenda . . .Trump was vilified. (again)
It is simply a fact that the Paris Accord will put millions of people out of work and that is a factor that has to be considered as well as the environment.
As the Thais say, and it's a credo worth adopting, Sam Ruam, the middle way.
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He won't resign.
Russian interference is just another red herring cooked up by the liberal elites who cannot believe they lost to such a 'colourful' character.
The republicans oppose him as do the democrats as both want the cold war with Russia to continue indefinitely (excellent business in arms etc)
He is brash, vulgar and does not have a good vocabulary BUT he does poke holes in the media and established norms like political correctness, feminism and Marxism.
That has to be very good for most people.
He does not believe that the best way to stop environmental issues is via the Paris Accord and was brave enough to say so. He wants no part of Merkelism or Macronism or Trudeauism all of whom care nothing for ordinary citizens but serve the liberal elite globalists who seek to import unskilled foreign labour into the west.
Perhaps he is only a catalyst for change and will not be around for long but his daughter will be the first female president of the USA, I wager.
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Some people may not like Trump's tweets but he is certainly revealing an irony in this case.
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This is an interesting topic and one could almost say that the reason we like living here is similar to our preferences for Thai girls? Maybe?
There are beautiful western girls and I have no complaints about previous western girlfriends but perhaps they are harder work than Thai girls when in a relationship?
In 6 years I have had one major argument with my Thai girlfriend whereas that was never the case in the UK. perhaps THAT IS BECAUSE OF GRENG-JAI? Thais don't pursue an argument to it's bitter and lowest end and also stop listening and just 'close down' if their partner is expressing anger or disappointment in them.
The issue is forgotten in due course without it predicating a huge argument. Perhaps that's true for others?
As far as appearance goes, generally speaking even older Thai women remain fairly attractive as usually they stay slim and have nice skin but like the beach cities in Thailand that collect piles of rubbish behind sand dunes there are also plenty of old scrotes whose bodies are covered in horrible tattoos and scars.
Life and women are perhaps easier here . . .
A few western women have asked me about the language barrier, 'don't you get bored not being able to discuss things in depth'? Frankly very few people, never mind western women are capable of having conversations about Art, Philosophy or Politics and even if they are it does not mean one gets on well with them.
Ease of heart is hard to come by and I think we can find it more easily here in Thailand. every morning is made better by riding to work in the sunshine or being woken up by lightness in the sky and a smile returned from a pretty cinnamon coloured girl. Thai people are generally graceful, smiling and gentle as long as they don't lose face . . then, stand well back.
Sex is actually a non-issue here as it is easily found everywhere so men do not have to spend lots of time and energy chasing it. It seems however that some men take time to realise this and still make the mistake of 'pedestalising the pussy' instead of focusing on more profitable pastimes.
Swallowing the 'red pill' is essential for ease of living (sabai jai) . . .love your girl but don't be her sap, dupe, footsoldier or servant. Likewise in your dealings with service providers of all kinds, respect everyone but lose the white guilt.
An old adage levelled at staff of the East India Company was that once a man had lived in the East he was ruined for polite society but I would say it's the making of a man if he is self aware. Thai girls and their general and frequent loveliness is just part of the equation in my humble opinion.
Thailand Rocks even after 7 years . .
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National service is not required of all in Thailand. It's a lottery with a 1 in 5 chance of getting a stint of 2 years in the army but women do not serve at all.
Not one single ladyboy in Thailand tries to assert that she is a woman or that she deserves special treatment.
It's western liberals that are trying to expand the number of genders to include 'whatever one identifies as'
Some of you should try to understand a little more about Thailand and then you would be glad you are not surrounded by whining liberals, feminists, transpeople and Marxists all trying to destroy western culture.
Be glad you are in Thailand
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He's an opinionated, entitled <deleted> who imagines himself a superstar with talent because he has followers on youtube and speaks Thai.
Silly boy.
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I would not allow my daughter to travel anywhere in Thailand alone.
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While it is true that studying abroad makes an enormous difference to the confidence and vocabulary of Thai students that is not necessarily a reflection on the innate intelligence of Thai students. Some learn from television and recently I encountered a person who scored level 9 in an IELTS exam who had done just that. Most native speakers do not score anything near to level 9.
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Anyone who thinks this whole affair is anything more than a complete 'fit up' is two sacks short of a ton.
Some sex workers in Samut Sakhon tested positive for HIV and they still work
in Thailand News
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There was a thread somewhere else where a poster said it is difficult to get HIV from a girl as HIV is a gay man's disease. While this is not strictly true, HIV among straight people has gone down radically since 2005 and is still falling in the west. In contrast it has gone up significantly in gay society.
Still safest to always wear a condom.
I also don't think the narrative of the prostitute's victimhood should be swallowed wholesale. They don't all have families to feed and even if they did it is a choice they make, a gamble for high earnings that may pay off but probably leaves most hookers like battle weary troops after a few years, desensitised.