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mstevens

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  1. 5 hours ago, save the frogs said:

     

    But you can try "reverse psychology".

    Let's say you are an engineer making 150K. Tell them you make 35,000 baht per month.

    And see how they react.

    If they turn you down, they were only ever interested in your money anyway.

     

    I wouldn't get hung up on a woman who wants a man with money.

     

    It's perfectly normal for a woman to want a guy who can provide a decent life for her. And further to that, many of us are proud to be able to take care of our wife and give her a great life. If you truly love her, wouldn't you want your lives to the best they can be?

  2. 2 hours ago, Bangkok Barry said:

     

    I don't understand this statute of limitations nonsense. If a crime has been committed then keep going until a verdict is reached. Why do cases have an expiry date? Suddenly the alleged crime doesn't count anymore? Time's up. Nothing to see here. Move on. Red Bull guy next, only one more charge against him to go before he can arrive back in Thailand with a huge grin on his face., free as a bird after allegedly killing a cop. No court necessary. On your way, son.

     

    It's a fair point you make. But let's not forget that over time memories of events so long ago are forgotten, documents are lost, all of which would make it very hard for someone to defend charges brought against them.

     

    Let's take a totally imaginary situation. The police knock on your door and say you're being arrested and will be charged with statutory rape of a 17-year-old who you met in a bar in 2005 and went on to have sexual relations with. You're going to be wheeled in to court and have to defend yourself in a situation with a person making very serious accusations against you that you simply don't recall. Charge someone in that situation shortly after the event and odds are they'd remember it. Charge them many years later and they might have zero recall and therefore almost zero ability to defend themselves, especially if they had been a voracious bar hound.

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  3. On 5/14/2024 at 12:21 AM, JoeyMac said:

    Phuket, near Patong beach - coming of a motorbike taxi with shopping. As i come off, my bag falls, and a motorcyclist, goes over the bag and falls. Nothing more to it, it was a pure accident, but i believe judging by everyones reaction it was my fault. The driver of bike did get up and seemed fine, but then an ambulance turned up.

     

    It's a concern that an ambulance turned up. That usually costs a good few thousand baht at least....and I expect the OP would be in the gun for that.

  4. On 5/14/2024 at 6:50 AM, kiwikeith said:

    Thai government pays for his deportation, same as NZ government pays to deport thai overstayers 

     

    Actually, this is not right at all, or only half right. In the case of a Thai (or anyone else) being deported from New Zealand, yes, the NZ government pays.

     

    But for foreigners being deported from Thailand, that person must pay for the flights themselves. There have been many cases of foreigners sent to the Immigration Detention Centre who have had to somehow raise money for their air ticket out of Thailand. They are reliant on family or friends. In some cases, they cannot raise the funds are stuck in the system for a long time.

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  5. 2 hours ago, Hammerite said:

    The New Zealanders  I have met,  really dislike being labelled as Kiwis. 

    Does this mean we can call Pakistanis the P word? Or Chinese the C word etc etc . 

    Double standards as usual!!

     

    Most New Zealanders aged 40 or 45 up will be totally fine with being termed a "Kiwi". It's really only the new generation, particularly the wokesters who don't like it as they see it as being an old term from the colonial times.....

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  6. On 5/13/2024 at 5:25 PM, Jonathan Swift said:

    And that's what we don't know. Maybe he just couldn't afford life there any more and this was his only option, but was unable to navigate the legit options. I couldn't afford life in the US any more. Maybe he got bad advice from others, other overstayers. Lord knows, in 10 years I've gotten a lot of bad advice which I knew not to follow. We don't know what his story is, so we shouldn't make assumptions. I feel bad for anyone his age in this predicament, he could end up homeless on the streets on NZ. 

     

    This guy is going to be in for a shock when he gets back to New Zealand. The cost of living here has sky-rocketed over the past 5 years, and that was off a fairly high base. Sadly, New Zealand has a bad combination of a high coast of living and comparatively low salaries (about 25% lower than Australia, for example). He will be able to get some government assistance but it probably won't be enough to lead anything more than the most basic existence. Even getting a place of his own might be difficult and he could end up in a boarding house, and those places are, to be frank, a nightmare.

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  7. I think Thai banks are basically safe. Not as safe as a bank would be in Australia, but pretty close.

     

    My worry would be if anyone you know in Thailand was aware you had that amount in the bank. That's a huge amount of money. Some unscrupulous folks could devise a plan to part that money from you. Very unlikely, of course, but not beyond the realms of possibility.

     

    I know this is not what you asked about but for me personally, if I had anywhere near that amount of money in my Thailand bank account I would not let anyone know about it.

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