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I'd a similar story happened to me in Issan, if the story is fishy as it sounds, my ex-wife got less money to spend monthly on absolutely no useful activities, due to temporary financial shortcoming's occurrence. Didn't take that long, before a plan was set in motion, to get rid of me long time, with the help of her brother, I felt something was up, unusual behavior, such as discontinued shopping for groceries, main pipe water cut off, going away for days, snakes and poisonous/painful crêpy crawling creatures in my bedroom when woke up in the morning, for a sample, anyhow the primary plan was to dump my body in a prepared tin dry grass/wood in our dry deep well and lit it - as you see, did not succeed as I become aware of the plot, due small talk CCTV monitor installed, they would drain my visa deposit account, and sell the house, for a better future living, her sister was also involved I found out later - took preempted countermeasures, and solved the problem permanently - happened 5 years ago 

3 hours ago, Artisi said:

As this is Thailand, most would be more interested in reducing the external heat gain via the walls. 

cavity wall insulation may be likened to turning a house into a big thermos flask - if you do decide to have cavity wall insulation installed and start to experience condensation, damp or mould 

4 minutes ago, Artisi said:

Leave open, heat passing the first wall will rise up and exit into the roof space 

15 minutes ago, sometimewoodworker said:

Have you tried taking off that easily removed paper sticker?  I have to use a heat gun. But the paper sticker will be far too light to be worth using to balance the blade.

 

Though my fans have small metal weights with double sided tape that are supplied to use to balance them.

my previews wool insulation has become dust - now on  

I just simply drilled 20 holes high up on the wall for air outlet 

11 hours ago, KittenKong said:

I wonder how that can work to prevent the build-up of cruddy black mould on the cage fan? My unit needs that mould removing every 4 months or so, and if it isn't done the thing just stops working completely.

 

But maybe your unit is not in use 24/7 like mine is. Units that are only used for a few hours a day probably dont get that mould build-up.

 condenser fins are black and unclogged - non-restriction at all of my air intake, cover and air filter are gone

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On ‎7‎/‎17‎/‎2019 at 10:00 AM, CharlieH said:

Mitsubishi for nearly 10 yrs no issues, regularly serviced, gecko did fry one connection but other than that, faultless. Samsung in another area and that has also proved very good with only one minor issue in 6 years.

My Samsung AC bedroom unit has never been cleaned manually in 5 years - only self-cleaning option has been activated frequently  

Absent is front cover and filler - electric usage on the unit is down 25  percent and always a cool room compared with previous experience   

Unit height 100 cm - will do a blow cleaning this year

I’ve seem a farang wife at IO who tried to cancel his extension, she talked a lot of BS, and the officer seem to be enthusiastic and had a stern face look, I was gone before the result

24 minutes ago, heybuz said:

if you go to court the judge will send both of you to the negioation room to work it out, if not he will make a decision.spoken from experience.

 

Sounds great, thanks

No, but yes, they have a property with Swedish farang who husband bough here 10 years ago close me, 100 meters away, also talked with her on Facebook, and also a female lawyer have my case now….She change her mind twice

7 hours ago, thailand49 said:

It would be very interesting if you can continue to post your situation. As you know I and a number of posters have a much more different view of the Thai legal system it doesn't mean I or anyone wish you the worse regardless of the negative views towards the system. This is why in my own situation I've done completely the opposite. Although not the divorce I've had to use the Thai legal system here and know regardless of the law which seems to be in your favor as stated every case is different although it might seem similar.

Continue to post?  Good luck!

Hopefully final update, seems to end peacefully

Got an positive indication hint after my post, from a friend,

and her profile picture changed to a blank

She also accepted my friend request, also sent a thump up, and her brother ask for asked for friend request, and my friend called me and says, she is ready to talk, when to sell matters  

9 minutes ago, starky said:

link  https://www.thethailandlife.com/whats-behind-a-thai-smile

5 hours ago, musiclover said:

 

Ok....1.You are married legally (not village stuff)

.         2. Your wife died intestate.....no will

.        3. You paid for the house which is in your wife's name,. And I assume and hope you have some evidence of this. I also assume (perhaps mistakenly) that your wife did not possess the funds to purchase the house herself..

 

So......you have the right to 50% of all assets plus a share of the other 50% to be divided equally between you and others lawful heirs (2?)

 

This is Thai probate law and it is of no relevance if you are Thai or a foreigner as long as you are legal spouse.

  

Thai law is clear on this matter and is even obtainable in English!!!!

 

The family and others swarming around is normal I'm afraid but other than the rightful and legal heirs, they have no rights whatsoever..

 

I have personally been there and experienced all this....

 

Know your rights....get a lawyer to deal with the matter and make sure the lawyer KNOWS that you know your rights as legal spouse!!!

Thanks a lot, posted your legal advice on her Face book Timeline Page, and also sent her a message, which was seen so, but not yet acted on, she has to make a decision,  

51 minutes ago, Oxx said:

 

The question was whether you married her legally.

 

That is, if in the case of Thailand, registered at the local amphur - not a village or local temple ceremony.  It makes a big difference.

 

Yes, legally, still have the official original certificate, also found out thru a friend the woman which is the cause of this matter, current face book account, and her present real name

Married her 35 years ago, her maiden name, no will, no and no

57 minutes ago, Scouse123 said:

Sir,

 

You are asking for advice and opinions but not answering TV members when they ask you questions.

 

All those years ago whose house was it?........................ Was it given to you or to your wife?................. Was it her parents' house?......... How did the house come to be 25 years ago?

NO, I bought that with cash with my personal money

My former wife child male-person, fully agree with me too sell the property, he also have a committed buyer who live in Sweden, which is a Thai female women, he was here just now, with his wife, only an update  

4 hours ago, Scouse123 said:

 

 

They could only do this if you were not strong enough to stop it. That means....you allowed it to happen.

 

I have said on this board time and time again, Thais, especially in rural areas with poor education, will push it slowly and slowly until they remove you from everything and take over. It is not done in a confrontational or aggressive way, it's gradual.

 

You have to stop it straight away before it starts and once they know it is in ' tablets of stone ' and they are not going to get anything, they skulk off into the distance.

The house is a Thai style type, as in gated moobaans, and in a urban area, bought that as completed build up house, and yes I throw all out after one week here, also I did reside in Bangkok earlier in 3 other houses which we bought during the time there  

I just want add, after the funeral rites, her relatives and friends came in droves, most of them I never seen before, completely took over the day to day routine, I had no say at all, cut down a couple of trees, and make a complete mess on the property

Asking for money constantly, all kind off lies was thrown at me…

7 minutes ago, Media1 said:

Problem.if you did not build the home and have the invoices. You will be dead in the water.

Unfortunately you can try but the odds are against you. If you built it and paid take them to court and give them a letter of proposal from a lawyer. You want money for the house right. Nothing's free. They want to keep it free. 

Yeah, I’ll take the woman to court, if not resolved mutually this month in some way

2 minutes ago, Media1 said:

No and No

If I just leave, then the house will be complete or almost destroyed within 6 months, is now in farang condition, most say, very good condition and tropical garden done by me alone

11 minutes ago, 473geo said:

Unwanted maybe.........by whom?

me

8 minutes ago, 473geo said:

Interesting thread, ignoring all the bitterness, gloom merchants, and those that apparently are almost ready to jump off a cliff at the thought of a Thai woman seeking their affection......

 

Do you really need to sell, is it possible to mortgage the property to provide funding for you to move on and the children make the payments to retain the same?

Mortgage the property is impossible and unwanted