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2 minutes ago, Peterw42 said:

OP, have you ever stopped to think that the conservatively dressed, not much make up, girl on the BTS is a bargirl on her day off, and the sexy girl getting off the train at asoke is a bank worker meeting some friends for a night out.

 

I've been out with many girls who looked like whores who weren't whores.  But I've never met or been out with a whore (on her day off) who didn't look like a whore.

We have a similar show in the UK called something like 'the only way is essex'.

It's not just Thai bar girls that does this, I understand that.  But with Thai bar girls it does seem to be close to 100% of them that wear those ultra-short skirts and have tattoos.

Even in these TV programmes where there is some sort of correlation, they don't all have the same distinguishing features.  Some of them look relatively normal.

5 minutes ago, starky said:

Did you ever consider they look like prostitutes because they are?

But what comes first?  Looking like a prostitute or being a prostitute?

5 minutes ago, Kadilo said:

If you don't drink, go in bars, (but know everything about how they look etc ) why would you care about the inner workings of a bar girl's brain. It's a genuine question. 

And one I'm happy to answer.  I like to understand everything about the world around me.  It interests me what goes on inside the heads of other people.  Particularly if they think markedly different to how I think.

Maybe other people don't think too much so it's hard to understand why somebody would care about something that doesn't concern them, it's easier to label them a troll than consider the question as it's posed.

6 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

If you don't, it sort of beggars the question how you come up with this rather unoriginal subject matter on how bar girls look the same, no?

 

Are you suggesting the only way to know what bar girls look like is to go to bars?  That's a pretty dim comment.

One of the busiest intersections in Bangkok runs right past Soi Cowboy, you would need to be visually deficient not to notice them and therefore notice a pattern.  You can watch all the girls getting off at Nana BTS and Asoke BTS  early evening but surprisingly all the ones dressed like that never get off at any of the other BTS stations at the same time.

Lots of news reports, photos, anecdotes etc of bar girls working and not working on the internet, TV, and pretty much every other communication medium.  I've met plenty of girls who openly say they work or have worked in a bar.  They all look and dress the same.  It isn't a coincidence.

And of course, lots of guys dragging their bar girl around.  I know, I know, I'm assuming she's a whore.  But 95% of times she is.

Just now, Kadilo said:

Bring back Thai Ron......least he was amusing (some of the time )

The thread does not exist to amuse you, it's a genuine question about the inner workings of a bar girl's brain.  If you don't have any theory, why bother wasting your time commenting.

I don't go to bars.  Any kind of bars, pubs or clubs.  I don't drink.

We've covered that already, they look shit because they can't get it without paying for it.  Then you told me off for talking about punters.  Remember?

Anything constructive to add Nanleaw?  What's your theory on why they all look the same?  Sheep mentality?  Or do you disagree?

3 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

No you didn't take my point, it was a stupid generalization like you did.

But most bar girls do look the same.  Most tourists don't have beer guts and wear a wifebeater.

Just now, NanLaew said:

What's "not great foruming" is posting yet another thread of one's own rather poor opinion on bar girls.

 

At least you could have posted it in Farang Pub where it ultimately belongs, no?

I don't think repetition is bad foruming, and anyway, mine is better.

No it belongs in general.  I don't like pubs.

1 minute ago, Peterw42 said:

I suppose the customers are ultimately dictating the bargirl look as they like the look and take them home. They dress the way that gets business.

But do they like it?  Really?  I think most of them look <deleted> stupid.

1 minute ago, Kadilo said:

You can be who you like sir......someone who is "hardly an expert" then goes onto to stereotype Bar Girls for a response is a troll. 

I just can't fathom why or how you have come to that conclusion.

Just now, NanLaew said:

So your 'theory' was based on what now?

Having sex with bar girls?

Just now, Kadilo said:

No thanks. It's just another trollalong 

Refusing to read threads before commenting on them and then calling the poster a troll when he points out your mistake.  It's not great foruming sir, I'll be frank.

Just now, NanLaew said:

And thus the real thrust of the OP is revealed... Thai hookers and their sad punters.

 

twas ever thus.

The OP was and continues to be about bar girls.  I have no current interest in talking about the people who have sex with them, that's not what the topic is about.  If somebody else mentions punters, as they did, I'll reply to it if it's relevant.

7 minutes ago, Kadilo said:

You're "hardly an expert" but know so much. Strange. 

I don't know, it's a theory like I said, read it properly.

5 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

...except the ones working in bars.

 

Right, so like I said, most girls in Isaan do not look like bar girls.

3 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

Why do most of the tourist have a beer gut, wear wife beaters, shorts and flip flops?

Well they don't.  Most of the tourists go down south and are 25 years old or families.  But anyway I take your point.  Most of the type of tourists you talk about are forced to come here to get sex/a girlfriend because of the beer gut and their general appearance, no?

But if you go to Isaan, most girls do not look like bar girls.  So it's not an Isaan thing.

At some point they clearly all think to themselves, I'm going to cake myself in makeup, bleach my hair, get 5 tattoos, maybe a piercing or two and some surgery if I need it.

I'm interested why and when this thought process happens?  Before or after they start working in a bar?  Why do they want to look exactly the same as all the others?  Do they not realise when they are walking around the street in the daytime, they look like a prostitute and most people are thinking that they look like a prostitute?  Or do they realise but not care?  Why the short skirts that only cover a third of their bum cheeks (when they are not working)?  I know Thailand is hot but they're not doing it to get extra ventilation.  Do they only own these sort of clothes i.e. they buy so many for work and don't spend any money on normal clothes?

Has anybody ever met a genuinely pretty bar girl (without the makeup)?  I'm hardly an expert but it's my theory that most of the genuinely pretty girls selling themselves seem to be doing it online as a freelance prostitute, or in a more discreet roundabout 'dating' way where they procure a salary from guys who they simply <deleted> once in a while.

Since nobody mentioned it yet.  What about the heat.  When I was at school, productivity in the summer on hot days was notably down, because it was just too hot to concentrate and you got tired much easier.  Thais may be more used to the heat, but they sure aren't immune to it.

Hello post office connoisseurs.  I've discovered a little post office (an actual post office not a mailbox shop) very close to Onnut BTS, or at least much closer than Seacon and Phra Khanong if you stay anywhere further up Onnut Road than Big C...

Onnut soi 28.  A quiet dead end soi which seems a strange place for a post office.

Early closing times - 4.30pm on weekdays.

24 minutes ago, BobbyL said:

I find that highly confusing unless your children also hold a foreign passport. 

 

If you refer to freedom in their own country, highly debatable depending on their upbringing and family. 

Thais are more free in many senses.  They are not subject to such rigorous enforcement of (often petty) laws.  They are free to do what they like without having a CCTV camera peering over their shoulder every 10 metres like in the UK.  The UK is a bureaucratic open prison.