SenorJorge

Just stay out of thailand.

Its the worst <deleted> country in the world.

Scam country run by criminal gangs

17 minutes ago, andy72 said:

without a cancer diagnosis some doctors may be reluctant to perform such a surgical procedure

i think you can talk to this Singapore hospital online

https://www.mountelizabeth.com.sg/cost-financing/estimated-bill-size/prostatectomy

I am aware and I agree.  I know that many Asian hospitals are more considering of TURPS and prostatectomies in the west.  The recent studies they did supported turp and or prostatectomy as a good last restort option for people who have tried litereally everything else....  anyway I am sure I can find someoen in India, the important thing is that they do NERVE SPARING... this is critical for me.  Ive done all treatment modalities... I cant stay like this... Its either urinary diversion or prostatectomy.. Im not emptying.

Hi,

I am looking to have a radical nerve sparing prostatectomy for treatment-resistant alternating non-bacterial/bacterial prostatatis that has gone on for 10 months now with no treatment success in sight... I just want to be able to empty my bladder again and stop cathing myself so much... If I decide to have sex later I will get the implant done.  Studies say this is successful...

anyway.. any good prostatectomy docs in japan?

Singapore?

Taiwan?

China?

India   ----- if they can bill tricare that would be wonderful if not i can submit my own claim.  Thanks guys I just DONT WANT THI SSURGERY IN THAILAND - I hate the thai medical system.... Didnt know where else to put this.  I am looking to retire in Cambodia in the next 2 years or so.. on a nonrelated side note.. THANKS

2 hours ago, Chelseafan said:

She didn't ask for Sinsod. It was voluntary on my part.

I might decide not to register the wedding though..food for thought.

 

 

You would only be doing what most thai men do anyway.  No cultural traditions really lost.

13 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

You do know that you don't have to pay sin sod, rings, venue, photographer or flowers, don't you?

You can just pay for a big <deleted> up at her parent's place. If you do give sin sod make sure you get it back after and just for show.

On 9/27/2019 at 1:20 AM, Bonobojt said:

Got back from Thailand and got my MRI letter, diagnosed with prostatitis. But the urologist I saw didn’t offer anything Other than supplements to help with symptoms, said it’s a complicated problem, no way of knowing what’s causing it, he said prostate fluid test is unreliable. other men have told me to try the Microgen test, but it’s very expensive and I don’t think it’s worth it. Thailand/Thai girl done this to me too but I’m 28, I can’t give up sex just yet, it’s one of the only enjoyments in my life. But yes condoms are very important. Might try to find the best urologist in the UK but other than that it looks like I’m never going to have a normal quality of life again. 

I havent completely given up its just that I feel like I want to every day.

Ive noticed that when i COMBINE these drugs/therapies together I am about 30-40% better:

3600 GABAPENTIN daily

100 MG LUVOX daily

100 MG MYONAL 2-3x daily PRN

1 Gram ACETAMINOPHEN PRN

10 MG UROXATRAL daily

800 MG IBUPROFEN 3x daily

CIALIS 5m once daily for straining

NIGHTTIME 30mg Temazepam nightly (loosens up all the of the muscles that cause me problems at night)

QUERCETIN 2 capsules daily

Bee pollen extract 3 capsules 3x daily

Daily walking

Daily muscle releases with the Therawand

Sitz baths 4 x per day

1 hour deep paradoxical relaxation daily

The problem is finding the time to do all of that and finding a doctor to perscribe all that <deleted> here in the states.  I end up waiting for drugs to come in the mail from overseas because docs are like "you take too many meds already"

I can sort of live a little bit.  The problem I usually have is getting ALL OF THOSE MEDICINES TOGETHER at one time and finding time for all the therapies.  Like right now I ran out of gabapentin and i had to stop doing the therawand because my hemhorroids are acting up so bad.  So like, I am in a flare, and theres not much I can do about it.

I am going back to Shoskes in November to get some botox shots into my muscles and my urethral spinchter.

I wantted to tell you something important Bono.  Oh yes.  You need to buy the book A headache in the pelvis, buy a therawand, and watch this youtube video (instructional NSFW):

The therawand really does give you relief that you FEEL instantly... Then I usually do paraxical relaxation and take my temazepam and go to sleep.

Finally dude, get a regular prostate fluid culture dude.  If you cant find a doc locally to do the prostate massage you can literally read how to do a massage yourself online, massage your own prostate, and IMMEADIATELY SUBMIT a urine sample upon completion.  You dont even need to tell them you did this you will just get the added benefit of having prostatic fluid in your urine sample so you will know if you have any infections system-wide.

Anyway, I may go to live in Cambodia if this flare ever stops and the docs get things in order.  I am able to masturbate maybe 1 x per week still.  Maybe I could manage sex again I dont know.  Sex has gotten to be of very little importance in my life.  But you want to get your <deleted> under control now so you dont end up as bad as i am

Anyway it looks like my entire genitourinary system is totally and completely shot and I will never travel again or even have sex again.  It's over.

Use condoms and take care of your urinary tract folks.  My wife did this to me but it could be anybody.  Remember me as an example.

That's it for thailand and anything to do with southeast Asia for me.  Goodbye.

20 hours ago, CharlieH said:

I have witnessed  some of the things you claim "NEVER" happen. They do ! and as with most relationships, its up to the two involved. Its very easy to sit in judgement and neither fair nor realistic to do so.

Its their choice and their decision how they wish to celebrate their day.

 

Personally I didnt, and wouldnt, but that was my choice and decision.

That's a few and not the cultural norm.

I am going to judge a bar girl who lies about her past as a bar girl, tells a man she's never been married, has three kids with two previous unregistered husbands with a grandmother she hasn't talked to in three years, and then goes and asks a farang for sinsod.  You know exactly what kind of hustler I am talking about.  And yes that is a real example

The very fact that these girls ask for sinsod after they've been married before in village weddings shows what a deep scam foreigner+thai relationships usually are. Imagine how the Thais are all grinning and laughing at the stupid Briton laying all the money out on the plate when it was just done two or three years ago. Thais NEVER pay sinsod for divorcees, women's with kids, prostitutes, girls regarded as "loose women" in the community.  But I see farang paying big sinsod for these girls.  They tried to get me on this and eventually I put my foot down and said no, I can't afford it anyway.  And few of us really can the way they're making us hold so much in the bank.  Anyway, if you do get married in thailand, my advice is not to register the damned thing.

24 minutes ago, Odin Norway said:

So how are you grading a marrige where you come from then? No need to hand in any papers or anything.We are married and that is that.What is all the paper talk about. Seriously.......

The main purpose of registering marriages is to protect women and children from abuse I think.

There are huge benefits to men especially by not registering them though.

Just don't register it.  You're right, time will tell.  Treat her right and expect the same in return.  Good luck bro

My condolences.

So, chelseafan, are you registering this?

In all seriousness, I wish you all of the absolute best.  At least she told you about her prior marriage.  This is a common theme with these girls.  A marriage with a Thai man doesnt go well so they lose face.  Maybe more than once.  And then they turn to the farang, often with more money anyway.

They're not all bad girls.  Sometimes it really was the Thai guy's fault.  But ehh... The chances.  But they can learn from their past mistakes too.  Everyone is capable of learning, I think

Hi,

I was just trying to see who on here actually did this in a farang-thai relationship.  If you did this and you are in a thai-thai wedding you can respond too.

How does your wife treat you?  Are they any different tha with registered marriages?  I was thinking since you can almost walk out at any time they may be a bit more docile.

What say you, tv?

Whatever you do ignore the medical advice from punters here and follow the advice of your doctors.  Syphilis is relatively easy to treat caught early.  Thailand is getting incredibly dangerous with std.

Was it ever uncovered if the guy she was shagging was thai or farang?

More times than not he's thai.  And the farang never sees it coming.  Why wouldn't she cheat with someone from her own culture?

I've come to the firm conclusion that Thais just don't do monogamy.  Their own marriages go unregistered for ease of getting out of them for that very reason.  My advice to anyone married to a that woman is you do have every right to be suspicious and snooping.  Because chances are she is having an affair and she is suspicious and snooping on you!   I am on EVERY thai forum about Thais marrying farang.  She's got my photos up and all the gossip and <deleted> is up there to stay.  Thai police looking at my mugs and everything.  Sounds like you lost more than I did (but have a better potential to get it back - I'm retired).  Good luck

It almost sounds like the sister is trying to get a "free" house out of you. Unless you can somehow move the house thats already built over a little.  If not, you need to build another one for you and your wife.  It almost sounds too convenient.  I am starting to become of the strong opinion that foreigners should not build houses or legally marry in Thailand.  Buddha village weddings are enough for them, and should be enough for us.  I agree, if you get squeezed out of there, I would consider moving a few hours away.  Whenever they ask for money, remind them that they threw you out of the house you built, and to have a nice life.

I saw some Chinese in Hua Hin but it wasnt flooded with them either.

I saw a lot of local Thais going to the beach.

11 hours ago, DannyCarlton said:

Not boyfriend. Customer, mark, sponsor but not boyfriend.

And when you marry them you are a permanent customer rest assured.

7 hours ago, lensta said:

My question is "How did you get a divorce after only being separated for 5 months"?

The minimum separation time before you can get a divorce in Thailand is 12 months.

I thought both people can turn up at the amphur and divorce if they both agree inside of a year?

The year is for abandonment, I thought.

Three for separation but at fault trial case.