
SenorJorge
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The difference between thailand and Philippines is negligible aside from more American and European influence over there and religion. The main thing you notice over there is its simply not as safe as thailand. The girls are the same if you date the same kind of girls you dated in thailand. After all I've been through I just can't trust anyone. Especially anyone who stands to gain substantially out of a relationship with a westerner. I prefer women in their mid thirties or over who are independent and self sufficient. And even then marriage is not an option with me. After two divorces, I can't risk it anymore.
Another thing, op. You said that you divorced your last wife because she cheated? You do understand that most bar girls have no concept whatsoever of fidelity right?
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Listen to what you are saying. You have already been shafted by Thai girls. You JUST got a divorce a few months ago.
You are looking for a long term relationship with another Thai.. a BAR GIRL.
Are you out to punish yourself or what is the deal man? You've been around a long time, you're no dummie. it just doesn't make sense. You're lonely right now and realised another little tramp with the right set of curves has caught your eye.
The reason I sound so harsh is probably because I am was in your shoes not too long ago and I made the wrong choice. Fresh out of a divorce with a Wan chai bar girl, I hooked up with a Pattaya bar girl, decided I was going to "tame" this one... Holy <deleted>. When will guys ever learn? Men like you and I who have been around SE asia for a long time have no excuse.
Just say no man.
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Where are you going to in five years?
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1 hour ago, sunnyboy2018 said:
What is golis?
A goli is basically bhang that is eaten. Its a small confectionery with spices and a large amount of cannabis. Many Indians literally eaten dozens a day. They're so cheap and readily available that its maddening. In India, government bhang shops = TAXED = OKAY. Guy on the corner =/= NOT TAXED = HUGE TROUBLE. Also basically police have the tendency to make up their own rules as they go along. If you do partake in bhang as a foreigner in India probably the best practice is to consume it in the shop and not travel around with anything on you. Police are always on the prowl for bribes in India and best avoided.
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On 8/18/2019 at 11:45 PM, thaibeachlovers said:
Isn't it a bitch when you realise that getting married was a mistake? I had a good life in LOS that could have continued till my end, and blew it for one good year with a Thai woman ( and that year was before we actually signed the document ).
Bad marriage with a western woman, bad marriage with a Thai- never again.
I don't think loneliness gets easier- we just develop strategies not to think about it.
Loneliness makes me sad, and when it gets too much...…………….
So you cannot go back due to your previous marriage? Sometimes a relationship can be so bad that you won't return to a place. Memories are too strong.
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13 minutes ago, Mac98 said:
In America I'm considered poor. In Thailand you can pretend that you are not poor. At home I would never have the following:
--A one-bedroom ocean-view condo with a very nice pool.
--My personal driver. (OK, he's a taxi driver's son but he will wait hours for me at the hospital or Tukcom, then stop off at a Thai market or 7-Eleven on the way back and help me carry things to my room.)
--A body servant, like the Roman emperors. (Clarification: a pretty lady who visits every five days (sometimes bringing gifts of fruit) to shower me and tend (a tedious process) my wounds, then mop and tidy up, all for $15. That alone in a month would run more than my entire SS check in the USA.)
--Four other far too lovely Thai girls who watch out for me and offer time, effort, care, and even money if needed. (They know of each other and some have met.)
--A landlady who sometimes makes ME happy when I pay the rent.
--The freedom of not owning a car (payments, depreciation, insurance, taxes, fees, maintenance, repairs, fuel, parking) without having to live in a city you can't afford in order to do so.
--Freedom of choice. Just having the choice to go out and get up to no good makes it liberating even if you stay home and fall asleep early.
Sounds great. Where did you find all of the baht for your retirement visa?
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4 hours ago, Puchaiyank said:The Thai apologists must be getting nervous...one of these touchy feeley "Thailand is the most wonder place on earth" posts...about once per week now...
Let's be honest...it is the readily available poon tang that keep expats coming and staying in Thailand...accepting oppressive and personally intrusive immigration policies...
Take away the ladies...there would be a mass exodus...IMHO ????
Its the damned truth.
Its about the girls.
Meh. Thailand can keep its girls. Theyre not worth it ????
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2 hours ago, madmen said:Love it and EXTREMELY happy the low class desperately poor farang are being pushed in to Cambodia. At least from now on if a farang engages in conversation it won't be begging for 500 baht :-))))
I'm low class and desperately poor but they pushed me into India. ????
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12 hours ago, mike787 said:
Very normal Thai female behavior...absolutely normal.
Shes allowed to have her gik.. But if he has his, he is immolated. Yes, typical Thai female behavior
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2 hours ago, RoadWarrior371 said:
Seems like you are easily fooled, or a poor judge of women. A lot of folks do not have the same experience as yours, but it is a shame that some do.
This is my second go around with marriage with SE asian women, too. At this point I've just had it with marriage. I was doing just fine until I had to go and get married again. Loneliness gets easier with the passing of time.
I think I've said before, but I met a girl on the street, who said that she worked at a factory. She did work at a factory. However, getting to know a Thai woman is like peeling an onion. I found out about a lot of other nasty stuff when I had already invested a lot and actually committed to helping her. You can never help these kinds of girls.
i have no desire whatsoever to marry again, especially anyone from SE Asia. i am just fine getting on by myself, thank you.
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I started stapling these to my passport pages.
Only in Thailand would they give you a 2"x2" document and tell you to hang onto it until you leave the country.
Make sure he's up to date on his TM30s when he leaves Thailand. That will give them one less reason to complain
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No. Cannabis oil is not really new, its just coming into the mainstream because of the new laws all over. Cannabis oil is seriously potent stuff. its just a different way to use cannabis. It doesn't need to be smoked, or cooked into anything, and its ready to be ingested.
The best oil around is Rick Simpson Oil (RSO). You will have a difficult time finding it though outside of North America.
Cannabis oil is good for the same things that non-oil cannabis is good for. The only difference is that it is consumed differently. Cannabis that is taken into the digestive tract also works a little differently - it lasts longer and you get more of a "body high" out of it than you do with vaping/smoking.
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American man messing around with propane tanks? Sounds like he learned how to cook from his Esan girlfriends.
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15 hours ago, Bangkok Barry said:If you haven't found women who take care then you're mixing with the wrong people. My observation, after living in Thailand for 25+ years, is that it is the women who run the country while many of the men are lazy and believe the world owes them a living purely on the grounds that they are men and therefore automatically superior.
If women are at fault, it is in raising them that way, as little princes who can do no wrong. But to state that women are a burden says far more about you than it does about them.
The women I've been with in thailand were all a burden.
I'll never forget when I just got back from the hospital in bangkok and I was running a fever and my second wife, who was an athlete, was pacing back and forward across the hotel room, and told me, word for word, 'I just want you to TAKE CARE OF ME A LITTLE. I'm HUNGRY'. Just like a child.
I looked at her and just about came completely unglued when I just deflated myself and turned over in bed away from her. She's too far gone for help. Entitled little pattaya miscreant.
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2 hours ago, Cat ji said:
Yes, but what about the visa? Marriage not an option for me, nor the semi-falsified education visa way - which doesn't last forever / very long term ... With [assuming] USA passport, multi-entry long-term visa it is easier than for others, but in 2010 they changed the regulations (and that was a mess for a long time, immigration officials all having different confused understanding of it)...which limited the number of times in-and-out in a year (iirc.)
And... ???? investing money, thank goodness i didn't get to that, because after the "demonitisation" abut 2 years ago, I realised that I couldn't trust the govt re that.
The culture you refer to...(and English) sure it would be better for me in many ways than Thailand/SE.Asia,...but yes, ok, wrt cannabis, although it is not consistent over the country, but you have that specific situation where you have it sorted. That's more important, but there are some odd things like rape charge based on a servant claiming you had promised to marry her, probably/sometimes in collusion with police. Guy I know (who has lived in Thailand for about 15 years now, with wife and grandson, and wife's farm in NE, and visited India (Puri) for few weeks every year...it happened to him - false charge of rape, detained for about 12 months (most of the time in hospital, thanks to a connection), the legal costs really took all his money, which seemed to be the reason behind it all.Anyway, I'd appreciate knowing what your plan is regarding visa.
Money is always the reason behind it all. I live out of a suitcase. So for me, going to the USA or to Cambodia at the end of every six month period is fine. I live in hotels anyway. Since I split up with my second wife and all my friends died, I don't really need the stable house with a car and everything anymore. Right now in cleveland I'm just renting a bedroom. So specially what visa? The ten year tourist visa. Period of each stay may not exceed six months. I always hear weird stories involving servants. Maybe best avoided.
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26 minutes ago, brokenbone said:
most woman here cant even take care of them self,
they are not an asset, they are a burden
Exactly. Most thai wives are full time exotic pets ;(
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3 hours ago, moe666 said:Excuse me you thought Thailand was bad wait till you hit India, dogs, cattle, monkes, dirt and garbage stacked a mile high, horns blaring, and the runs every time you blink. Been there a few times and no reason to go back. You can get a ten year visa but you have to leave the country every 6 months.
I just don't like the Thai people. As cold and harsh as that sounds, it's the truth. They dont like me much either so it's very mutual.
The kinds of problems you cite don't bother me at all and EVERYWHERE in India is not like that either.
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Are the stories about getting harassed by locals and the police for messing about with local women in Laos really true? Or is that mostly a thing of the past? I guess they didn't want their girls to end up like their Isan cousins.
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28 minutes ago, RoadWarrior371 said:Why India? That would be way down on my list of choices, and I have spent a lot of time there. The strong USD has made Malaysia much more attractive, so do give a glance to Penang or similar. Much preferred to India.
I can buy Bhang and golis at my friend's government shop legally in Kolkata and have a pretty decent flat in a safe district for $140-200/month. In Malaysia if I am caught with anything I'm looking at ten years. There's that, plus I just prefer the Indo-Aryan/West Bengal culture to the heart of SE Asia/Indochina. I lived in an around Thailand and Hong Kong for over ten years and I'm just completely over it.
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I guess its no secret that I went home.
I was married and could have stayed on Non-Os or I could have even borrowed a little money and got the extension of stay.
Like our friend here I had a little Esan gold digger wife who married me just for my meager income.
The main reason I left Thailand is actually because of her. I realised I married a nightmare relatively quickly and did not want to hang out where I could potentially be in physical danger (you never know with Udon people) and I just left. I left everything except my passport. I went to the airport and bye bye. I don't see myself going back to Thailand ever again.
Right now I live in Cleveland in the USA. About Cleveland? Well, its a weird town. Three blocks are nice, BMWs, lawn care services. Another three blocks and its a like Sarajevo in 1992. I am laid up in the hospital here at least through Christmas time. I'm willing to stay in Cleveland as long as it takes to get better though. I couldn't find the care I get there anywhere else.
After this is up I am going to be heading to India. I keep thinking of other options for me but keep coming back to India as the one for me.
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As the topic suggests, I am trying to get some feedback from those of you who have left thailand. Whether it's the new visa regulations for retirees or whatever.
Why did you leave thailand?
Where did you go?
Why did you choose the new expat location?
How do you like your new country? What are your thoughts? Is there anything you would do differently?
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6 minutes ago, Yinn said:
Hey senor jorge!
You ask, I try to answer for you.
But you not answer me. But want to talk everyone about with sex worker.
Is this what she say? Or you forget already?
Sorry I've been overwhelmed lately. Health problems. I'll pm you bro.
Jorge
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Also- were doing a new culture in a few weeks but he said that the fastidious organisms found in microgen testing is not reliable. He said that test Is too sensitive and a waste of time. Don't do it. Just get a regular prostate fluid culture. Microgen isn't even a real regular culture.
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3 hours ago, Farangwithaplan said:
Is that where i-phones come from?
If i-san made i-phones theyd be cut out cardboard boxes made out of old plan b and condom boxes with cheap electrical wiring inside and a screen made of plastic clingwrap
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Most people have a very strong compulsion to have children by a certain age. I think that if people did not have a need to have children, and more humans were made in a factory somehow or something, basically everyone would use prostitutes, or one night hookups.
Marriage is such a financial burden. The one real benefit you get from it is the prospect of children. You take away the children and.. why would men and women do this to each other? Marriage is a terrible thing on its own without some of the other perks and benefits like children and taxes.