As a poster above commented, your attorney is clueless because all they need to do is send her the documentation to sign through a courier service, which she then returns to the attorney by mail. This whole process should take about a month, and cost you around $2,000 including costs and fees, depending on your attorney's fees.
Alternatively, I suggest you visit and speak with someone at your local courthouse, specifically a supervisor, and inquire if you could complete the whole process on your own.